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WHY OH WHY won`t people listen to you for one second instead of jumping on their high horse and riding of into the sunset. Why can`t some people forgive and forget? We are only human after all. This brings me to the subject of my ex girlfriend who, for one year has completely avoided me since she `dumped` me over the phone. And in the mean time I have done everything possible to make it better, be nice to her family, who still support me after five years, respect her privacy, work on my own failings etc etc. And, yet, NOTHING. What do I have to do to sell my soul to the devil? To err is human, to forgive is.....impossible? Yes, I still love her and always will, which is why I will always be in limbo until we can sit down together and talk again. Sorry I just had to get that off my chest.
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Thanks John, only just read that, we really are in the same boat as are a lot of people here. It will work out for both of us in the end Im sure, I just wish my ex would say ONE WORD to me.
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Thanks, nice to hear. I still think we are meant to be together which is why I`ll never let go, Im just starting to realise that fact now.
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im not able to write anymore
Gaz replied to dpressedone89's topic in Poetry, Prose, Art & Photography's Topics
Writing is a great way of expressing your feelings be they positive or negative, she should respect that right and keep her comments to herself, don`t tell me her web address because I`ll probably flame her! Don`t stop writing poems, and don`t worry about minority opinions. -
Help, I'm so depressed over my ex
Gaz replied to taylorb's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
Its hard to deal with as most of us know but you must go on and try to do the best you can to take your mind of it or it will start to consume you, like it did me. It took me a long time to realise that no contact really meant no contact but by then it was too late. Good luck, your in good hands here. -
Just to show that it was a year ago here is my somewhat embarrasing first ever post which is what lead me here link removed Is Bamber still around?
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Hello again. Its been over a year since my ex left me and I still think about her alot each day, I still miss her very much and still think she is the best thing that ever happened to me. She is with someone else now, a guy from America (We`re British) and it really hurts because she STILL wont even talk to me. I don`t think I`ll ever stop feeling this way but it isn`t stopping me from getting on with my life its just that I thought, by now, I would have moved on. I guess I love her too much to do that. I just hope that one day I`ll be able to look at her pretty little face again, even just to say `Im sorry`. Thanks for listening.
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I like the analogy! I have to agree actually, I think it is good to have a protective layer there and does keep the head nice and *sensitive*. The only problem I have is that once the foreskin has gone back its hard to get back on! And can be TOO sensitive if getting a BJ with the foreskin pushed back so I end up scrambling to get it back on again. Anyone else had the same problem?
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I forgot to say be yourself and relax. Its no good putting on a show because people can see through it. If people don`t like you for who you are then move on. Let the inner person inside you come out, your real character.
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I know how you feel. Sometimes its like your giving everything and getting nothing in return but things you do don`t go unnoticed by the people that really matter. Try something different maybe. Is she involved? Is she hurt by a past relationship? Keep trying good luck.
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Nice to be back again. Missed you all. Im feeling a bit low at the moment because Im thinking about my ex and I don`t seem to have any close friends anymore and the only girl Ive had an interest in since my ex has just left the county so Im finding it hard at the moment. Plus my job is going nowhere but people are still supportive. I feel confused and angry with myself. What can I do to get my enthusiasm back? Drink is not helping either I just feel really alone at the moment. The only thing that helps is cycling. Maybe Im depressed or something any help would be appreciated.
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Ever heard the phrase `carpe diem`? If not look it up. I know what its like because I am in the same position as you, I had a gf for 4 years who I loved more than anything and it tore me apart when whe left me but now, 9 months later I find myself discovering the true me again and meeting women but being unsure as to how far to go. But I think that the best thing (for both of us) is just to go for it and follw your heart. Life is too short. I loved Jet Set Willy on the Spectrum too! What a classic! Good luck with everything.
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Does anyone have any good ways of stopping yourself from inadvertantly contacting your ex? I feel like emailing her everyday but I know I can`t!
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I have to admit that I couldn`t stick with the no contact rule very well over the last six months but reading these forums and listening to your advice I will now stick to it without fail. I just hope that by contacting her before I haven`t pushed her away too much. Im so scared of not seeing her again that is why I question everything. Thank you very much for your help.
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the no contact rule Im sure works very well but what happens if the other person assumes you no longer care about them and gives up hope?
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I never looked at it from that point of view, thankyou.
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I can`t decide whether to send my ex girlfriend flowers on Valentines Day. We haven`t said hardly anything to each other in six months except `don`t contact me ever again`. We were together for four years and had a great relationship, she always told me she loved me right up until the end. She split up with me over some problems I had which I thought we could get over but obviously she didn`t. But we had an amazing love for each other. Should I send her something or do nothing, HELP! G
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On the outside Im fine But on the inside Im torn I say Ive forgotten her But all I do is remember I try to move on But I only want to move back I want to understand But I really want her to understand I think of other people But I mostly think of her I hope I`ll find happiness again But I really just want her to be happy I try to hide from the pain But the pain always finds me I laugh and joke and smile But I cry and hurt inside People say it gets easier But for me its always the same I try to love myself But all I really love is her My life will go on But why can`t it be with the girl I love????????????????????????????
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I had the same problem when I was younger, I would go red if I wanted to talk to a nice girl but I am not the same now but all you have to do is relax and be yourself, it really is that simple. Just talk to him, but relax, don`t think about what your going to say, just be natural, be yourself. You sound very nice to me. Good luck, you don`t need it though.
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I think Ive worked it out now! What was happening was the chefs would use one side of the griddle all day thus gas was leaking out of one side BUT was being extracted at the time. When chef goes and the extractor is turned off the extractor was not shutting off the gas like it was supposed to thereforeeee leaking gas int the kitchen maybe slowly enough to not be concerned with because it was periodically on and off before the end of the day (usually 5pm). We would turn it back on to cook chips for 5 mins then off again mainly because it was too noisy. I could always smell fumes from the fryers and assumed that was the smell but maybe it was gas all this time. The griddle has been condemned and I will personally ensure it is burned alive and goes to hell. I feel a headache coming on...........
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Thanks anyway, even Im confused now!!
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i just have one more question, how would the pilot light come back on after the gas is turned off and then back on? And also if only one main light is on the engineer said the other side was leaking, but weve always used it with just one side on, so how could it be leaking undetected, thanks for your replies.
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actually I was gonna say thats why Im asking because for a long long time I have been having headaches, drowsiness, mood swings AFTER work all consistant with a gas leak and now its been condemned I dont get any? Thanks
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Thanks for that. I only ask because i work in a kitchen and an engineer recently condemned our griddle (hot plate) because it was leaking gas on one side but we could never smell anything? He also said that when we turned of the extractor (after the chef`s finished at four o clock) the pilot lights would go out on the griddle but when the extractor was put back on (it controlled the gas flow) it would just leak gas because there is nothing burning it off, but that would mean that it was like that for a very long time, going unnoticed, is it possible?
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I know this is a strange question but is it possible that gas could be escaping from a kitchen appliance for years without ever being detected and how much gas does it take to affect you mentally? If anyone can answer these questions or put me in touch with someone who can Id be grateful, thanks.