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  1. highonyou
    how about handing the phone into the police? It looks like harassment to me and the authorities should sort it! But i like the plan with an angry male mate yelling at her to leave you alone best.
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    I don't really think he's trying to break up with me, i think he genuinly feels a bit crowded since we have spent alot of time together under the same roof. It might just be due to him being an only child and comfortable with solitude and being with me so much is a bit overwhelming for him. We've been together for 3 years now and its seems too trivial to throw it all away. Perhaps taking a break from each other will do us some good, he's got plenty of space to think things through and quite a bit of time since uni doesnt start again for us til the end of September.
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    Hey everyone Got into a bit of a rough patch with my bf. For the last couple of weeks i've been feeling really neglected and actually got the courage to talk to him about it. The thing is that he confessed to feeling stifled by me, we only really see each other at the weekends, but sort lived together for a month or two during exams at uni. So im thinking that maybe he's just not getting over the whole crowded feeling he had when we temporarily lived in my flat, which is frustrating as its affecting how we communicate with each other now we are living back home over the summer. We wont be seeing each other til well into September when next term starts, so why is he distancing himself from me now? We live very far apart and used to talk to each other about random things every other night. Now im lucky if its every other week. Thanks
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    Oh Dear its the exam period at uni, everyone's frustrated. I left a post before asking for advice about my flatmate and how she may be a narcissist. I'm pretty sure she is now... things in the flat have recently escalated!! i went crazy on her. i couldnt help it...she just kept complaining about how difficult revising for her oh-so-much-more-difficult-than-anyone-elses exams, while i had cleaned the flat, made dinner and washed the dishes by myself plus hours of revision without complaint. my bf wrote her a letter on my behalf before hand just in case i couldn't say what she needed to hear. it outlined the facts e.g she doesnt do the dishes, clean the bathroom, kitchen floor, etc... so my nice flatmate and i have decided she needs to learn to look after herself, i no longer cook her dinner, she's been going to a mates for dinner and takeaways... im feel a bit guilty letting her struggle like this, especially since its pushing her closer to a vulnerable mate of my bf. any ideas on how else to handle her? i would like to stay in the flat next yr with my other flatmate, but i dont know if she'll shift.
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    hey there! yeah sumtimes i dont cum when my bf is massaging or fingering me, but i have read and tried this tip - it does work! - part of an orgasm is building up and sudden release of tension from the body, try straining ur legs while he is massaging and fingering you, especially when it begins to reach the point where u cant take anymore...works for me anyhoo. and oral sex...well if ur worried about the weird smell or the hygiene aspect of his penis, u could try giving oral in the shower, tis very comfortable and clean! or if that doesnt seem like a good idea to you, try a flavoured condom. i recommend orange, it has the strongest flavour of the ones ive tried!
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    i going to go with her slightly dysfunctional family background, mum and dad divorced and seeing other ppl, has an older sister with alopeacia. has only had 2 other b/fs before the 1 shes got now, it took 7 days to go from last 1 to this 1. i guess thats all i know
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    Oh yes she is very irratating, at first i thought she was desperate for conversation, then its all about her. Quite fitting the narcissus flowers are just daffodils, you'd think they would be more impressive by the way they sound...just like the person
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    i dont see any problem dear, as soon as he hits 18 no one will care either
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    ive known kirsty for 2 years now, and i think she may have narcissism. i thought she was just attention seeking, but her behaviour is far beyond that. Whenever we go out with mates, she has to be the centre of attention. she comes up with the most irrelevant statements to the conversation we are having, eventually the convo ends up being about her or she's doing all the talking. At our flat, she just wanders into my room and talks about her boyfriend, and how much money he spends on her like that impresses me. she talks about all our friends in a negative light, especially girls. it's crazy but i think she is jealous of everyone. no, she's never talked down to me to my face, probably because she needs me. i do all the work in the flat, cook wash, clean, u name it. is she a narcissist or am i just being paranoid and angered that she does nothing to help?
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    OMFG! he called last night! i thought he was just checking up on me since i had been in a car accident, he'd been calling every other night this week since a friend told him about it. but last night the convo changed direction... he really misses me and doesnt want to be with anyone else except me. I...am...breathless i really am over the moon, i never thought it would come to this. Thankyou all for your support! xxx
  11. highonyou
    hello everyone well, after the whole sex buddies arrangement kicked in, my ex and i became even closer as friends. Yes i broke the "rules" we agreed on and i became very attached but didnt let him know how i really felt about him. well the problem is that i get the feeling that he has been getting attached as well, treating each other like when we were going out again. no one knew we were still sleeping together. when drinking with3 other friends, we were all laughing how my ex before the one i love has turned gay apparently (another story), he then winks at me and tells me "now you have a better boyfriend". friends looked up but didnt question it. but what really hurt was that he started celebrating the fact that he had all next year to try and get another girl's phone number in his law course what does this all mean? was he covering up the fact he made a mistake in declaring he was my boyfriend? Or is he just sleeping with me until he finds someone better? cheers
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    well done on being so close after a break up! i suggest maybe you should keep doing what you're doing, she may suggest getting back together later but it could be that she really does just want to be your friend. just wait and see what happens over summer, i'm sure she'll let you know how she feels
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    i read that somewhere too. if a guy has curry semen tastes bad, eats some cinnamon taste ok. yeah i dont mind swallowing for the guy im with, i didnt notice he came but he was so happy so i'd be happy to do it again
  14. highonyou
    i think this is all stemming from your childhood. you were taken advantage of and it is affecting the way u see other people. you do not owe any one sex whatsoever! do you know what you're doing when you are chasing other men? i too was abused as a child and know that i am very insecure and develope a dependence on stable boyfriends i think it would be best to talk to the father of your children, ask for his help to get you out of this way of thinking
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    i think im going to try minimal contact between us, perhaps even NC. im not sure if there is any point to asking whats going on, he seems comfortable mentioning what girls he likes from his uni course when we talk, perhaps im looking for something that isnt there. it would a hell of a lot easier to get over him if he never said "i love you". perhaps asking will just make things more difficult and complicated.
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    i plan to take a test in the next few days when my period is due. he just left my bedroom a few minutes ago, i didnt have sex with him this time! yay. we just talked, but it confuses me how he cuddles up to me while sitting on my bed. it always ends up as us lying side by side with his arms wrapped around mine and im in his arms. i dont want to lose that. i really want to know what is going on between us, i know he sees me as more than a friend, im just not sure what feelings he does have for me and im not sure how to go about asking. things were very awkward between us and for our friends as we all saw each other everyday and i dont want to bring that difficulty back. i would do anything for him, but i dont want to go through the hurt of a break up again
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    my ex and i broke up 4 months ago after i made the mistake of accepting a dare to kiss a female friend for free drinks. He seemed fine about it at the time, i didnt think he would be so offended since he kept a photo of the kiss on his mobile. anyway, the following months were unbearable and i did my best to be his friend but was difficult as it hurt so much to be around him. i handled my grief better as time went by, but i still couldnt let go. we became such close friends since i couldnt bare him not to be in my life at all. then last month the sexual tension between us was unbearable, and we agreed to a one night stand. i then suggested in the following days that we become sex buddies to help with stress over the exam period. he has told me that he feels guilty about sleeping with me as he doesnt want to hurt me, but does it to make me happy. he treats me like i his gf when we are alone together. im so lost without him, he confessed that he wasnt getting on very well when we were apart, im hoping that he still loves me. where do i go from here? bit worried as i think i may be pregnant, i missed a pill at the beginning of a pack, this was a few days before we first slept together. im terrified he might think i planned this to get him back. i dont want to lose his trust or friendship again.
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