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hey, i am 15 and i have a lil hair on my back.... and i dont like it so im going to wax it.... what should i do? How can i do it by myself without going to a salon? is it expensive? I will go buy supplies at REVCO, so what would you all reccomend me getting and how good are the results? Thanks!

hey if you would want to listen and try to help me on this problem... leave a message on here and i'll pm it to you.... its sorta long but i will keep it breif, im going to explain my whole situation and see "whos" fault this is... because im stuck in a friendship , the water is leaking and i have no way to fix it.

Ok, listen to this story first, im going to be brief and I wont name everything because there's so much I cant remember all of it. My best friend, calls me names, puts me down, and never takes up for me. He is always making me feel bad to the point that I've had to go see a psycologist and they are suggesting me be home bound instead of attending schools for a while. He has almost gotten me suspended 3 different times this year for something that I didn't even do. He turned all of my friends against me earlier this year and he's always competing with me to get everyone to like him better. He stole my papers and turned them in and left me getting a bad grade and him getting a good grade. I have bought him things like a drink after school or something, and its came up to about 100$ for the schol year, we spetn 2000$ on him over the summer, and he wont even give me a piece of gum. I have been there for him through everything and every situation no matter what or how wrong he was, i was there for him because thats "who i am". I've done it all.... anything he wanted, i love the kid to death, but he's taking advantage of that. Whenever there is someone else around he always ignores me to talk to them, and when they are gone he will tlak to me, he has called me a bad friend and told me he doesnt trust me. I told him my "biggest secret" and it was very serious that i even considered suicide... he made fun of me for it and made me feel terrible, and i told him i wanted to kill myself right there on the spot because of how i felt... and he said "do it, go ahead kill urself"... and he meant it. But now, I have a chance to get him back, everyone is starting to see what kind of a person he is, and how he is treating me, so they dont want to get involved with him. There is this girl that he likes, he is white and she is mixed. The only reason he wants to date her is because he thinks that she will have sex with him, and he wants to get her pregnant and have a kid. He WILL do it too, I know how he is, and thats all he ever talks about to me is how he wants to get his girlfriend pregnant. He is working out and he has a pretty nice body and he looks good, all for this one reason "to get a girlfriend and get her pregnant" I think I know how to get back at him... 1st I'm thinking about letting her know about "why" he likes her, and 2nd, right now in my hand i'm holding all of his notecards to his research paper. If he fails this research paper, he fails enligsh for the year and has to take it in summer school, he is already failing spanish so he will have to drop spanish or fail 9th grade. He has made my grades go from straight A's to barely passing... made me want to kill myself, and messed me up with my girlfriends in the past... so what should i do? I really need some advice.

lol thanks, but im not that fat haha... ive lost 14 pounds in 12 days, im doing pretty good with thta actually, i just wanna keep it off... im 6'1 and 198 lbs right now when i weighed this morning. I know what you mean about hte "best friend" thing, going through it right now..... i dont want to be one of those people who are all about their "ego" but nowadays, you are pretty much forced to be someone you're not to fit in... sad....

Hey everyone, I really need a life change. I want to grow as a person and become someoen better. I want to change everything about me to the better... what can I do or change? I want to lose weight and gain muscle (im 15 years old, should I get a membership at the gym and workout or will dumbbells and barbells do just fine?) I want to rid the excess hair on my body that I don't like so I can do things this summer that ive always wanted to do. I want to look good and feel good about how im being presented I would like ot work on my personality and become more humorous I would like to make better grades, like I used to do before all of my depressions I want my parents to stop treating me like im 3 years old and my best friend to actually treat me like im a "best friend" instead of just "saying it" What else can I do, and do you have any advice on any of the above to help me out? I really need an uplifting... suicide has really been onto me for a long time and I'm finally saying good bye to it, its done enough to me ...... thanks also one thing that really bothers me about my family is, the men in my family will take their shirts off and the women will do what they have to do get comfortable too, just like normal people, but ever since i can remember, whenever i did anything like that, even take my socks off i would get made fun of... and now i wont hardly even wear a short sleeve shirt, and i wear pants all year around because it has bothered me so bad. I took my socks off one time in the last 10 years because my foot has a blister on it and it hurt (which was a few weeks ago) and my parents started screaming at me saying i was gonna get sick and all of this other junk, and that really botherss me... it makes me feel different that everyone else in the world.

sounds to me like u 2 are friends.... doesnt sound like theres anything bad going on why would u think hes not your friend? do you feel taken advantage of or soemthing? From reading exactly what you wrote everything sounds great

Not really asking for advice, just trying to get a point accross ... maybe it will make someone feel good? Why does everyone constantly try to be something they're not? Why does everyone want to be cool? We all try to hang with the "in crowd" and completely change who we are just to fit in..... Why does it matter what brand of clothes we wear or what music we listen to? Why do people label each other: goth, prep, jock, loser? Why can't we just see each other as people? That's all we are.....aren't we? We're all just PEOPLE!

I think its stupid that they are spreading rumors about you, you need to talk to them about it. They could be jelous or maybe they are mad at you for something that you have done but maybe dont realize what you did. If it has to do with popularity and they think they are more popular than you - thats sad. I do not believe in "popularity" , everyone is different and we are all human beings and we should be treated that way.

oh hang on.. i just agreed wiht morky? omg... lol OOOOPPPPSSSS ... i DO agree with him, but I dont believe he was 12 with a 28 year old woman.. come on, thats probably like a 3 inch penis for her , why would she waste her time "100's of times"? doesnt make sense. unless shes like a child molestor or something... whats a paedofile (spell check)

lol exactly.. that they reason i read this post was because i was like "wow everyone on here is gonna say they were like 14 or 15" then i read it and its like "22, 24, 28" im like... uhhh... yeeeahhh..... I lost mine when i was 13.... i dont see it as a big deal however. It was a mistake but im not gonna sit around and complain about it.

the best thing in my opinon is to try and talk about it, and if the jelousy is fixable then the 2 of you should maybe "compromise" ..... and little compromising can take things a long way. I dunno if that has anything to do with whasts going on but its a suggestion.

that could be it... thats how i feel toward my friends.

Hello, thanks for the replies but this was not so intended to be about the "hair" problem... it was meant to be about my friend and how he treats me and maybe i could get some ideas on what to do about him. When i talk to him he gets mad because he says i complain about how he acts too much and i cant change what he does. He is 14 and he is trying to get some 10 year old girl to sleep with him.... I will say something to him and he'll laugh about it and turn around and use it saying it to everyone else to make them laugh in like 2 seconds after. He tries to mess me up w/ girls... there are more thigns from where that comes, and last night when he was saying how nasty it was, thats when i was like 'whtat? i thought u said u wanted it" and then he tol me "no the only place i was it is the "happy trail" He lies about everything but im STIL FRIENDS WITH HIM, he turns people against me. Now do you understand? Its nothing to do w/ the hair, that was just what he was making fun of me for.

please read this... Please someone help me... I am restless and going mad and i want to die. I confided to my best friend about the thing that bothers me more than anythign in the world. It botheres me and I needed to tell someoen so I told him. He has always gotten me into trouble despite when we are alone we are very good friends. I just started getting mad at him for things that he did that were bad like leading girls on and flirting with everyone of them that walked by. All he cared about was his body and working out because he looks good. But he knows how bad this problems hurts me feelings, i have posted about it before - I have hair allllll over me, everywhere, its almost in my eyes and it looks like it will even be on my forehead when im older.... At first a few months ago he told me it was cool and he wished he was like that (i think it was because I had so many problems in the first place and all.) But a few minutes ago on the phone he told me how nasty and sick it was and i think its becasue i was in a good mood. It hurt so bad and I cant do anything any more. He's like "yeah i'll probably skate and go to the pool like everyday this summer" and he knew because i told him how bad that hurt me. I will not go to the pool and be humiliated like i used to be. Should he care and try to find somethign else to do instead? Then he told me how glad he is that he told me how he really felt about me being hairry... He's always been doing things to make me feel bad and everytime i try to talk to him about what hes doing, it end up like tonight and he makes me feel like the bad guy, he got off the phone because i was talking about it to him tonight, but i talked because he was bringing it up in the first place. He said something that made me wanna just fall over dead and i was quiet for a minute and he starts saying "omg" under his breath and started acting like i was a big baby. He knows how people have treated me, my mom and dad have made fun of me, people at school, my teachers... and before i told him these thigns he always made fun of people that were hairry. I cant FIX it, because my mom and dad wont let me, they say i dont need to, im not exxagerating, i am a monkey boy and they said it too. It is tearing apart my life! Shouldn't he be doing a little better than hes doing to help me out and make me feel better? He said "i cant believe you let it bother you, ur stupid for that" and im thinking to myself "well you just told me how sick and all it was and how you would hate to be like that, and everyone else says that too so how can i get over it?" Ive tried talking to my parents 2 times about this and they wont listen to me! they get mad at go off on me! My mom could hook me right up, hes a cosmetician and does all of these things every day! I feel like he is bringing me down and taking advantage of me, we took him a lot of places this summer and speent a lot of money on him and he borrows money and thigns off of me all the time. He never even spent a penny on me, not like i expect him to, i just want to be treated better. No matter what he does i still like him, should i ? What do i do? If i dont talk to him everyone else will and i cant stand that and i will never be ever to get over it. I missed a week of school because i felt so bad about things he does to me, and he wouldnt even let me see anything to copy notes to catch up , he ripped up my essay, and almost got me suspended 10 days from school becuz he wrote bad things about out history teacher on our "take home test". he says F* you all the time (he says hes joking around) and he always takes up on everyone elses side, all he ever talks about is doing girls. why cant i just walk away from it all? when its just me and him alone, everythign is fine. but he will always do thigns to make me feel bad. I try takling to him and he wont talk to me about nothing, he makes me feel like its all my fault. Ever since ive met him its always been like this, except when we're alone and i cant imagine this summer because i dont think i will live that long if things keep going this way because its all i ever think about.... ive never done anything to him except get mad for the way he acts. that is IT ive been to guidance a hundred times... help... please...

i wish i could be like that with this one friend, we are very close but... somethign sprits away said makes me realise that maybe we are jelous of eachother.... He is jelous of my friends and wealth , and im sort of jelous of his body but also mad how he acts and always gets away with everything. He is 14 and all he wants to do is get a girlfriedn so he can get her pregnant and have a kid - which is very bothering to me since im christian. So he works his body all the time which makes me sort of jelous cuz he always shows it off. I cant show mine off because I feel that I am too hairy (im not all that bad but still). hmmm...

i wish i could swim i cant... ive made a post about that before becuz i think i have too much hair on my belly and all... or i would be doing that. I remember i lost like 40 lbs in the summer a couple a years ago when i was fat by swimming everyday and i still ate anything i wanted like a horse! now ive been depressed a while and gained it all back... im 6'1 and 210 lbs. I dont really look too fat but I am its just evened out through my body and not just in one place

Hey, im trying to lose about 30 lbs as soon as I can, and i would like to gain muscle in place of that... I need a healthy diet, im 15 years old. What kind of foods should I eat? I don't want to eat anything fatty. I have cut out sweet food comepletely and I'm only drinking water. I'm starting to lift weights every other day, I work out every part of my body and I run every day and play basketball. I would like to lose atleast 20 lbs in 2 months. (lose the fat and gain the muscle)

hey, well I wouldn't sware to it, but if he doesnt seem to bother you masturbating in front of him then keep doing it. I mean why not? It's like a male bonding and trust thing, now you can enjoy yourself in front of him and if he decides to do it (theres a really good chance he will, dont give up) then you 2 can have a lot of fun out of it. Sounds like he may if he was doing it under the covers beside you and all of that.

hmm... well i always wondered that same question.... If you use a dildo i think ur still a virgin because,if your not, then wouldnt it mean that if a guy masturbates then he isnt a virgin also?

I completely agree, this article is very crappy.... i mean in a sense its ok but i wouldnt suggest anyone going by that. "go get yourself a body irresistible to the girls" come on is sex appeal the only important thing? we need to learn to like eachother for WHO WE ARE not our looks , working out for that body is just causing more confusion. That is one reason so many people divorce, a girl and a guy think eachother are so hot they just cant stand it, and they both made themselves that way just to make the other one like them. They get married and find out who eachother really are and its over!

I agree with aliz... thats always the best thing to do... just talk to the person, and I would say he probably wants you to talk to him about it but he just wont bring it up.... and thx for replying to mine to haha

they know who wrote it... everyone does, im not exaggerating, everyone knows, the teachers , the guidance counselor.. everyone except the principal mr smith knows that i know who did it.....

whoa.... i thought he may be "bluffing me" 10 days... come on... thats a lot for "a piece of paper" so maybe i should talk to my teachers and see if they could let me make up my work? I make a's and b's . When you get suspended your not supposed to be able to make anything up... so maybe they would let me?

I cant believe what happened today! I was in Mr. Smith's history class and he toook up our homework. My best friend and I share the same history book and I left my paper in the book. He took it and wrote bad words, and mean things (I mean they were TERRIBLE) about Mr. Smith, his wife, and his mom..... Mr Smith, knows that I didnt do it but he took me to the office anyways and now the principal is going to give me OUT OF SCHOOL SUSPENSION for 10 DAYS ... unless i tell who did it first thing tomorrow morning. What am I going to do? If I tell on my friend he will fail for the year and have to re-take 9th grade next year and I'll never see him, his parents will hate me and... I wont be able to deal with it.... But If I take the blame its going to hurt me.... plus EVERYONE knows my best friend did it and its spreading around school fast. I told him to just deny it and I would keep covering for him and maybe the principal would let me off. I cant turn him in..... I really need some advice... I was thinking maybe my friend could call Mr. Smith tonight and apologize and beg not to be suspended because he would fail and all.... Our principal wants to see me 1st things tomorrow morning so I can tell him, he was so mad today he just sent me off... I can really use some advice, I dont want to lose my best friend... help..

I havent had a girlfriend in a little over a year becasue I was trying to find the right one and now it seems like theres not really much to choose from. I have never had a girlfriend that I really liked. I was in love with one girl but she never gave me a chance when ever other girl did... it didnt matter though, i didnt like them... Now I dont like anyone... but I want to start dating some, can someoen help me?