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  1. .Real Talk.
    wow...really? i hope your not right, cuz im goin through the same thing and as off late my ex and i have been hangin out alot...is this a bad thing?
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    does anyone else have any input on wut i shud do?? i can't lose this girl, i NEED her in my life, if it has to come down to it, i will jus be her friend forever...but i wud rather patch up this break up and make things better as it was before.
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    yea, i know this is probably a good idea, but its too hard, im not as strong as i thought, i can't handl this...it kills me knowin she made the wrong decision, i cant let her do this, is there anyway i can get her to realize how wrong she is, w/o actually not talkin to her anymore. i need her at least as a friend, i dont wanna initiate NC because i need her in my life somehow, i dont care if its just a friends, i need her in my life, ever since we met i've been such a better person...how can this happen just like that?? i dont understand, i literally have to give my friend my fone so i cant call her wen im out. If you really do love somebody, then you shud be able to work things out right?? if she tells me she still loves me then why is she doing this?? its like she's testing me, ecspecially after she says.... "it hurts me to do this, but i have to try" TRY!!! i know she's makin the wrong decision...i kno she is...thats why this is so hard for me
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    Recently me and my g/f of 8 months broke up w/ me because she needed some space but for some reason, because she did this out of no where, i feel like her sister and friend had something to do with this, like influenced her to do this. I know she loves me deeply still, her only reason for breakin up w/ me was minor in my eyes and we shud have been able to solve it w/o a break up happenin. I feel so helpless, i can't do anything anymore, sleep...eat....i try to keep myself around all my friends and ecspecially around other girls but nothing is workin, it jus doesn't feel the same as when i would hang out with her and only her...and what hurts the most is i lost my bestfriend, before we got together we were great friends for about a year before. Thats why its killin me so much, is there anything good i can do to fix this relationship?? I've talked to many ppl and the popular idea is to give her space and let her think about things but its so hard...i wake up every morning thinkin about her and wen i get the little sleep that i get i still think of her... This break up came out of no where, our relationship was the best ever, me and her have the most fun with each other, i see it in her eyes when were together shes so happy so i dont know why she did this...im so confused...i dont know wut to do anymore, i feel like poop.
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    thanks heloladies21 thats a good idea, i will talk to her again tomorrow about it, "You only want somebody to be with you if they're 100% sure they want you." thats true, so i'll see wuts up again 2morrow.
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    i sent you a Pm, i need someone to talk to... anyways, i kno she loves me but i dont know why she feels unhappy sometimes, its killin me, i dont know wut i wud do if i lost her, i feel like im slowly losin her tho, it sucks big time how i feel right now...
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    i need help badly i feel like i'm losing control, i feel like im losing the love of my life and i have no control over it at all, my g/f says she sometimes feels unhappy in our relationship and that its half me and its half because she has things she wants to do in life...i feel sick to my stomach, i feel like im losing her and i can't do anything to stop it, nothing at all...
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    to richgabe, basically wut shes tellin me is that i'm always tryin to make her feel bad for something that shes doin, i feel i'm doin this because i never want to be away from her and wen i hear she doin things w/o me i get kinda ticked, also she feels i wont be supportive of her activities she'll be doing (she plays softball and will often be away playin games) and she feels i wont be there for her at all and i will end up pushin her away because if it... i dont want that to happen, i love this girl too much to lose her. i already told her whatever she wanted me to do i'd do it, but i also told her u can't expect me to change who i am as a person, we can compromise and things should be gd, it cant be all about pleasing her needs tho, i got my needs too..
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    i jus got off the fone w/ my g/f, we we're talking about our relationship because lately she feels i've been real unsupportive of everything she does. this is because starting this summer our relationship calls for less time being spent together. she feels like i give her "(bad word for poop)" all the time and she thinks if this continues for any longer we can't be together anymore due to the fact she wouldn't be able to handle it anymore. i know the obvious thing to do is fix that and stop giving her so much "(bad word for poop)". but truthfully, i dont know wut to do, besides the occasional arguments our relationship is great in my eyes, but i feel like we're drifting away slowly but steady because of this. i need help, i love this girl to death, i really truly do. i jus need some advice, please help me
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    wow, im in the same position as you, i can get pretty jealous when it comes to my g/f and we usually end up fighting about it (we've been goin out for almost 7 months now and we've argued about this a few times) i love her w/ all my heart but wen i hear something i get jealous of I start an argument and after it all we both end up feeling like crap, we make up and everything is fine again, but i feel like im pushing her away slowly but steadily. like you said, you tell yourself to stop and then a few weeks later it happens again (same thing here too man) i dont know wut to do, i feel like im gonna lose her b/c of this, i need help i dont know wut to do tho...
  11. .Real Talk.
    i dont think you can just lose love for someone just like that, i think its over time that this happens, but finding a reason to do break it off and then saying you dont love them anymore could be possible
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    i felt like this early in the relationship w/ my g/f but i got through it and im fine w/ it now, as long as u know she loves you then thats the only thing that matters, besides... put yourself in this position, your a man, you talk to alot of girls too, how wud u feel if ur g/f was jealous everytime u spoke and laughed w/ another girl...its unfair to you right?? my g/f made me realize how stupid i was being my makin me realize that it wud be unfair to me if she did the same to me...
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    thanks for the advice from the both of you, i dont think she's tryin to find an excuse to get out of a relationship, i know about her past and the way guys have broke her heart by cheating on her so i can understand why she feels the way she feels but i jus find it wrong that she feels that way because i dont even see other girls the way i see her, and she still continues to be jealous..but for what? nothing, shes got me and i am intent on keepin it that way. i will have a talk w/ her wen she gets back, shes outta town for a couple days.
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    my g/f doesnt like it wen i talk to other girls...i have no interest in doing anythin w/ other girls but she feels that i do. i love her so much and she thinks that we are drifting apart because she is always getting "jealous" and making a scene and that i will stop loving her... i dont know what to do, i love her so much its crazy is there anyway i can assure her that i will never do such a thing to her...i understand why she feels this way because of her past but is there a way to help her not worry so much...cuz i dont ever wanna lose her...
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    so your saying talkin to her was a bad idea?? lets hope ur not right, im fine with it now she supposed to go out this week and i told her i was fine with it and all. like i said i trust her, im jus bothered a little.
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    your right, we talked about it last night and im fine now, its just somethin i gotta get used to i guess.
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    its not that i dont trust her, its the fact that guys will be tryin to dance and talk to her all night that pisses me off. Not that she'll do anything i just dont like that idea at all, i mean i almost got into a fight the other day because he said "can i buy you a drink" to her while we were out somewhere. im jus like that i dont know what to i can do to overcome that problem.
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    i just dont think that this would be a good idea. now, i trust her 100% that she wont go and do anything stupid but its the fact that she'll be goin clubbin and guys will be all over her that gets to me, she just turned 18 and plans on goin to the club w/ her big sister...is it wrong for me to be feelin this way because i know she just wants to have a good time w/ her sis and i dont wanna spoil that but i just feel like she doesn't need to go. and just for info. i can't go cuz im only 17...
  19. .Real Talk.
    theres not alot to explain about it...jus go with the flow, it'll come naturally... but yea...dont slobber all over the place..
  20. .Real Talk.
    thanks for the help but things jus got weirder... she jus called me talkin about she broke up w/ him right after i left her house last night...what to do now???
  21. .Real Talk.
    i kinda agree with frizzle... im sorta in the same type of situation except her and her boyfriend rarely see each other, even less than weekends like once a month. we were talkin and told each other how we felt, but i told her i wouldn't try to do anything out of respect for her and for her boyfriend...jus stay friends until shes not in any type of relationship anymore.
  22. .Real Talk.
    yea, i dont wanna mess up the things we have now but at the same time i want more, she does too but i like i said i dont wanna mess things up.
  23. .Real Talk.
    sorry if this is kinda long but i need advice... ok, me and this girl have been gd friends for almost a year now, she has been and is still in a relationship but the problem is that her and the guy she's with dont really get to see each other at all because of some family issues, but they usually talk on the phone. Well anyways i can sense that she's getting tired of being in that relationship because they almost never get to see each other while on the other hand me and her hang out as much as we can. So, last night we were jus hangin out at her house watchin movies, cuddling on the couch and what not and she starts tellin me how she thinks her relationship with her current boyfriend isn't going anywhere because they dont get to see each other at all. She's known me and that guy for about the same amount of time and i think she feels about the same about each of us We kept talkin and her and i made it very clear to each other that we were equally attracted to each other. I knew she wanted me to kiss her and i wanted to very much, but i dont want to lose this friendship that we currently have. And i think things might change if we take it any further so i sort of stopped myself do you guys think this is a good idea and shud carry on with it, or jus stop it from goin any further to at least save our friendship?
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