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When he initiates, never engage. BRACE

Running after newfies grows exhausting! KNEES

The entire Me'Shell Ngedeocello album "Bitter" from 1999

When I have a reaction that sounds like yours in the prior post, reacting to his asks of your time, my impulse is to have a strong counter -- The answer is almost always my NEXT idea, which is to reply in moderation, in a way that still meets my goal. "I'd love to see you but tonight's not good for me; I might not be very good company. I would love to spend the weekend with you though. That sounds lovely." Or, "Tonight is perfect! This weekend, I have a whole day's worth of errands and the like. How about if I bring myself out to your house (even better if by Uber/RideShare/Bus...) on Saturday afternoon?" If we agree then they never adjust.

The Quiet American Michael Caine, Sissy Spacek, and especially ? GF character whon I don't know. She did a great job. 1987, based on a novel by Graham.Greene. Excellent.

Elton John, the Captain Fantastic album start to finish.

Mom, what's up with this? What do you think of it? I don't know what to make of it, so I just focus on my own situation. You used to scoff at men who had to be ready, money, path, plan. I get both sides... but you're right, life is always unfolding. Seriously, Mom, you were no good at some things. But some things, you hit out of the park. Things that matter. People need you down here. So, you know, keep doing what you do, please. Also, if you want to let the one go, I understand. I can't tell the outcome. I mean, I'd love for you to keep him, youre his last shot. Also, mom, sweet ××. She needs you deeply. She needs that unconditional love thing you have. Actually, she really needs to be your top priority. Maybe you're already on the case. Thanks mom. Me

Nobody loves me but my mama, and she could be jivin too. One of the best lines ever.

Hey you. I saw this thread and thought... how long has it been, anyway? It isn't hard, you know. It's a little tentative; I wouldn't want my own past thrown back in my face quite yet, but then, who does. And will I ever? Doubtful. I feel I've said goodbye to you and that you are gone. I do not expect you to come back. I do not expect ever to hear from you again, actually. You are too weak to stick your neck out like that. And why would you. Low hanging fruit bounces about around your feet, enjoying your most stupendous sex and graceful disposition. It's like, you've sold yourself. It's just, blech. Awful. You wrote me a note a week ago that said you were doing a lot of work on yourself. Well, good. I'm glad of it. I'm glad I had you, the experience forced me to find a new layer of whole-ness, and it is fantastic. My dear, my most enchanting friend non friend, you let go of the highest quality woman whom ever has graced you with her company. I know you feel the same. But you did the right thing. I am not and have no desire to be like the women you have chosen. I think maybe I was a rebound, or a fantasy, someone you thought might bring you that life you watched your parents build. Your life has to come from within you, now as always. Her house is nice. I see you living there within the next 12 months. Keeping an apartment for school purposes. It unfolds, doesn't it, unless you stop the momentum. You won't stop the momentum, you never have. And so, your future is written my friend. How odd that you yourself can't see it. Bon voyage. We'll never speak again, not unless your life changes direction. Though, sadly, there may be occasion one day to pay respects, and I would like to do that at that time, for him. I'm glad I asked you out, I'm glad I got what I was looking for, and I'm glad you ended it, and I'm glad I ended the last. And I'm glad I'm done.

Supersize Me Excellent. Alarming, even given that I am already on board with the content.

Chicks love our cute kittens. (Ugh, sorry for that swful sentence.) PROUD

Dear Mom, it's been longer than usual. I think I am on the healthiest path ever. Guess what? No man out there is worthwhile. "No" is an exaggeration, but I get it. By definition, if I'm doing this right, then of course that's how it is. What do you think of this David like fellow? I suspect you find him rather charming. He's awful at dating, but then, not as awful as I think he is. Also, you didn't pick the best courter either, and I get why and am glad for it. Mom, if one more man tries to impress me with money or power I am going to end up a feminist activist. What do people think of women, anyhow??? What do they think of themselves, to sell themselves like that? Also, mom, you know the one. I know he makes our stomachs turn but would you please keep looking after him for me? He's trying, and he's not going to make it, but if anyone can save him, you can. I don't know what we do about #2-will he be okay? I think so? She seems okay despite the chaos. And they mirror each other somehow, right? So, given that, I think this is good. I'm hopeful, anyhow. Mom, I'm doing a good thing. But it's getting a little old. Can you turn him, so I get a little more companionship out of this growing friendship? I'd appreciate it. I know he'll plan it if he has to. Mom? By the way? You were right. It does cloud ones thinking. I draw different conclusion, but like everything else, since your time science has proven what you already knew. Just so you know. Oh, did you the most recent grades? Isn't that fabulous? Thank you for the help you've been providing. I can tell the ship is turning. I don't think I've learned patience but I have learned to trust in and commit to the process. I'm getting there... 30 years later, but I was always late for stuff. So, yes, I need your help. And so does my lost indulgent neighbor who is dancing with the devil. And so does #2. You've got room for all of us, always have. Don't stop now, mom. We need you down here. Thanks Me

The transitions are epic

LOL I love that show, and I have a nephew like your son. I am grateful the show illustrates love / affection / value the way it does.

George Gershwin's Rhapsody in Blue.

I can relate!

I just don't feel like leaving my chair. Sometimes, having to get up and go to the bathroom is a bummer.

Amen sister. It's not present down here either.

Jonny Lang Good Morning Little School Live in Paris 1997

I have felt something like this myself, most recently before Christmas. Definitely different... something about isolation versus connection?

It's a Wonderful Life

Today's Google doodle is my favorite

Hey, d face. You want to read everything I wrote and consider it. You want me to wait before I draw conclusions. For what, exactly. You on a white horse? Is this really going to.play out the way i have always said, such that the both of you become focused on me at the same last moment? It was late the other night. I love you, itic. I love you, mwfn. Yeah, that is dysfunctional. Cut me off. Ive cut tjes.

Getting over a letdown sucks. SLANT

Clearly, he eats at theaters. THUMB