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metrogirl last won the day on May 16 2013

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  1. Have you dated a woman with kids before? We tend to want to spend time with them especially if they have been away for any length of time and they probably want time with their mom which is kind of hard to have if she is on the phone with you. Just relax. If she likes you, she isn't going anywhere.
  2. He likely did what he needed to do to land a hot 18 year old, now that he has you he doesn't need to do much else because he knows you probably won't go anywhere. I'd honestly go back home to your parents and let him be an unhealthy 40 year old.
  3. You don't know that he doesn't already know. He may know and choose to stay with her for whatever reason. I think you are coming from a place of anger and resentment and I believe you really want him to suffer the way you have suffered because she isn't the one that will hurt if he leaves her. She will just get up and find another man, any man or even your ex husband.
  4. So this is a completely new guy yet very similar to the last one?
  5. I never would have guessed you guys were 50/60ish. This is more like 20/30ish behavior. Either way it isn't healthy and he needs to knock it off.
  6. I can't read through 36 pages of posts but geezus, why are you still with this guy? I remember your posts from early on, we have been members here almost the same amount of time and several if not most of your threads are about him being a complete jerk every time you two go at it. When is enough, enough? How can your son fulfill your wish for him to be a good husband when he doesn't get to witness what a good man is?
  7. Hi Renny... You know that is what killed my dad. I know I have talked about it before, either here or on facebook. He was a long time smoker, quit for 8 months, went back to smoking and eventually got quite ill. He was on many of the medications Tim's mom is on, he was also on oxygen. When I moved him in with me, he lived for another 8 months smoke free but he died anyway. Honestly, smokers that are diagnosed with COPD that continue to smoke are signing their death warrant. Even if she stops smoking now, her lungs are far too damaged. It was the saddest thing ever, to watch my dad
  8. If it were a power thing for him as he stated, he could have sexted with you. A little dirty talk throughout the day, a picture here and there to spice things up with you but he did that with another woman. You downplay it like it was really no big deal, he didn't want her etc etc but he wanted her enough to continue to sext her throughout the entire relationship. Don't make excuses for his behavior. If you make excuses now, you will have to make more excuses later.
  9. Wow, that really sucks. I'm sorry it didn't work out for you either. I grew up an only child, always envied my friends that had siblings. It was scary to find out I had a brother but also really neat. I'm saddened that he isn't as curious about me as I am him. I see his facebook, the pictures of his son and grandchildren. They are my blood, a nephew. How cool would that have been? I always wanted to be a sister and an aunt. I would have been an awesome aunt. :(
  10. No worries..... I wanted to go and edit and post and couldn't recall if we could still edit or if the edit feature was only good for x amount of time like it used to be back in the day. lol I have spent way too much time away and I forgot how all of this works. :)
  11. Hi everyone I was thinking about this place and thought I should stop in and say hello. Still alive and well, I guess anyway. LOL We are coming up on our four year kidney transplant anniversary. Man, time really flew by didn't it? Jesse is doing well with the kidney. He had been dealing with mild rejection for almost 2 years but they think they finally have it handled. He is still dealing with some other medical issues but nothing too crazy and for the most part is doing well. Nothing new going on with me. I decided to take the Ancestry.com DNA test last year. I was looking
  12. Wow what a sad story.... Sucks that he cheated but it sucks more that she is married to someone that is ill and wants out. Read my journal here, I have been with someone for 12 years. He has a myriad of health issues, I gave him kidney. I could never, would never cheat on him. In my darkest days and there have been many, I have never thought about being with another man. Hope it all works out for you.
  13. He is awaiting his own machine. I was hoping it would be here by now. This reminds me, I need to call the sleep clinic tomorrow and make sure they did in fact order his machine. He is eager to get on it regularly. He said he noticed he slept better the two days he had the loaner. He is retaining fluid again. Giving him 40mgs of lasix a day to help pull some of the fluid off but it isn't working and I foresee a trip to the ER soon. I feel like we are never going to get off of this roller coaster.
  14. Grateful for being able to juggle so many things at one time.
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