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SaSaRai

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  1. here is an update on how things are going...... well he is still i guess you could say 'flirting with me" and now its gotten to where he is saying it more often and all and today he was showing me his muscles and wanted me to feel of em - hes pretty cut physically. But after school in the hall he said "reach under my shirt and feel my arm.... and then he said "ill have to come over one day and take my shirt off and show you. I personally think it is sorta sick for someone to look like that, it just looks... nasty. He wanted me to feel his leg muscle..... and he still talks about both of our lower area parts. But I KNOW FOR SURE that he wont show it, I already tested that. Hes all talk on that part... now I'm really confused cause if he was gay then he'd whoop it right out wouldnt he? Especially when I made it certain that it was ok to do so.
  2. dont worry about it, just talk to your friend and get over it. and you'll forget about it and it wont bother you, just give it soem time. dont let it ruin your friendship, trust me it will all be ok.
  3. hmm... yes, it could be possible also that god did tell these people what to write down... and maybe they did... but maybe they added their own twist to it.... that does makes sense... and it even makes sense that the person who translated the hebrew into other languages changed it (i dont think hebrew is a very spoken language anymore?) .... this is a pretty good topic i think.
  4. Well there are 2 or three things in the bible that I know of that it said . It said somethign about israel becoming a nation near the end of time, and it did. And that god would protect israel and so far he has. In the 3day war there were a bunch of arab nations that attacked israel and israel kicked their butts. It also said in the bible that the people of israel would all split up into different countries and one day get back together and form the new nation .... and that happened too... therfor wouldnt that make the bible true? how could someone know all of this thousands of years ago? that also defends why i would think that its wrong to be homosexual .... but then again.......
  5. but if he did put homos here for that reason then why would he have said that no man shalt lover another man and no woman another woman?
  6. well dont that just make sense then? if god made us then why didnt he make it to where men could have babies too? if it is ok for people to be homosexual then wouldnt they be able to have babies and start a family?
  7. i have another post where my best friend is hitting on me... and id do anything for him, and i really dont want to end up gay... id ont have nothing against it , its just my family. It does say stuff about women, and when it doesnt "man" represents both. Plus, I don't know if you listen to the news or whatever but things that these "ancient men" wrote about and said god gave them visions and all. These things have ACTUALLY CAME TRUE and THOUSANDS OF YEARS after they wrote about it. Scientists found Noah's ark on top of that mountain in asia (although i forget what mountain it is) and they say that there is no way possible for man to have taken that ship up there. Which makes sense... there have been several incidents that would make one think the bible and god are real because event in the bible have actually taken place.
  8. ahh yes and dbl's post is vey nice too , they are both good, depends on which one you have more time 4
  9. yes - jonny G knows what he's talking about , thats exactly what I do
  10. How many of you believe in the bible? I do.. and im a christian and in the bible it says that It also says that the unclean and unpure mind can send you to hell also. So even if your not gay - if you still lust after the same sex you will perish when the world is over. But I know that ever since I was 3 years old I've started liking both sexes and I had no control over it. I was 3 years old... not like I knew anything about the world - all I knew was how I felt. And if God really is real - as I always believed he was , and if he loves each and everyone of us and wants us all to join him in heaven in the after-life .... then why is there such a thing as a gay/lesbian relationship? I mean come on, its NOT fair at all some of us do find out our preference at a VERY young age and how are you supposed to change that to fit your religion? My attraction to other guys was like 1% and 99% to girls. And it still is, but in god's eyes that is still considered WRONG.... any thoughts on this?
  11. heh sounds like the one i had sorta but i made it upmyself - we were at an away co-ed soccer game and me and friend were captain and 2 girls captain on other team and she was checkin me out and i said "dang did you see that? she was checkin me out like a book from the library"
  12. do you think it could just be becasue we're best friends is the reason that hes "flirting with me"? ...... i cant even sleep over this...
  13. well if it really bothers you maybe you might consider waxing it or something? lots of people do that and its not that expensive if you do it yourself... and i think you could, or maybe even electrolysis , it woudnt be a very high cost for just that area, even if you dont want it ALL gone , you could get rid of some or however much. but yeah every guy i know has it and it seems to be a surprise to a lot of girls. but... hey its just the facts.
  14. i think im bi too.... im really christian though, and i always liked both since i was 3 years old.... i dont know why, i mean really i would rather be straight because of my religion... do any of you believe in god? do you think that gay people and bi people and straight people with even the slightest taste for the same sex go to hell? it says so in the bible.... and i really dont think thats fair by god becasue when i was younger i never realized that i was bi but now i do and its not a choice you make because you are lustful or whatever, its just like everyone else. you fall for who you like.....
  15. oh gosh i forgot 3 other thigns that happened today , we were in the hall and the chorus members came down hall singign out school song cause our football team made it to state and i was standing beside my friend and he was like " hey are you gonna grab my butt?" and he seemed to be joking but i sware he would have let me if i wanted to. Then in the hall i stopped to talk to this girl and held my hand out to give her "five" and he kept walking and my hand touched his "parts" but that was a total accident, and in basketball after school he did the same thing to me , but he didnt say anythign about it ... i think it was an accident.. but then again i dont know cuz theres been so much goin on. how could he be gay? he talks about girls allthe time and druels over them...... gosh this is really bugging me
  16. she probably doesnt mind it at all but realizes that you need to be happy with yourself FIRST and FOREMOST. most girls seem to like it , i woudlnt worry about it a bit. Can i ask you something? how old are you and how do you act in front of friends or at the pool or anything? does it bother you at all? cause im like this too sorta....
  17. yeah i agree, but i am not saying not to care for your friends. you should care but if they are going to take advantage of you forget about it. I had the same problem. just dont worry about it, be yourself and you'll be just fine and a lot happier.
  18. oh my gosh.... thats what i was afraid of and i had that feeling too.... but i dont know , it just seems like hes joking around too much.... i mean i dont know how much you all know about guys "comparing" themselves but last year in my 7th pd english class every guy in there did it IN THE MIDDLE OF THE CLASS , and all the time. And in sports in the locker room they do it to and i have people ask me if i wanna do it all the time. So a while back I did ask him if he wanted to cuz I never did it and everyone else does it and it seemed kinda cool... (i dunno why) but he wanted to i KNOW IT cuz he was down to nothign but his boxers and i really didnt want to do this but we already got that far... nothing happened but he kept talking about it several times after that , we just never done it. And now hes doing this.... do you think i should go along with it and see if hes joking or not? like next time he asks me like "will u go out w/ me" maybe i should just say yes to see how he reacts? i dunno... thats why im here lol....
  19. gosh , yeah go by what they said... i had that happen to me its pretty rough thing to go through, maybe her mom just needs some time to see somethign different in your gf's friend and will change her mind. just be there for her
  20. ok, my best friend who is also a guy keeps making kissing noises at me..... like in private and sometimes in public. I thought he was just kidding around at first but today he did it 6 times...... and he keeps saying "i love ya man". He's only done this for about 2 or 3 days. But today in accounting class we were sitting in the back of the room away from everyone and he sorta smacked me and said "oops, want me to kiss it and make it better?" ... i didnt know what to do. Later towards the end of the class hes like "i love ya" and i was just joking around and said "no you dont... (and gave a sad puppy look) " and hes like , "want me to prove it?" and i said "yeah" he started unzipping his pants!!! i think he was just joking around but jeez..... , and he whispered to me "will u go out with me?" and i joked around and said "umm i dunno, ill think about it" and started laughing... I know guys do this a lot but it just seems strange from him all of the sudden like this... especially the way hes doing it. i dont know if its a joke or what... plus hes been touching me alot more than usual lately and hugging me... (like the one armed thing, hes been huggin like that for a while if you read my other post entitled **Hugs**) Its really weird... and he keeps on bringing it up, like i just got off the phone with him and hes like "wuttn that so funny today in lunch when we were standing in line and i looked at ya and did that head nod and kissed at you?" im like ... uhhh yeah ha..ha... The lunch lady saw it! help!
  21. heh , took me 6 years..... and she completely blew me off everytime i talked to her.... soooo.....
  22. I was just thinking about the future, what kind of jobs are there these days that are making GOOD money? Or what kind of a business is there to go into? What do you guys do for a living? I am taking accounting in school right now and I see that's became pretty popular due to all the scamming. What do you think about people living together? Anyone seen the sitcom "Yes Dear", there are 2 families living in the same house. What do you think about people doing that really? Here is an idea that a friend and I had, we were wanting to go into a partnership and own a business of some sort. How well do you think that would work? what are the ups and downs?
  23. yeah, the relationship sex is a lot more meaningful, but i dont see anything wrong with experimenting, ive done it one time before. Plus everyone else does it anyways... or at least around from where I'm from.. lol
  24. i dont understand why you would want to cut yourself? "this blade helps me cope with all of my pain"??? is it that you felt so bad and upset that when you cut yourself , it hurt more than your emotions and made you forget?
  25. yeah, sometiems i dont use that "energy" your talking about cuz it feels like im talking to a 2yr old and trying to teach it to talk "now heres a jokey jokey, why did the chicky wicky cross the roady woady?" ... lol
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