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Very confused....
dude69 replied to Isabella Bailey's topic in Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender
when i was 18 and my ex g/f was 16 she was kinda like you. I told her to just go and experiment. I am not the type to get all upset because she wants to kiss a few girls or even if she did something with them there no reason why i would get jealous. I think all woman are beautiful and i understand why alot of woman find their own sex attractive, or atleast admit it. What she use to do was she would be making out with another girl and then come and get me and let me join in the fun. I can't lie, i have to say i liked it also. Not all guys will think the same as me though, for example i know one of my buddies is totaly against that. Now im not saying you should do the same but all im saying that i think its normal that you have an attracting for woman and well maybe talk to your boyfriend about it if you can trust him (i hope you can) and see what he thinks. Good luck -
i didnt mean it as you being old, im talking within the last 3-4 years
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because you guys are in an hold generations where they use to look at it in a bad way. Im not saying that i totaly agree on the new generation, but its just like that.
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because todays generation of 13 year old are more mature then the 16 year olds and look older then them also.
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I believe you when you say that because i dated a girl who was abit more younger then me but she looked older then all the girls my age and also was usualy more mature then them when she was with me. Why are you so worried about her teaching you things ? How do you expect people to learn if we dont teach each other anything?
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hey tommy, I had a g/f who was younger then me and we both thaught each other stuff we didnt know. Its part of relationships, she will teach you a few things and you will teach her a few things. The biggest thing I would look out for is, is she on the same level of maturity as you? Girls tend to be more mature then guys so if you think you two are on the same page then i dont see anything wrong with it. Just remember not to rush anything because although you might not realize it right now but rushing tends to mess up relationships in the long run. Good luck
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I agree with you renaissancewoman but what if hes a type of guy who wants to be 100% sure that she likes him. Actions are usualy stronger then words. I understand where your coming from but i dont think he is the type of guy who just wants to play with her head. I think he just isnt sure how she feels for him and a simple kiss can make all the difference. If he still doesnt come out of his shell after that then I would agree with just staying friends and if he tries to do any moves on then you pull away. renaissancewoman, i know you have alot more experience then i do but everyone is different and there is always more then one way at looking at things.;-)
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like a couple of other people suggested, it might just be boring because there is probably nothing special about it anymore... you guys probably just get naked and have sex. Try playing some hard to get games, roleplaying, different places, in public where you know you might have a chance to get caught. Think about it, if you did something you liked the exact same way everyday you would eventualy get bored of it. Same goes with sex, if its more of a routine then anything else then i can understand why your not in the moods anymore. Be creative and let your mind run wild ! Good luck
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Even if he said he didnt have any feelings for you more then a friend i would still try to kiss him again if i were in your shoes. Guys dont always mean everything they say, especial if hes a shy type of guy when it comes to love & romance. He might just be telling you this to protect himself from a fear of being rejected. Any guy i know, if he wouldve kissed a girl, no matter how long they have been friends for, it would mean more then just a friendship. I think you should atleast steal one more kiss from him, dont ask him if you can get a kiss just take it. By you doing the move on him it might make him feel better and any bad thoughts that he might of had might just disapear. If he still doesnt give in then you might have to move on. Good luck with this, i hope you follow my advice.
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Depending on what those secrets are, I wouldnt tell him/her all of it until i knew i trusted them. To this day there are still some secrets that i havent told anyone ever in my life, why ? because they would bring more harm then good and it did not affect my life in anyway. Somethings are better left unsaid. Anyway, if its anything like how many people youve slept with or how many of them you slept with at the same time or anything extreme like that, well depending on the person it can scare them away. If someone thinks your to "crazy" for him and he thinks he cant keep up he might just walk away. This can work both ways though. If it was someone i trusted and was about to marry, i wouldve already told them by now. Things like how many sex partners, life experiences, my beliefs, my way of thinking. basically everything they would want to know i would not think twice before telling them.
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Maybe you should bring it up when he least expects it. Go spend a day with him as friends, get his mind as far away possible from that night and then before you two go your own ways home, bring it up to his face. Ask him, "what was that whole night about when you treated me like if i was yours and kissed me as proof." I know for a fact that i would never do that to a girl i didnt like. Maybe he is shy and well that night he was in the moment and maybe he got a bad vibe from you that made him think that you didnt like him. If he says it was nothing, then go up to him and kiss him again. it's a way of telling him, its ok to like me, because i like you. If he doesnt bite after the kiss.. then come back here and we will go from there Good luck, i know you can do it ! Women are the hard ones to understand , men are easy.
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wow, why would he mess with your head like that... either he has some secret feelings hes not telling about or hes gay. I don't know but something is fishy there..
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Atleast you let out what you wanted him to know. I have'nt read your previous posts so this is kinda just coming out from the top of my head. You seem to still be sad about your last relationship and well are you sure you really like this guy or do you seem him as someone to be with because you dont want to be alone ? Time can heal all wounds physical or emotional, so maybe you should use this time to get intouch with your inner self again and learn to be independent. Everyone likes having someone to love them and someone to love but you shouldnt have to rely on someone for you to be happy. I've been single for almost 2 months after a 2 year relationship, there is no girls in my life at all and sometimes when i get lonely i make sure that I know that when i least expect it someone will show up in my life. I hope you the best and remember to keep hanging in there, it really is worth it, I promise. Good luck
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Dont let her push you around. Stand your ground, if she tries to play some mind games on you make sure you let her know that you wont put up with it. If she knows you can live without her in your life she will think twice ( or maybe even 3 times ) before playing mind games with you. Hope this helps. Good luck
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makes sense, Thanks Beec
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would you say that once your found this person, he/she is your soul mate ?
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i have a question.. ive seen alot of people say that its not right for anyone to put their gf/bf on the pedastal... but what happens when the male puts his g/f on the pedistal and the female puts her b/f on the pedistal.. what happens then ? or is it just not possible for that to happen ?
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when you love someone and they love you too there is no reason to be uncomfortable.. i think that people who kiss with their eyes open might just be a sign that they are very comfortable with the person they are with and love them alot ? I was never able to close my eyes and my ex couldnt either. We staired at each other and smiled while we were kissing each other. i dunno if this actualy makes sense though
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im getting to your stage where when i think about my ex that the pain is not always there.. i dont lose my breath over her anymore. Ive been keeping myself busy. One thing i must admit though is that ive been happier then i am now but no worries, ill take this time alone to connect with myself on a deeper level. Im happy for you... gives me hope on how i will be in 2 months from now. Thanks!
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Ideas for what to do during french kissing?
dude69 replied to Hunny1607307342's topic in Relationship Advice
nibble on his ear..i use to love it when my ex did that to me... she was a great kisser. I was getting uncomfortable when she was kissing my neck because when ever she use to start kissing my neck it would end up being a hickey.. she loved to suck...on my nec that is. -
im the opposite, i think eye contact with the one i loved while sex made everything feel so much better. If its someone i dont know then yes i will kiss her with my eyes closed but if its someone i know and love my eyes will be open.. weird
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I wish i was hairless...
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I remember with my ex g/f we always kissed with our eyes opened unless if it was dark or in the morning when we were both to tired to open our eyes. My question is why do people even kiss with their eyes close... i loved my ex alot and well i didnt want to miss a second of her beauty. Am i the only one or is there actualy a reason why people kiss with their eyes open ?
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last summer i was doing my military training and well i had the chance to come back one weekend and she gave me a bunch of hickeys on my next... when the officer came to inspect us all he stop at me and said... HOLY f**** solider did you get hit by a golf ball this weekend, i smiled and said yes sir. Anyway after that though i was kinda afraid everytime she was kissing my nec because i didnt want to get another hickey on my next.. i told her if she wanted to give me a hickey so badly that she could do it somewhere that is not visible to the eye. I think its more something that we do when we are younger and not when we are older ( although its nice to feel young sometimes)
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Jimmer: ive been given a great deal of thought about what you wrote i think what your trying to say is that nice guys are to often whipped, and its the whipped ones that women dont want. Well what if there was something in the middle.. where the guy still did what made him happy (got the job he always wanted, did the things he always wanted to do) but at the same time one of the things he liked doing was making his girl happy. Because If i lookat all my past relationships I know that i wasnt at all whipped. I did what I needed to do even if that ment that i had to put my ex g/f off for abit. I consider myself a safe person and that was one of my turn offs that my ex use to always tell me about. The way i saw that is that she was just immature and didnt understand life. I know if i work hard now, i wont have to work so hard when i have a family. I think i was always abit to mature for my age and well maybe i should look at some older women instead of people my age. Im not yet wise enough to know exacly what i want, there are so many experiences that i havent lived. I guess that I still need to do alot of growing before I can have a clear picture of everything. The image is there, i just have to get see it. Btw for the people who said that nice guys finish last well let me tell you the ending of that saying that not many people know about. " Nice guys always finish last, but it's worth the wait" Thanks all