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thanks Jimmer that makes so much sense. I believe in your theory

When my ex use to try and deepthroat me i usualy told her not to try it because it hurt my "unit" more then anything.

Ive been hearing alot about guys who rather waxing then shaving. There is this type of wax ( girls help me out here ) that doesnt need to be super heater and you put it where ever you want the hair to be removed and then you take a cloth and just whipe it off and it comes off with the wax, no pain at all. Im not sure what this kind of wax is called but im sure someone on the forums knows.

First i would like to appalogize if this insults anyone in anyway. If been observing my buddies relationships with his g/f's for the last past year about. And well I couldnt figure out until a couple weeks ago how and why he kept getting all the woman. I mean if you put me next to him i stand about a foot taller and well I look 19-20 where as he looks like hes 14-15. Now you guys might think that im jealous but im not (well not completely).. what I cant figure out is that he treats all the woman hes with like i mean seriously like crap.. tells his g/f that hes going on vacation when this other girl he ment in another province is coming down and to see him. makes her walk home in the pooring rain (i left his house to go pick her up and drive her home because i felt so bad) Now I was thinking a bit about this and well im not very proud to admit it but when i think about my ex g/f and our relationship.. the time where she loved me the most was when i took her for granted and hardly paid any attention to her. And towards the end of our 2 year relationship I was realized that I wass being an and its the time in our relationship where i treated her the best and always put her first and treated her like she always wanted and shouldve been treated... and thats when she left me. Now well ive learned from my mistakes and I know how women should be treated but why is it that the second i start being to nice to a girl that they lose all interest in me? Do women secretly like to be treaten like crap ? Could someone add to my observation.. maybe its something im missing, im still young and i know there are alot of wise people on the forums that would probably know. Thanks all

Hey Phif, You seem to really like this girl and I know she likes you too. Not trying to make you regret anything but you shouldved kissed her that night when you walked her to her room. I know the feeling of being so nervous that you dont know what you should do and sometimes do the thing you didnt want to do. You seem to care for her alot and well there arent a HUGE amount of guys who will care for a woman the way they should be cared for. I know you said she was leaving to Canada to start college and well, not sure exacly where she is going but i would guess either Quebec or Ontario ( which isnt to far away from New yourk btw ) Anyway, this might take some guts to do but i know you will do this if you really like her/love her. Get in contact with her and tell her you want to go see her one last time before she leaves for college ( if im right there isnt much time left so you have to hurry ). Meet up with her, go have some fun with her and before you leave to go home remember to kiss her like you shouldve that night at the hotel. I can't guarantee you anything but i know from past experiences that if its not ment to be... well atleast you wont think back 10 years from now and think about what couldve been. I hope this helped you and well if fate doesnt think you two are right for each other then thats because there is someone better for you out there so never lose hope. Think about what I said and if you think it sounds right then do it Good luck Phif i wish the best to you.

you got me right on there... as long as im not alone long enough for me to think about it then i will be ok.. Theres this new girl that catched my eye and after tonight we were getting to know each other alot better... i must say that this help a huge amount. Thanks for all the advice guys

I havent had any sexual intercourse with my ex g/f for abit over a month and well.. I keep getting these pictures in my head of her sleeping with another guy and having sexual intercourses with him. I was her first and only sexual partner to this day and well a big part of the reason why she left me was because she wanted to sleep with other men. But now there isnt a day that goes by where i get an image of her sleeping with another guy and well the images of her enjoying it so much with another guy is what really gets to me, it feels like a knife being pushed into my chest. I try so hard not to think about it but it just always end up popping up in my head. Could someone please give me some advice? I hang around with friends all the time but its always the times where im alone (like when i go to sleeo at night) that it gets to me.

i did it, it was the hardest thing ive ever done. I went to go see her and touched her soft hair and her pretty face and before i left i kissed and hugged her. She ment the world to me i couldve spent my whole life with her and i woudlve never looked back. Im happy its over because i can grow stronger now but im afraid that I wont ever find someone who will love me as much as she did..when she did... she was all i had.. what kept me wanting to get up in the morning and all the memories i have after 2 years of being with her just haunt me all the time.... i dont know what to do.. I go out and i look at other girls and see that they are nothing compare what she was. She was the best thing that ever happened to me and now shes gone....

but i love her to much.. ive never loved anyone this much :S

so heres the thing, abit over a month ago my ex g/f broke up with me after a two year relationship. I was heart broken and have been miserable ever since. well after a month and a couple of weeks my ex g/f calls me and we talked for a good while and then i asked her if she wanted to hang out one night this week and she agreed. Well i must say after over a month of not seeing her i was so happy to see her, shes even more beautiful then what i remembered. Anyway during that day that we hung out we had alot of fun (probably more fun then when we were a couple) and well at the end of the night we ended up kissing each other and well it felt like it ment something. Anyway so i knew that the next day that she was going clubbing with her friends and I know before that night that we had that she told me that she was going there to look for a one night stand. I was her first sexual partner and to this point i still remained her sole partner. Anyway before she left she gave me a call and asked me if i could lend her 20$ ( in the whole 2 years i was with her she had never asked me for a cent). After the night we had on friday I was more then willing to give her $20. So I drove to her friends house where she was at that time and i gave her the $20 and i also gave her my cellphone because i knew that she was going to take some esctasy that night with her friends and i wanted to make sure that if anything were to go wrong that she would atleast have a cellphone to call me. When i met up with her at her friends house she came to me and kissed me and she thanked me for always being there for her and that she said that our break up is more like a break and that we would probably end up back togerther and well she promised me that she would not have sex with any guy that night no matter what because she knew how much that was bugging me. Anyway so the next day she calls me at around 6pm and when i asked her if she did anything she didnt respond. And then when i asked again she said that she saw my best friends brother at the bar and that she just "pecked" him ? My question to her was... what kind of girl just "pecks" a guy especialy if they dont know them... i dunno about u guys but if i was a chick and i wanted to kiss someone i wouldnt just peck them. Anyway after that she said that well her friend was the one that was making out with him. And then later on found out that this guy ( my best friends brother ) ended up sleeping over at her friends house and on top of that they were all sleeping in the same bed and this guy was so close to her all night that her cheek was all red from him having a 5oclock shadow. She promised and swore that she did not do anything with him but i dont know what to believe anymore. One night she is hinting to me that she wants to get back togerther and the next she is sleeping with another guy. Now my question is does this sound like im being played or do you think that she is telling the truth and i should get back with her ? The last couple of days ive been so happy but now i just feel hurt again and i dont know what to do. Please Help

hi and thanks for your reply, i am 19 years old. When i mentioned settleing down i ment it more towards a way of being more mature. I have a very good job making over 100k a year and it should double or triple in the years to come. I am very lucky to have such a job and well, i dont know many people my age who make close to that ( not to brag or anything ). Yes I do work alot but she never understood that the reason why ive worked alot was to get to where i am and not worry to much about money when im older. Back to what i ment about settling down, i ment it more towards a way of stop using drugs everyday. I personaly only smoked in my life but i never did anything like x or speed. Also its not the fact that i dont like to party, but with her being 17 that makes her under the legal age (18 is the legal age ) and well.. there isnt to many places we can go out togerther which will let her in , if any at all. I feel abit better this morning but i know there will be some more hard times in the future. Thanks alot guys

Hi guys, I desperately need some councleing. Heres the short part of the story. I was with my g/f for 2 years before she broke up with me. I was to mature for her she said, she was abit younger then me (2years) but that didnt change how much i loved her. She was right, we were in two different parts of our lives.. mine being more towards wanting to settle down abit and hers is all about drinking partying, smoking the most drugs and popping pills. I for one was never for that and she didnt do anything other then drinking/partying while she was with me and that was ok because i was always there to make sure she was ok even if i was also drunk. Anyway so she broke up with me about a month ago now and well I wasnt expecting it, we broke up 2 times before that but got togerther within two weeks. This time is different and i really thing its the real thing. After a month you would think i would be over her by now right ? well ive been hurting since the day she broke up and shes always been the first and last thing i think about during my day. I accept the fact that we wont be togerther anymore but the pain is still there. This is not my first g/f but its my longest relationship. When I first starting seeing my ex g/f she was a virgin and well i was her first. Anyway let me get to the point of this whole text, well i just want to stop hurting for her... my life has been so since and nothing is the same. I feel hurt all the time and i just want it to stop. One thing i know would stop it all is if she slept with another guy. As much as i dont want her to sleep with anyone, i really just want to get on with my life and i think its the only way I will get over her.... as much as it will hurt me at first, i think it would be better to hurt alot for a couple of days then to keep imagining what she is doing and if she is sleeping with a guy at the very second as i am writing this text. The reason why i think about her sleeping with other guys so much is due to the fact that she was a nympho ( always wanted to ) and all i can picture is her being like that with another guy. I have been keeping myself busy, been hanging around with friends, with other girls but I dont think i will ever find someone as good as my ex g/f was and i guess thats what hurts the most. im pretty determined to the fact that knowing that she slept with another guy will make my pain go away in just a few days instead of a few months or even years. Anyway guys thank you for taken your time to listen to me ramble and for those who leave me some tips,feedback i really appreciate it. -John