SaSaRai

oh by the way - just out of curiosity? why would people 'experiment?' is that a common thing?

I agree with them - and the same thing happened to me - and im not friends with that person anymore but the reason why is because "we DIDNT talk about it" i believe if we would have talked things would have worked out- just make sure you and your friend talk about it good and understand everything - dont lose a friendship over something like that a best friend is so hard to come along these days - hold on with everything you've got and let nothing stand in the way!

I have been through that before too - actually that has happened all my life... its just like with girls * there is a girl out there for every guy* and theres also *a guy out there for every guy* too .... and that will be ur best friend and girlfriend - sooner or later you will run into those people and when you do hold on to them with everything you've got... it took my 14 years to find my best firend - but now when i look back thorugh all the pain of "losing friends" due to whatever reason... its all worth it. Its amazing how close of a resemblance two people can be to one another - and like someoen said above "do not seek , let it come to you" something will happen and when it does you will just KNOW - go with the feeling and try it, usually the LAST person you expect to be your friend ends up being the best one you have hope that makes you feel better !

haha yeah - i think ur right , maybe i should talk to him about it? but... how would i bring up something like that?

I am having a problem with my best friend - and its starting to turn into more than just a minor mishap. I have known him for 5 months and we have completely bonded over that time period and spend A LOT of time togehter - we get along GREAT we tell eachother everything... the usual best friend stuff.... but I don't understand why he lies to me so much , he is always lieing about everyting, and making up excuses. He tries to compete with me for girls and for other friends when actually he is the only friend I really care about. I am 15 and he is 14 we act so much alike it is scary.... everytime we talk about something we end up saying the exact same thing, and im not exaggerating .... but why does he lie to me? why does he try to act big? why does he alwyas go around sucking up to everyone? when its just me and him everything is fine - but as soon as someone else is in the picture he tries to look big to them in front of me - almost as if hes trying to impress me somehow but that just makes me mad. There is a lot goin on and it depresses me how he is acting - he wouldnt even tell me where he lived (he lied about that 2 and then finally his sister told me where their house was) . I live in a big 3 story white house - i have expensive things - but that doesnt change WHO I AM - and i had no idea but his mom died when he was younger , now his dad is having a hard time and they live in a trailer - and half of the time he lives with his grandparents.... ive never been to his house before, he never invited me but he comes here all the time and when i bring up his house i can tell hes trying to hide something from me and once again he will lie...... its so confusing - can someone please help me understand this? and the weirdest thing - despite all that happens.... i obsess over him - is that because we are so much alike? or maybe its because this is bothering me so bad? i hope someone can help me understand..... we're really close and i dont want to ruin the best thing to ever happen to me