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  1. Wow,that must've been a very hard decision to make.I'm glad to hear that you are doing a lot better without him.It's good that you have realized you don't need someone like that in your life.Just bringing you down all the time.You seem like you're a very intelligent person and I hope that you find the right person for you really soon!It seems that Thomas is a really good influence in your life right now.So that's always a good thing.Just stay strong and try to stay around positive people that won't make you feel like crap all the time.We all have lessons to learn in life.It's up to us to try and not make those same mistakes again.
  2. Hey,aren't you the guy that wrote about your g/f faking a non-orgasm?I posted a reply for you.And now you're giving me advice.So how's that going so far?I'm thinking that maybe I shouldn't worry about the drinking thing as long as he doesn't do anything stupid again to me.The good thing is that when he's drinking,he's at home.At least he's not at a bar.Which is where he was when he was a complete jerk.If you ever want to talk,feel free to IM me.Thanks for the advice!
  3. You seem to be doing a PERFECT job to me!!That actually sounded kind of hot.And it definitely sounded like you gave her an orgasm.I don't know why she would do this,but maybe she just doesn't want you to know.And I don't think it's possible for a female to get tired of being kissed on the neck.I absolutely love it.Makes me go crazy.Have you actually sat down with her and asked her exactly what she wants you to do?If not,maybe you could try that and then let us know what happens.
  4. I've never really thought about that before.But after doing some thinking,I would say that you're not a virgin anymore.That's just my opinion,though.
  5. My boyfriend just started his new job yesterday and when he came home he was telling me how his boss gave him a beer when he was getting off.To be nice or whatever.But he also bought a six pack.I guess he felt like he wanted to drink a little bit more.He also told me that his boss gives all of his employees a beer when they're getting off every night.And I asked him,"So are you going to be drinking every night?"And he said probably.Okay,now why this is such a big deal for me is because he hasn't drank in a long time.Because he's done some bad things to me in the past while drinking.And I don't want to have another bad experiance again.We talked about it and he says that he will never act like that again.So my question is,should it not bother me if he has a few beers?Any advice is greatly appreciated!
  6. I was just wondering,how many months have you been pregnant now?And do you plan on keeping the child?
  7. So is there going to be any romantic future with you and thomas?I was just reading your journal,and you seem pretty head over heals for the guy.Just wondering what you'd want to happen between you two?And are you still talking to aaron at all?Well,I'm glad to hear that you're doing so much better.That's really good.I'm happy for you!!
  8. Sorry,I meant that's not how I would've handled it.
  9. I'm not trying to put anything into your head,but I would be worried like crazy whether or not he cheated on me.I mean,staying out until 4a.m. with two women?!Yes,they were both married but that seems to not matter these days.I mean,did that not go through your mind at all?Anyway,those were just my thoughts.And it seems like he didn't consider you at all.He said he was going to be back in an hour.Does this guy think that he can just walk all over you?Cause you did let him off pretty easy.That's definitely how I would've handled it.
  10. Hey RedElephant,I know you hadn't been on here in a while.But I was just wondering if your situation got any better.Did he get what was coming to him?I sure hope so.He deserves it.And most importantly,how are you doing?Well,I hope you are doing a lot better.Let us know!Good luck!
  11. Jordan42,no I don't feel that way at all.I just think that it would be very disrespectful towards me considering the fact that I don't want to be with someone that watches that stuff.And he knows all of this.But I guess nowadays it seems like you just can't trust anybody anymore.
  12. I can't really give you guys a reason why he just keeps the shirts lying around.I don't know myself.And yes,that is very nasty.I don't know why it bothers me that he masturbates.But what is bothering me even more,is the thought of him watching porn behind my back while I'm at work!!
  13. Mintyfresh,you make it sound like every single guy in the world likes porn.Can't he just be telling the truth?I don't care if he likes porn or not but he's not going to watch it while he's with me.And if he is,he better do a damn good job of keeping it from me.Cause if or when I find out,it's over!And the only reason why I would watch it with him is if he suggested it.Because I want to satisfy him.And if he wants to watch porn with me,I'll watch it.It's better than him watching it by himself.But that's my opinion.
  14. I just think that porn is very nasty and discusting.He says he doesn't really like porn.That it's not his thing.I don't know.I wouldn't mind watching it together but I think that if you're in a relationship w/someone,you shouldn't watch it.Especially if you know your partner doesn't like it.It just shows that if you watch porn when you know your partner doesn't like it,it's like saying to their face,I don't give a crap what you think,I'm going to watch it anyway.
  15. Yeah,our sex life is fine.I don't really know why it bothers me so much.I just hope he's not watching porn or anything while he's doing it.He knows how I feel about it.I'd probably break up with him if I found that out.But hopefully that's not the case.The first time I found a shirt with cum on it I asked him about if he watched porn and of course he said no.But he could very well be lying to me.You never know.
  16. My problem is that I work third shift and sometimes when I come home,I'll find a shirt of his with cum all over it.I've asked him before if he masturbated and he says yes.I've found shirts like this about three or four times and I'm starting to think that he masturbates all the time while I'm at work.And it really bothers me!I wish it didn't but it does.I just got home and there was a shirt on the floor with cum on it!!I don't know if I should ask him about it or not.I figure what's the point.I don't know,can someone try to help me not feel so upset about this.Thanks!
  17. I have the same exact problem!My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now and I have never had an orgasm during sexual intercourse.But yet I can come when he is giving me oral.And I can also cum during masturbation.I've tried to masturbate during sexual intercourse but that doesn't work either.He is the first person I've ever been with,so I don't know if that's the problem or not.But I've also faked it since day 1.And I am never going to tell him.It would just crush him too much.I'm not saying that's what you should do but that's something that I'm never going to confess to him.I still enjoy having sex with him even though I never orgasm.I guess I've just learned to look past it.And just to let you know,I have heard of some women who never had an orgasm until they were in their thirty's!I hope your situation works out though.Let us know what happens.Good luck!
  18. sexygrl19

    How likely?

    I just recently got on birth control pills and my gyno said that it doesn't become completely effective until you've been taking it for about 2 months.That's also why she adviced me not to have sex for 2 months.And I'm sure she knows what she's talking about.She is a doctor after all.
  19. I know for a fact that a doctor can't tell.I asked my gyno before and she said there is no way of telling b/c there are so many other ways of breaking the hymen.Like sports or other stuff.Who knows.
  20. I also wanted to ask you,how long have you two been with eachother anyway?Just wondering.
  21. I really don't want to tell you what to do but me personally,I would dump him in a heart beat.He's calling you names,which is totally uncalled for and he is also trying to control you.There is absolutely nothing wrong with drinking in moderation.I know you don't want to break up with him because you care about him but sometimes you just have to put your foot down and be strong.I hope that everything works out for you.Keep us posted!
  22. RedElephant,so how is everything going?Is he still calling you?If so,have you talked to him at all?Just wanted to see how you were holding up.
  23. Well thanks for your advice.Not many people really responded to this thread but o well.I guess I'll just try to forget about it since I can't prove if he watched it or not.It was just really weird.Ya know?Anyway,thanks again!
  24. Oh my god!!He's trying to get with another guy?How many secrets was he keeping from you?I wonder if he's been hiding this from you for a while.Being curious about guys I mean.I would definitely go get tested.For everything.It just seems like everything is getting worse.Ya know,like figuring out all the awful things that he's been doing.Like when he lied about when his mother passed away.What a jerk!It's like,what else are we going to find out about him?So how did you check his voicemails?Did you know his password or something?Anyway,keep us updated.
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