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I love her to much to dump her,shes seriously perfect for me if things going the way they are in our love life yes i can see my self married with her,what basically bugs me is that oviusly my sex drive is wayyyy more than hers,we been together 9 month now,i ould say thats the only "problem" i see,but thats the thing im willing to wait but i dont want to be fighting myself wile i wait so im looking for options to solve this..i mean if i see guys with low sex drive..how come i cant have one then ??

i find it useless and trouble making,my gf will not have sex until marrige and i agree with it,but i been getting so much urges to at least have oral sex no penetration intended...so its been bugging me and im tired of it,anyone know a way? i dont want to masturbate or please my self as an only option

sorry for generalising,im calm now,anyways yes we have physical contact...we frensh kiss and do anything normal couple do,but when sometime si have accident and i toucher somewere bad she over reacts on me...this is the allmost 4rth time she does it,we been around 6month together now.I love her very much but dam...she upsets me everytime she does it like i were some kind of pervert,i did talked i out with her she admited she overreacted but sense is my foult for being careless i deserv being warned yes...but not thrown to the ground,im better now that i talked it with her she is probably upset aswell for her reaction,but just makes me sad that she knows how i am im not that kind of person iven my friends know im not the type that wants gf for sex...and by she doing this only tells me she dossent trust in me i hope this dossent keep up

hi,i just want someone to plz explain me this,i make it short,me and my gf get alogn fine no probs but today i accidentally touched one of her breast thinking is was her side elbow i wassent iven looking at her so it was an accident,now she over reacts and start saying stuff like (now seems im seeing the other side of you and i ask her tha tif she ever seenme do this before..and she goes like theres a first for everything)...i mean...im the bad guy here??fuk i let her pass alot of stuff she does and she oftenly puts her hand by accident in my place and i dont say nothing i just say "its ok dont worry" and here she comes over reacting and saying ima pervert for that!!??? she she forgave me and i dindt say anything but im mad...im tired of being the "guy" the one and only in the relation were can be a pervert and the girl is a sait...BS..im really mad at her and i wont say nothing but i aint lettin this pass the next time it happened..so why do guys who are honest have to deal witht his crap couse u girls overreact to some stuped thing >

well we kiss alot and we verry romantic and stuff like that you know...just simply no sex of any type like orals and stuff...appart from that we do everything

ok this is a bad threat lalalalala

Is it worth it????? i mean does it feal allmost the same or not?? couse seriusly i aint gonna ever try it unless i get this clear still a long way for me and sex but i dont really care im happy without it,but once i marry well it another thing and my main worry is that sense i dont want kids...what options do i have...never have sex @_@?

Nothing but all cleshays...shame,Funny how pople love separating one an other just to individualise and feel taller then everybody else... Lets start by the facts that the only thing that separate women from men is 2 simple things...Genitals and some parts of the brain,Beside that we are all born from the same compose pile.Yes we can understand each other...thats why you are(in a relationship) if u cant understand each other then theres something not working out properly,solve it and understand hem,My fathers are great example they support each other on everything and i clearly have personaly asked my mother if she understand my father in every way ans she told me this(After being marryd for over 30 years we bouth know how we bouth are and thats why we are so happy together).Sorry if im being inpolite or such,i just hate idealistics and false ideals that has evolved by time.Men from mars...women from jupiert...ooohh...stfu...>.

Must be Kind,Smart,Physical is ok not really necesary but not over or below weight.Good self steem,Loves me couse who i am,Have allways inmind i aint perfect and she issent ither we all make mistakes,Someone i can really trust,Independent,Direct..i dont whant her to hides things from me(feelings,hate,desire,love...ect)Beautifull personality and of corse have lots in common and have intresting conversations not same old ones gets buring by time.Thats about it for me o yea...and i found her i allways wanted my gf to have green eyes do,but hell..she has cute eyes!!and i love them!

hes a moron,dump hem -.- to love you is to love who u are not by virginity or who u had sex withbefore hem

Reletionship is alla bout being best friends to each other.

Well i been going out with this wanderfull girl and all and finally (on valentines day) i kissed her goodbye well it was ok couse i was planing a simple kiss you know i dindt wanna seem like 2 rude if i frenshed the first day and she is that kind of girl who dont like guys gettin fresh or so.Anyways i been really modest with her and i love her alot and well thing is when i finally kissed her i was planign a simple kiss like is aid but she tryd to do the frensh on me and im like wow...this is so cool,thing is couse of that we had 2 types of kisses me one andher other so the kiss dindt whent verry well.And you know how some girls say that girls jugdge people on that so i could say we dindt had the best first kiss ever but hey thats why i kiss so u can learn how she/he kisses and adapt to it,so anyways my quiestion is.(think that really dindt bother her or anything?) im a nice guy with her and i know she has noticed im not in after sex i really enjoy being with her and we been dating for quite awhile now.Anyways it wassent the best kiss ever but hey i liked it...was my first kiss,i know next time im going the frensh way i just hope she didnt idge me or something by first kiss,i know i can do way better.

i get one by just holding her hand...we havent iven kissed yet...just thinking about it makes me wander if im able to control my self...took me time to stop gettin them by just holding hand and iven still sometimes i look at her and ..there he goes agein >_

ither way..some men and girls pretent for the genitals to smell LIKE FREAKING FLOWERS!!!! C'MON!! i say hes an * * *

im about to be 20 do haha

....omg im notiven going to read the rest of this dam post....most guys are * * * hole but i been dedicating all my freaking life not to be one and it makes me mad how indirectly im draged along...but i dont care i got my first GF and we are bouth happy and she trust me couse she KNOWS IM HONEST AND I WILL NEVER EVER CHEAT ON HER OR HURT HER,i rather stab myself first!

Well i dont know if this happens to alot of guys but i get an erection probably ever 10 min or so,and its not that im thinkingof sex or anything but it has been like that all my life,and i like to use loosid pants and my equipments in not so small...Iven when im holding my girls hand i get one for no reason at all and it gets really anoying how i have to find a way to make it not show so much >_

Not insisting on things you allready said you dont whant to do or not at that moment that way hes showing that he respect your opinion and give you space

Wait...Raises hand.....no wait wait!!! Bouth hands!!!

Hi,im wandering..this is for guys(do you ask the girl your dating to be your GF or is it something you bouth simply know by time????

well yes..6hours is something you do when you 2 arent seeing each other or so,or do what i do i got my self a cute looking geeky girl as a GF who loves computers as i do ^^ and we bouth work out alot so we dont go fat or something soooo i drull while i look XD,and shes mad couse she feels that ur not giving her attention ivenif u spend 2 hours playing and 22 hours with her and she sees u playing shes gonna be sad..is a human thing

dont worry,just remember one thing,dont let it go trow your head that if most guys u end up with are like that the rest will be that way.Im one who bolives in respect of others and right now im dating someone and im a mess sense im new to it but i have never said anything to her badly or shallow,i actually admire her so much and for me i ould never ever do something bad to her,or cheat on her or anything and she knows it and that is something not many people trust of.Ither way ,like i said ignore that dum guy,bunch of better guys out there who will respect you like the lady you are ^.^ o and i forgot...to most guys...your just peac of meat they wish they could have sex with you..probably

uff..why u think we trow bombs at each other...

its simple,some guys rather look good to people around them and risk something just for that.Later they realize how dum it was...most guys think or do things by being compulsive...dont iven think much what they do.Plus other think that they are the center of the world and they think that your not worth hem and u need to work yourself up to me worthy....welcome to the real world.Others dont really give a shi..i were u i dont iven bother...just keep looking,and its funny how things work ageisnt you..if u are so good looking as you say you are then ur in a world of pain sense your atractivnes will atract alot of jackas.ses and it will be hard to tell the players from the honest ones.If he shouted ur hot then keep looking for someone better..couse its only means hes shallow,a guy really intrested in you ould never say such things sense he will not risk making mad or sad.

Hi,i have a problem i really need help with.I met this girl at college at my first day of college allmost 2 years ago,for me it wa slike love at first sight!!!but back then she had a BF so i had to move on,i never been in a relation or have any type of intimate thing or anything near it.So one day she was sad and i try to cheer her up and i told her that i really liked her and she told me sense she had a BF she couldnt do anything but that i ould be a lie if she wassent intrested on me.Some days later i know she left her BF so i took my chanse.Now we are going out dating,we gone out around 4 to 5 times and we been to the beach and movies and stuff,i Like her alot and to me she makes me so happy just by looking at her,and i used to be so sad and when ever im around her i cant be sad..its impossible for me to be sad at all.I know she is intrested in me allso couse she has a cute way of showing it.But my problme is that we have been going out on dates but we were god friends before that but somehow i cant seem to do a simple task as to grab her had to show how much i love her company and that i care for her alot iven if we not BF and GF yet.I have tryd to many times to do that simple thing but something in my head blocks me and dossent let me.I am shy in a way but i talk to girls i hang out and stuff i iven sleep with them on ocations(just sleep nothing big...)I have no problem what so ever with that i iven cudle with her and play with her hair and massage her and so on and she does the same sometimes really cute > So plzz someone tell me whats happening to me...is not that i have no idea what to do couse i know how to make a girl happy im good at that but i cant show my intimate side for some reason...im afraid of something and yet i ask my self what...and i cant iven answer myself.I just want to give her my love and yet i cant seem to...plz help..what should i do