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If you can spend the time on the foreplay, its much better. She can orgasm while having sex if you absolutely tease her beforehand. And for the guys who orgasm too soon - try distracting your mind. Generally, an orgasm is a result of both mental and physical pleasure. Next time you feel you are going to orgasm too early, start trying to work out the alphabet, backwards. =P The distraction helps immensely.

Unfortunately, he has just got worse. I feel for him. We could very possibly be putting him down tomorrow. Whenever I think about euthanasia, my right arm gets sore.. very strange..

and no, i didnt make a move. maybe another time.

i saw her today.. this message might be a little bit screwed cuz im fairly drunk.. but still a good typer =D Okay. Went to the city today with her, and 3 other girls. Spent most time with her, i think. I also think that another girl that came likes me, so that could be a problem, but should be alright i guess. i hope. =P well. more life story.. today. she was amazing, like usual. She's so.. considerate. She thinks like I wish i thought. Special. Mm. I just want to hug her more and more. oneday. hopefully. ill get to look after her. i want to buy her flowers. im not sure how her best friend feels about it. we're really close kinda, which is really nice. A mate and i went to her house tonight, and spent the night taking photos and video of us on the floor. Stuff like that makes me really love life. Where would we be without those we love.

we went to another vet and stuff.. he gave him an antibiotic injection, and now we have antibiotic tablets for him, special vitamin food that we're feeding him using a syringe, and special milk. There is a chance he could get better, but we could just be unnecessarily distressing him. (he's not particularly fond of being moved from a hiding spot, then fed) I dunno what we should do..,

Well. I won't be seeing her til the weekend, so I must wait for now.. But still progress anyway =D I talked to her best friend about it. She.. doesn't feel its her place to say a lot, but there is an agreement that she is truly unique =P Her friend said that guys have asked about her before, and she didn't really want to go through it again, even to me. I think she wants me to ask the girl about it. I'm lost at the moment though. Part of me wants to go for it, but the other part wants me to sit back, see what happens. I don't want to be too pushy or fast - she's just too. innocent kinda thing. I don't want to spoil that =P

mm. thanks guys. yeh, i knew i didnt wanna freak her out or anything =P I'm just so amazed that anybody could be like her. ill see how this goes. gonna talk to her friend about it =P

He hasn't been eating for 5-6 days now. He is also relatively old, I am guessing about 12. Mum believes the vet said something about the liver is breaking down. I would like to get a second opinion, but he does look like he is very warn down, and he is rather old/somewhat fat, and a second opinion costs more money. The vet said he'd live for two more weeks if we did nothing, but she said we should be doing something. Hmm. i dunno. its hard.

We took my cat to the vet. apparently, after some blood tests, he has some form of problem with his stomach. The vet seemed useless though. But she said we shouldn't do nothing, because he is probably in pain. He seems like hes not well, but im not so sure he and i want him to be put down. i need help. my last cat died of cancer last year, and that was very sad. we had him put down. any comments much appreciated.

mmm. I dont think mentioning the name matters so much, as its only first, but ive edited regardless. I also think ive made it sound like I'm pretty new to the dating scene.. I'm in year 11, and have had multiple partners. yeh.. i think im going to go for the body language more touch seems to be a great method of attraction also. thanks for the reply

eventually, when you're both closer, the conversation will be so natural you won't know how you ever managed to have nothing to say.

only ever get a phone number from the chick herself. never ever just take it, from anywhere. she has to give it to you.

you look young, but you can work with that. Be authentic. be friendly. most important thing is to be funny - dont take life too seriously. if you simply cannot bring yourself to shorten your hair, let it grow. your hair needs to be more laid back. drinking will help the shyness. its probably bad to mention, but drinking will definently ease those nerves, and maybe give you the ability to express yourself better to chicks, and get to know them. numbers + msn are always good.

I.. just have to express myself. Thank you to everybody who takes the time to read and comment this. I am. extremely attracted to someone. I met her.. bout a year ago. It was at a friends party. We sat in the dark, and she turned to me and said "Hi, I'm *her name.*." She said it with such authenticity. So friendly. And you could just tell that was who she is. We talked slightly, and had a nice night. the thing about her is that shes so. light. as in, her personalitys just so.. almost as if shes slightly drugged, but in a nice way. i dunno. very hard to explain somebody like her. ive never met anybody like her. aaaanyway. didnt talk much after that. but this year ive seen her more and more - only when weve been at the same place at the same time. Party's, events, etc. helps when you have similar friends. shes not an msn person, and doesnt use myspace often, so that limits "casual online talk". sadly. lately, ive been increasingly more attracted to her. everytime i see her she proves that she really is who she is. Amazing. So so so so genuine, but not in the typical way. like, she doesnt try to be genuine. I'll try and explain her, but mind you, no word's can do her justice. Her best friend said something about her last night that went like this: "She's so great, because no matter how unfunny you've felt all day, you can just have a chat to her and feel like you're a real comedian." She appreciates so much. and finds most things people say funny. and she finds them genuinely funny. she loves life. ive never heard her mock anyone, and have seen her being concerned for others. People tend to have protective masks. We often mask ourselves, even though we dont realise it. it's almost a survival instinct. even the most outrageously open people have inner feelings they dont let out. the great thing about her is she doesnt seem to have the mask. Last night, 8 of us went out to dinner, her and i included. Her and i shared a bond. We sung songs together. We did beetle's album cover photos together. we went to safeway, and together looked for icecream and cones. i was sad to see her go, later, after we'd walked back to a friends house. Still, I don't even have her number. everytime she hugs me, i feel like. this weird feeling. as if im hugging the goodness of the world. as if im hugging proof that there are good people. id love to hug her constantly - but i cant. were just friends. should i act upon this? or should i let the relationship develop as friends for now? As much as i'd love to be with her, id hate to lose her friendship.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Does that really work? any bits i could skip out on?

@equinox what did you use? I'm interested. I have mild acne, but it's ongoing and very annoying. Id love any good suggestions, as I was considering proactiv, but have changed my mind from this thread

Although I'm not the best christian, I am certain god has had major influences on me in my life. I've hit lows, and wondered of god's existence, when something seemingly random and miraculous happens, and I realise somebody is watching over me. Prayers are answered. Just maybe not as expected.

Pashing is...well....pretty much kissing. Just kissing a lot, and continuing it. So can anybody help? Turns out im not going to Sydney, so Ive got time. But I seriously was going to go 2 sydney tomorrow, but we have changed plans.

Being only 13, I wasnt sure how far my girlfriend wanted to go with me. Well I found out today that she wants to go as far as I want to, but for now we are just going onto pashing. We have been dating for about 2 weeks. Does anybody have any tips on pashing besides go with the flow? Ive never pashed anyone before. And do you have to use your tongue when pashing? Should I? I would really appreciate if you could all answer as soon as possible, as I am seeing her tomorrow and we will be pashing then because I am going to Sydney the day after tomorrow for a week. Thank you to everyone who contributes information about pashing for me

hmm...i know this is going to sound stupid to some people, but it makes a lot of sense. Try not to see ur bf as much. But dont see any other guys either. Dont have sex with him for as long as possible, and dont touch yourself over him. Try and get him out of ur mind. U will start to crave your boyfriend. You will want him sooo bad. And eventually, when you've had too much, then give in to all your temptations. People want what they cant have, so the concept of cheating (sadly, and annoyingly) can easily become a sexual fantasy. I also sometimes (i hate to admit it) think about my ex in that way...even tho i dont want to. When i was going out with my ex, i occasionally had very deep fantasy's about my current girlfriend. Now that i'm going out with her, I have (occasionally) quite deep fantasy's about my ex. It sounds bad, but its human nature. Hopefully your temptations for this other guy will slowly fade away... Hope for the best!

Thanks everybody for your help! She told me yesterday that I didnt kiss her as much as she kisses me, so I wanted to try and do something about it. Thanks again for your help!

My girlfriend and I have only been going out for almost 2 weeks. We are both 13. Our relationship has been going great, were both really close. By close, I mean REALLY close...Im not going to say anything else Well, to my problem, recently shes been kissing me a lot. The problem is I dont kiss back as nearly as often as she kisses me, maybe because Im a bit worried it wont be as nice. I just cant seem to get my kiss right... I've kissed other girls before, but not as much as her, so I think im starting to really notice my kiss. Can anybody give me any advice on the topic? Thank you

Girlz like jewellery. Especially silver necklaces, with their birthstone inside. Its best to get one which looks clear and simple. Remember to not spend too much money on her, because you cant buy love, but definently give her some hints that you like her and that you care about her.

Try and involve yourself with something that they are doing. I find that the best way to talk to a girl I dont really know, is to maybe help them with something. Or you could "accidently" do something which interrupts what they are doing. Try and be natural, and dont move too quickly. Its best to first establish a slight friendship with her.

Today I flirted with her a fair bit. The "other girl" flirted wif me a little bit but i sort of rejected her, and it made the girl i like feel special. Her names Stacey by the way. I talked with her a lot, and tried to hold her hands whenever possible. I pretended I was just playing around wif her, lol. A lot of people know I like her now, including the "other girl". Shez fine with it, so that problem is solved. The "other girl" (because shez her friend, and she talks to her lots) said that Stacey was really happy bout me liking her, so thats a good sign. I hope everything stays well...Im thinking about asking her out tomorrow maybe. Has anybody got any ideas about how I should do it, what I should say, and when I should do it?