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    True. At least you had a beautiful day and evening for a night out Which direction are you going 100 miles N, S, E?
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    I think it was the spicy meatballs that got her this way. LOL ;-)
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    I have heard that sex helps induce labor. Also walking, walking, and more walking. Your little snickerdoodle likes being in mommy's tummy
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    Question for you....why are you meeting people where you are at now when your moving in 2 weeks? Seems counterproductive. Perhaps you should tell the lady before you meet in person that you will be moving in 2 weeks. At least give the heads up. That way you can just enjoy the company without any dissappointment.
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    Do you think that you may suffer from manic episodes? One moment you are down and depressed. The next you are going so fast you can't slow down? Have you thought of therapy? You posts as of late are really all over the emotion board.
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    It seems like you want it all and you want it now. Why do you NEED to have a ring from him? What does it matter? Also asking for things wouldnt you rather they offered them out of love for you not because they feel pressured by you to give it up? Perhaps you need to focus on you and not all the jewelry you speak of and if your hair is straight or curly. Just my two cents.
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    hmmmm this is all so interesting. I find that I am the one who is aloof at first and don't pay much heed to them. Then I switch gears and then come to find out they were never really available to me. This thread is so facinating. I truly am looking at things with a different perspective.
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    well when you are healthy and ready then you wont think that will you? You say you arent looking or EVEN ready for one but then what are the ads on CL and Match for? What is the talk of the fix up date? I dont see you as the casual non chalant dater. Hey I struggle with this one and you know what its all about me right now and who I want to be and what I will tolerate and not tolerate. Who like to have their heartbroken? Do you really think your the only one? Sorry my dear you arent. It is the pits and you know what it heals back up and you move on.
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    stop the incessant circle of unhappiness and dysfunction. You are not in a good place emotionally or spiritually for a successful relationship. As for the arranged marriage you think it would be easier to know this person is stuck with you! I would hate to know that this person is forced to be with me.. YUCK!! RW you need to fix you first and then the rest will follow. The relationship with T was dysfunctional, abusive, and look at the effects it still has on your heart and mind. If you are scared when you read about the fizzle after the3-6 month period then you know what....YOU ARE NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP!
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    Sometimes I feel they happen to get our attentions to something else. In one month I lost my grandmother, my b/f broke up with me, then I was fired from my job. It sucks and you know it made me realize somethings about myself. Oh i still have miles and miles to go in resolving some of these issues. However, had these events not happened I would not be on the road in the first place.
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    My friend put it to me like this... The 3 month mark is the Preview of the movie "You" You know how some previews are so great you want to see the movie and others you are eh so so on. Well after the 3 month mark either the preview was great or so so. That is when you know the honeymoon is over. You are so afraid of being alone that its clouding your outlook on things. Take a step back and just look at and work on you my dear.
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    Watch out they are as fattening as about 4 Big Macs.. HHWH I am really intrigued by this thought of yours. Girl you really know how to get me thinking in a good way your the best!
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    RW, I think the problem is you think that someone else will give you the happiness and peace you need in your life. And as you well know this comes from within you. Do you really want to put the burden of your stuff onto someone else? Thats a lot to deal with. I am no stranger to this and I am working my way out of this claustrophobic paper bag. I think that with the therapy and meds and school you will be able to put some of these ghosts to bed permanantly.
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    WOW! HHWH I never really thought of that myself. I mean do we even count the little relationships. I hear people telling me get back on the horse again. But then how many of my past relationships were bound to be over because of a rebound? Now you have me thinking about that. I may not feel so bad if they were rebounders. I will have to ponder this a bit more with a cup of good ol Seattle coffee ;-) You NJ people and your DnD coffee
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    I just feel that my timing is always off. That I speed up and that doesnt get me to where I want to be. Then everyone screams SLOW DOWN. By the time I realize it or hear it (sigh) again too late. I am looking for contentment, acceptance, love, and worthiness.
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    Hi Does anyone else ever feel like they are in a revolving door with life? Like you just cant seem to hop out. You see it but zipppp it passes up again. You can see that the out is coming up soon but UGH you miss it again. I feel like I am in this revolving doorway and everytime that opportunity comes up I miss it. My timing is always off. If you did feel like this how were you able to finally get out?
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    Yes but Yvette look at this from a rational side rather than an emotional one. This guy whom is giving up everything to move to you is ALOT. Now you have been questioning this for a few weeks now. That is good to question this. Like a poster said in a previous thread of yours. Why is this guy willing to give up his whole life for you? Yes physical attraction is very important but its all the rest that is a little blurry. You need to really sit back and think about this, is it really something YOU want. Do you want someone who is moving out and if things don't work out will you not feel a bit bad about it? He is there and if funds are low he is a bit stuck. Hun I have been in this spot and I was told by many many people that moving to someone you don't really know is not a good thing. I don't know? You are going to do what you want but just listen to your gut instinct it never lets you down.
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    If this is the guy who's moving all the way to you and You are now starting to question whether its the right thing....this is good. Perhaps you should reconsider you position on this. If you were truly into him and/or "love" him it shouldn't matter what he looks like. Cause looks can only take you so far.
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    Is your gut instinct rumbling? I think your starting to doubt yourself about this guy perhaps you should pay heed to it.
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    well what did they tell you on "loveshack?"
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    You still love someone who is obviously spiteful and gives no regard to you. Also someone who is manipulative as wanting you not to move on and be happy. My friend she wants you to sit in your pit and never get out. I would say that this is perhaps a blessing in disguise. Too bad your daughter has to see how she acts. Not good for her.
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    Well how will you know she wont alternate if you don't ask her? You asked her why she brings the guy but you didnt ask her to alternate times with you. I think if you come from a place that doesnt sound snide she might not react so defensively.
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    Well I think you are taking all this as a joke. If you want to be sexy confidence is where its at. Sexy isnt crassness and T&A.
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    WHAT?? Fake looking boobs and a wig? What are you going as Pam Anderson? The boobs part well you could get a push up bra or there are these inserts you put in your bra to makethem a little more ample. The wig thats going too far.. But I will tell you the best thing you can do to look SUPER SEXY.......shhh dont tell anyone......it's confidence and a great walk.
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