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Sugar-Rush

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  1. I completely agree with the above post! this girl is just really shy, if someone catches your eye then looks away quickly or looks at the floor its a surefire sign they like you and are embarrassed, give her time and she'll start making moves too ! Sugar xXxXx
  2. Thanks guys, i truly value and am thankful for your replies, i don't think all men are immature but a fair few deffinately are! I really like this guy so i'm not going to call it off due to this, that said i'm not going to let him be in control or walk all over me, i never intend to submit to his moods or beg him to talk to me, not trying to sound big headed but i'm worth more than that ...i'm just gunna see how it goes i think.... is that a good idea? Sugar xXxXx
  3. Hey people, I've recently split from a long term relationship and i've started seeing another guy, we're not sleeping together but we're just sort of seeing each other which is really nice because i'm not ready for a full on relationship again so soon, he's kinda in the same position as well so alls good there. Problem is he's two years younger than me and recently he's been acting really immature, one minute he's telling me he thinks i'm beautiful and he loves spending time with me blah blah, next thing i know he'll phone me up and say he doesn't wanna talk to me anymore.....i'm not a clingy person and when he does this i don't contact him, he contacts me again within hours, longest has be about 48hrs and says sorry he was just in a bad mood. Thing is also i like my own space, to be with my friends and whatever and i'd happily go a few days without speaking to him (which i have disscussed with him) but he seems to have to be so hostile about it all. Generally speaking he's a really nice, sweet, kind and caring guy (he's also really hot) and even tho right now i'm not looking for a long term relationship i don't think i can handle the "moods" am i just bein selfish? Sugar xXxXx
  4. Hey Darlin' I feel for you so so much, Big hugs, your pain is very apparent it your words. Obviously i can't say whether or not this guy is the one for you. IMO the fact he is being so brutally honest with you is a really good sign, he could say "i love you" just to make you feel better as a lot of ppl would, but like you said they would be empty words, IMO its far better to have a stable happy loving relationship with someone who never actually says i love you, than an awful relationship with someone who can say i love you 10 times a day. Also another thing, if you believe in love don't ever question it, for those who believe its a great thing, you can both still have a relationship where u are very much in love but your partner will simply not label that emotion as "Love" Big hugs Darlin B Strong Sugar xxx
  5. Yeah You have to be a bit mysterious hunni, be truthfull and tell them anything the ask or want to know. Just don't start rambling off your life story on the first date, always try to be talkative and fun Sugar xxxx
  6. Lots of women never orgasm, ever, not ever ever in there whole life, this can be down to lots of factors and does not nessecarliy mean her lover doesn't know how to please her. Don't be shocked that at 18 your g/f had never had an orgasm, it takes a lot more work for a woman to reach an orgasm than a man anyways. Just keep her happy! Sugar xxx
  7. I met this guy on wednesday, in a very drunken state at a mates party. We hit it off immediately and stayed up talking till 5am, we kissed but nothing more. he begged, litterally for me to go round to his the next night. i went for 3-4hrs and we got on really well sober but i decided not to stay over. The next day again he begged me to go se him (he can't drive, i can) so again i did (obviously loving the fact he seemed so into me) This time it was even beter we hugged kissed and talked loads and it felt so right not awkward at all. I didn't stay over and we haven't slept together, today he's being really moody with me. I really don't get him, i'm starting to fall for him which normally takes ages foe me and he's being begging to see me...what have i done wrong PS This isn't Sugar-Rush its her sister Call me Baby Rush xx
  8. Yeah i understand exactly what your saying about mayb i do what an exclusive relationship with him. I don't mind if he's ahving one nighters but i want him to care if i do, stupid isn't it? Sugar xxx
  9. She is a grown woman who clearly love her son very much, this is about her relationship not her son. She only asked for some friendly advice Sugar xxx
  10. My next problem is how do i go about not seeing these guys, do i just cut all contact with them Sugar xx
  11. No i don't think that I think she needs to sit down and think about what is truly right for her and how to move on productivly sugar xxx
  12. I don't think you happiness should come second to your son, children live trough there parents, if your not happy he won't be. In an ideal world you wouldn't have these feeling for this other man and u and your partner could kiss and make up. Just be strong and think carefully, even though u got caught up in this mess u seem very sensible and level headed, i know you'll do the right thing for u, ure son and everyone involved Sugar xxx
  13. last post was meant to read "shouldn;t stay together over there son" Durr!
  14. I disagree with dark blue, i believe 2 parents are very important for a child but they should stay together over there son. If they are not happy that will not be good for a child Sugar xxx
  15. I have no doubt you are a great mam and i don't think this affects you as a parent in the slightest. Your son can't be happy if you are unhappy. Just keep smiling girl Sugar xx
  16. These guys and just falling in love with you because your there. You are clearly giving them something to love. If you don't want your mates guys to like you, don't flirt with them, don't even mess about i know that might sound harsh but if it upsets u when they fall for you stop being so nice to them. It'll all work out ok babe and like sam said, they most probably don't "love you" they just like the way you make them feel, your obviously very kind to them Sugar xx
  17. Hey Girl, My heart goes out to you this is such a hard situation, i have been in simalar ones. You need to take some time out from the situation to think about what you really want, its a hard situation and someone is going to get hurt, so please don't make any quick rash discisions. Do you really really like your best mates guy or do you like the feeling of getting to know some1 all over again and getting butterflys? as fun as that is, its not worth hurting people over. That said dont settle for second best, you only live once and although you have to take other ppls feelings into consideration. You also need to be happy Good luck babe Sugar xxx
  18. Thanks Sam, Thats what i really needed to hear, you seem to get it You've cheered me up, i just feel like i'm not a complete freak and some1 else gets it Thank u
  19. Thank you for taking the time to try and understand, i do appriciate its hard for ppl to understand my relationship as its not what most would class as normal. I understand what your saying about the 2 other guys involved they know the situation with my b/f and i do feel as if i'm messing them around and i feel very guilty for that. I know something has to change, i love my b/f very much and i know he's happy which makes me feel good, I sometimes wish i could be a nice normal g/f for him. ARRRGGG!! Suga XXX
  20. Hey, I also think that comment about her exes was quite "off" but that said i don't think you should be low in your reply to her, you seem like quite a lad anyways so just keep having fun with all the other ladies and keep your ex as a good friend Suga xxx
  21. Things here are okay, after yesterdays awful loss. Luckily all my friends and family in London are safe and well, my heart goes out to those that aren't tho Maybe she needs to see you to be sure of how she feels, i wouldn't read to much into it tho Suga XxX
  22. Hey Computer Guy! I feel so sorry for you being messed around like this, you sound like such a sweet genuine guy. Your obviously very into this girl and care about her. As much as her relationship with this other guy sounds truly distructive, theres not a lot you can do apart from be there to support her when she gets hurt again. I really hope it works out for you Keep me posted Suga XXX
  23. I understand why manogamy is important to you and i think when your ready to settle down in a seriuos relationship it should be. When/If i get married i would never consider being with another man, but right now we're both still quite young. Do you really think me liking these other guys is a sign i don't love my man? I'm so confused! I have told my b/f about how i feel for these two guys, he just said they were silly crushes and i'll get over them and that he knows i love him...which i do Suga xx
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