Ravens_eternity

thanks for reading and helping thanks vary much

in 2 days is my friend s birth day and my ex's will be there. some what it hurts so much to see her and i'm vary scared for some reason and i really don't know what to be like around her anymore and i don't know how to be when ppl are around us. i don't know what to feel so what i'm trying to say is i don't know what to do do i go to this bday party or not go like i really still love my ex and still want her back. but i'm so hurt all i can think of is to be cold. cuz i don't want to hurt any more plz help

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my ex was like htat you and i really want to know too

if your talking about what she sould do cuz she was getting bord of me. find new thing to do with each other like hiking, bikeing, swimming, there is so much things to do in the world. if he don't know how to dance like most guys take him to dancing class. cuz if your out there looking with him for a new thing to do . and when you guys find out a new thing to do and do it to gether it also builds up your guys relationship and love cuz you guys do thing together but you must know you also need time to do you own thing and if you don't know what to do on you own then think of something you can do to make him love you more like think up what your going to dress up ,like to make him think WOW i'm happy i'm with her and drool hahaha . like make you self better in ways you'll think he'll like, do new thing like people always told me "things are boring cuz your boring" i'm sorry if i my not make thing sound clear cuz i'm kinda in a hurry so sorry thanks for reading

do about what? i'm not sure what your asking

what i do cuz i have so much hurt and pain in side i even cry to sleep every night. is to just wright what you think down see what ever comes to mind i find it easy to talk about what i see around me then talk about what i think of it then things will come to gether there and you be righting 30. ex. i saw a lady with hr kids and talked about how happy they looked and then it poped in my head that i always hated getting marryed but with my ex she was the only one i ever thought about it more then once. hope tht helps

my exgf of 3.5, years was everthing that i wanted in a girl and everyting i'll ever ask for eveything to me. she broken up with me cuz she need time cuz she thought that she was still young and wanted to see whats out there date around(she want clubing and pubs and start smoken and smoken weed and hanging out with other People they lasted a short time, all in all she got bord of me). in the end i was hurt vary much and still hurting vary badly, the man that was the world to her she left behind to see the world and better things. friends say she found out one thing in the end "the world means nothing with out, the man that ment the world". and after all that she wanted to be single, to be young, to have nothing but fun, and look around for it. she did not look to see it was right in her face. now she still leave e mails and mges saying she wanted me back she's even to the point she want to my work and looked for me. and tryed to have me back. at the end my final gift to her was my wisdom 1)he gave you everything, don't be greedy 2)everything you throw away you can't get them back even if you get them back it's never the some. 3) that i still love her and always will be. but cuz what she did, we can never be. 4) know what you've got, love it cuz it my not be there P.S my friend told me she still cring about it, it's been mouths she still do. i still do love her and still truthflu want her back but in my mind all i can see is her with other people and and the day she left me. hopes this helps you in anyway it's really up too you for what you do and what you chose and don't let people give you th whole bs about you still being young

thanks you vary much for your guys and girls help and i'll take in mind all you have said.and i hope i can do what is best for me but it's hard cuz i have never been a self help but a self giver. i only have given my self to help ppl but never done anything for me. like one time i got hit by a car and was paid $1100 canadian money. i gave my mother $4000 and i used only $2000 for my self, for food and a place to stay for half a year.the the other $5000 used to help my ex to go to school and get away from her drug useing father and mother. anyways thanks so much for your guys wisdom Raven

ok to start off me and my ex have been broken more then 2 months and we have been to gether for like 3.5 years.i'm still so in love with her i never did anything to hurt her but she has done a bit to hurt me like kissing another guy for 10sec or so she say but that was in the past and was in our frist year. she broken up with me 2 month ago cuz she needed time and stress was getting to her from work and her mother and father. anyways i'm here to ask what i sould i do? i don't call or make any plans with her but i'll only talk to her when she calls and go out when she ask or calls for it. the thing is she makes the plans and blow them off most of the time and it hurts cuz she is always with her new friends (she left me and all her many years friend even her best friend for these new friends that she is alway out with) and she always have time for them and never us she don't even pick up any of her friends calls. what i really want to know is i go and see her when she picked the day and we'll have a great time talking about us and other things also many thing so we under stand each other more and how we feel. that night she held me and cry and told me she miss me and loves me so much. then the next time she made plans with me and blows me off (i was there at her job picking her up to hang out with flower to make her feel better with a new CD she always wanted but was only in the U.K i got it off ebay for $100 U.S but i think it's worth it to make some one happy and feel alot better. but then she told me that she was not going to hang out with me and got up set i even come to pick her up? like she told me to. and i even saw her new friends there whating for her to go hang out. i so wanted to lose it and take them out but i know it was not there falt and i don't like hurting in any way. it was her choseing. i want home and was so hurt i cryed. she called later in the week and made plans again so i want with it. thing want good full of heart and good feelings. then the hang out after that was blown off again and she'll be good next time then after that she'll acted like if we where never boy or girl friends and be cold. after that hang out she'll be worm and loving. so now i do 't know what hurts more her hateing me or loveing me plzzzzzzzzzzzzz help thanks for reading

i think you got things wrong she left me about a manth and a half ago we where to gether for 3 and a half years and i love her vary much cuz we been though so much

i have tryed taking it easy on her but she always runs of or hide who is taking it easy on me. i'm being the nice guy asking her nicely and she tells me she is stress and i do evething for her so she don't have to stress out doing it and at night i give her foot, back and hand masoges (sorry about spelling)

1)a girl about 1-2 inch shorter 2)dark blond(dark gold) 3)blue, green , gray, red-orunge, yellow eyes 4)no make up cuz i don't want to sleep with a hot girl and wake up to a monster(a bit of make up is ok like lip stick and mascara that it) 5)hourglass but not to curvy cuz to curvy can be a bad thingand cuz i want her to look like a woman,lady or a girl and not a real hourglass 6)ok about the breast, i think the best size is if it fits on your hand and just a bit bigger like a C cup. i think this cuz i like them to hold and stuff like that but i don't want to search for them or drown in them you know what i mean . 7)i think a small Tan is good but i don't think i like a girl going vary dark cuz it look to much like she been frying in the sun for days 8)what is my favorite part of the female body. at frist i thought i loved a woman breast and vagina (befor i fell IN LOVE)and that kinda thing but i soon learned that when i fell for my girl there was more then just her breast and butt or even her vagina. there was her back,neck,lips,hands,lags,body,head and so on and so on. but you know what i fell for her meaning everything good and even the bad thing. but if i had to pick one i would pick her neck cuz she love being kissed her and she has a lovely neck but if you asking about ass, breast or vagina. would have to say her vagina not cuz i'm just some horn dog, it cuz that i know that from there i'm able to show how much i love her and am able to make here feel good. i also want to add the way the girl acts, plays alot on how attractive she is cuz every guy knows even when you see a vary hot girl and she has the worst personality can really turn the guy right off and make him look away or even run . woman's personality I find attractive, is that she is fun but not off the roof vary mindfull of what she is doing and saying. but always speeks up for her self and stand for what she believe in. also know when she is wrong or right. smart but not the i'm to smart for you and i know all type.also open minded. most of all understanding and vary truthful cuz every one hate a lier and it would help the guy if you talk alot and tell him eveything you feel and that the girl makes you fell = no less no more just =. thanks, this i speak for my self and not for anyother thanks again for reading

think of it as this way you think and know with your mind(brain) you feel with your feeling (heart) love is a feeling that only you will know when it comes and cuz love is a feeling. you feel with your heart and not your head thats why it seem like what ever you read or hear about love. are not the some as each other cuz peaple are telling what there thoughts are and thought are from your mind(brian) so you can say love is wordless no one can tell you what it is and if people tell you that if you miss some one, thats how you know you love them. 1 it would be too late 2 love and missing are not the some(you can miss some one cuz there there all the time, don't mean you love them, your just use to them) hope you understand thanks for reading

my girl broke up with me about 1 and a half month. we are still talking and hanging out like once a week. she asked me to be friends after, so i did. i am still so in love with her, so i asked her how she feel about me and she tells me she loves me. and befor the last week she did not tell me she love me, she just do not want to say anything about it becasue she said it hurts to much. about a week ago she started to told me she loves me so much, or tells me frist that she loves me even befor i bring it up. then today i asked her and told her i know that you love me and everything and i trust you every time you say it, but i wanted to know if your still IN LOVE with me. she told me she did not want to talk about this and that i know why she is like this cuz she has to be cold to protact her self. she also tells me that. she miss me and all. but it's ok that she tells me that she love me about 5 min befor. but she can't tell me if she is in love with me so what i want to know is, does she LOVE as in careing vary much for me or she IN LOVE with me but can't say it cuz it hurts to much? but how can she tell me she love me then? please helppppppppppppppp........ thanks

i'm not one to say cuz i hate doing the dishes but if he eats he cleans the rule in my house is if you use it you clean it and if some one make you dinner at lease clean there dish as a thank you for the food. and don't pull out the i buy the food crap so i don't clean sh!t. man if he is being rude then be rude back. no point being nice to some one that is rude and stuff cuz 1) your not his slave cuz if he think woman need to be chained to the mop and sink, he has something to learn 2) i think you sould tell him what you think of him. and if he don't understand what your saying then tell your mom to say it to him thanks for your time

this one is too drahcir. i'm not saying i know everything but i'm not saying everthing is right but you do not even know what depression really is to even say about it i thought the some way you did untell i want out with a girl(the one i love) and soon found out that she got depression. i thought it was just her being sad about "something" and i thought this for a long time. but soon i found out she was just crying out of nowhere and sad about nothing i talked to lot's of docters and read up on it. the thing is peaple who have depression they get sad about nothing at all and i'm not talking about nothing as in small things but nothing, just nothing at all. and some time even cry out of nowhere even if she was vary happy about 5 min ago. so some what you can call it a illness peaple dont' call it that just for fun they call it that beacsue it is an illness. yes i know there is some thing out there that sould not be even called anything but an illness, but people call it that beacuse there like you they don't really understand what it really is. thanks for your time

This chick is looking for someone to father her child. She dumped you. Now, she's asking back for you, to clean up after her mess and to look after some other bastard's dirty deed. *CENSORED* HER!" sorry if i'm colder then ICE, and sound like my heart is blacker then drath vaders helmit. but 2 things i don't put up is 1) man picking on woman in anyway and every way 2)woman/man who (PROFANITY DELETED BY MODERATOR) peaple over then comeback becasue there being (PROFANITY DELETED BY MODERATOR) over and make it siad like there the one that is the victom.

i have tryed that but she never tells me what she is even planing. but the funny thing she said she know what she is doing is not helping or working but for some crazy thing she is still doing it and like i said she know she is taking ahead dive down from a 100 floor high roof. i have also tryed making her or tryed geting her to make deals that would help her and she will not do any it. she gets her vary hard head from her mother and father. so i don't know what to do trust me i have tryed doing everthing i can come up with that will not make her push me and others aways. but non still work. you must think mybe give her the time she wants. i have tryed that to but she is going crazy(drinking and falling to sleep at others house,and all most never coming home, smoke like there going out of still. and she have even changed the way she dress from nice near goth but not gath to vary high mini's and tank tops that look like it's made of 3 g-string put to gether. she use to be vary sexy but not slvtty you know what i mean. but my GOD she even told me, guys driving around tryed picking her up thinking she was a hooker. what can i do to help her from doing crazy thing like this. plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help i don't knowwhat to do anymore. i'm so worryed about her

thanks for the tip beeC but i have tryed it all. 1. i do tell her that but like i said she has been pushing every one away. even me the one she says that she love most of all. when i tell her she is always like i know, i know , i know. and thats why i care so much for you and things like i love you beacsue your the one always on my side and the only one that understands me.she tells me she love me so much but she just need time to work things out (but like i said even she knows that she is taking a head dive down a 100 floor roof). and when anyone, even me trys to help she just kinda push that person even more away.she has been hide keeping, keeping stuff and lieing even to me. she has never done that to me even befor we want out, that was like 5 years ago never a lie and now. 2. we have all tryed to help her one way or another and stuff like that i have even taken time from my life to talk to her mother,father, friend she has known for a long time, even friends at her work that know me. you can say i must be most hard head.big hearted and stuff like that. guy for even putting up with all this even after she ripped my heart out and kicked it it about. but i know something is wrong with her. if she changed slowly ok i understand but one day it was like pooofffff... 180 in 1 sec flat. and changed. it was like WTF every one thinks the same way i do about her . it was like from ms. nun to ms. nun of your beeswax.(i think you get the point)anyways back to what i was saying they have said the some thing "she has changed alot out of nowhere. even her mom and dad who most of the time don't care much about where she goes at what time. is getting scared from this. Q: do you think me trying to help her is getting more in her way? Q should i do now? Q love her with everything i got but i would rather help her get well and be happy then her being back with me(even if my deep cut well never heal with out her) do you think i'm doing the right thing? Q: do you think this is just something she is going through becasue i have read lots of stuff at this place and i can see that woman after being with a guy at the age from 18-25 and has dated for about 2.0-3.5 year they do this and leave there man. why is this so? anyways thanks for your time and if you can help in anyway please do thanks so much

i need help but not for me it's for my ex GF. we are still friends but it's been hard. in the last 4 month. she just changed just like that. she smokes like crazy (1.5 pack a day), she used to hate beer and now she is drinking like there will be no beer in the next 10 years or something. she don't call any of her friends anymore even her best friend from 3 grade and they always been friends non of her friends have even been able to talk to her even after leaving text and vioceM. she don't call back or even pick up the phone. she has not sleeped at home much her mother say she is always out and sleeping at a old girlfriends(amanda) house for like 4-5 days out of the week some time the whole week. the only time any one can call her like her mother or father is when they call her at work.she use to always have her room clean like crazy clean but now her room is like a nuke hit it. it's like she just changed 180 and want the other way. i dont' know what to do to help her she is vary vary stressed out of her mind and she is not the type that can take the smallest stress. but she been take the stress from work and her life and taking it out on all her friends and the one she love most ME. and i know why she is doing all this stuff but she also know she is heading the wrong way she even told me. but she just don't know what to do and i told her that like i said befor and always that i'll always be there for her no matter what and she know this but she don't want to let me help her in any way. i know why she broken up with me from all her stress and stuff and she tells me she need her own time, i know this too but i really love her and i want ot help her in any ways that i can. please help me, help her.thanks for your time in reading, sorry it's so long but i tryed making it short as i can. ask me anything you need and i'll tell you more thanks so much

man i'll give up almost anything to be in your place, with my ex(still hoping to come back to her)

ya i think if a guy really care for a girl that much then, hell ya he'll do it. if my ex stayed with me and did not give me sex i still love her the some

i don't think you have anything to worry because when i had sex with my ex for the frist time she was like you mybe even worse but then when after the frist time we where doing it like monkey every day. so don't worry lots of my friend where like that.

i'm 19 and i think if the girl is younger then me only 3 years younger and if older 1 year