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  1. b4bycakes
    I just want to say that this is valuble information, Until three days ago I was doing all that, and feeling great about my self. My ex dumped me on Sept 1 I saw him one time and talked to him one time. Then he called me on monday, we saw each other on wed, got back together, just for him to turn around and dump me again last night, Whats up with that?
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    OKay So I have lost over 100lbs, but let me back up a little, I was diagnosed With poly cycstic overies 15 years ago. I never had a regular Period, (cycle). When I did my cramps where 2/3 that of a woman in labor. Painfull!!!! Well since I have began losing all this weight, my periods came back. On mothers day in may I started my period, and I have had one ever since then. I dont know how you all survive. I Hate it. But my question is this. I have been pregnant in the past, but lost it becouse of my PCOS. I am going to go to the dr. and have my hormones checked out, since I havent told my Speciallist that this is going on. THe regular periods, I figured out that my cycle is 32 days. When is the best time to get pregnant. I have done research. but if anyone has ever had PCOS and got pregnant without help from the dr. HElp Help
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    He never left me in a mean way eaither. He just said he had to leave. The last time telling me, it wasnt anything I did or didnt do. I know he loves me, and I love him. I just have trust issues right now. our relationship was perfect we never fought, or yelled or anything like that. We were happy. except for his coming and going. two days before he left, he promised we would get through this together long story. bought me roses, and a card saying how much he loved me yadda yadda, and then gone. I understand the hurt that he has gone threw in his life, and understand the stress of what we were going threw, he couldnt handle it. I understand that. And why he left. I dont have the time to tell you my whole situation so Ill just leave it at. God tests us everyday. He never gives us what we cant handle, and that only makes us stronger. I wish you luck.
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    I am on the other side of this story. The dumpie and not the dumper. So I know what your ex is going through. My boyfriend future husband, dumped me all the time. But he always came back, and by excepting him back I tought him it was okay. He left me two weeks ago. I have spent alot of time writing in my journal, and have come to realize a few things. I have no trust left with him. I trust him with my life, but I dont trust him with my heart. He tore my heart out and threw it away when ever he wanted. How could he love me, and hurt me soo. He didnt respect my heart. I gave everything to him, and he threw it away. WHen he comes back this time. I cant take him back, not like that. I do believe we are soulmates, and that God has plans for us to be together. But he has to earn back my love, and trust, and respect. Words from the otherside.
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    I left my husband whom i was in a marriage with for 5 years, it was bad. I rushed right into something that I thought was the one forever you know. He left me two weeks ago, and Im in the middle of divorcing my husband. I find myself missing my husband, but only because im missing my boyfriend. These things happen, We search for ways to make ourselves feel better, and end up feeling worse.
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    Just wanted to say that when you say You love them anyway it really helps My ex told me that everytime i was down on my weight, I weigh 260lbs, but a year ago I weight 397. Loving just the way they are is the best support you can give. Boost in self esteem, thats what helped me. I got dumped and I still fell good about myself. I look forward to going to the gym everyday, and I keep my head up. She will lose what she wants just love her no matter what, and let her know
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    Lostangel, I feel your pain hun, I am in the same boat as you. I have let him go and comeback so many times, and all he does it hurt me. I love him with everythig that I am, but I know I have to let him go. In my loving him unconditionaly, i tought him that its okay to walk away, because ill take you back. I know that he will come back, he loves me. The hardest thing I have to do is tell him, I love him, but He cant come back. its hard I know. But I finally realized that i dont deserve to be treated in such a way. I am worthy of being loved the right way. It was a perfect match between us. He just doesnt respect my heart. I know I will find someone who will eventually. I put him away. Everything that reminds me of him, I put away Except the ring on my finger. I will in good time. Im just not ready to say good bye. I have to heal, and understand, and know that God has planse for me. Im ready for them. I hope that you will see that you are special, and Someone will love you with out hurt. Just think how fun it will be to find someone new.
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    We can express the way we feel about it to them, but thats all we can do. If it bothers you so much and she still does it, then offer to get her the stuff to stop, the patch or gum what ever. I quite smoking for a B/F in the past. its not that hard. I hope it all works out for ya. hope that was some kinda help.
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    Sars> Just noticed im just down the road from you. LOL Roofergirl> AMEN LOL
  10. b4bycakes
    Maybe the problem isnt in her tightness, but perhaps your self control. I dont know how it works im a girl. But that could be the thing too. Juat an observation.
  11. b4bycakes
    Thank you
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    The hallowness in my chest, I cant take the pain. my heart beats fast, and then slow again. flutters of memories, bring smiles and tears. the sense of your saftey took away my fears. but the pain is still real, the loss emence. my tears are real, the emotions intence. you took my heart with you, when you walked away. I cant love another, it belongs to you anyway.
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    And What will you do with yourself now. Those are great words. I was moved. I hope it all works out for you.
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    Good for you. I am thinking along the same lines as you. I love him so much, but All he is going to do is hurt me again, He has done it to many times. We have to realize that we are worth more than that, and we dont deserve to be treated like dirt. There are paople out there who will love you and treat you the way you want to be treated. Just think how exciting it will be to get out and start meeting new people. It feels so good to fall in love remember that,
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    You are both right, and I keep thinking, He is better off with out me, but Really I think im better off without him. I cant explain why I love him so much. when its good its really good. the best I have ever had. He did so much for me and was so sweet to me. He made me feel beautifull. Hey I lost over 100lbs. and I feel good about myself. Because he loved me just the way that I am.
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