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well thanks, yea ill keep those things in mind...and no this is not my first girlfriend haha...its just...been a long time, like 2 years...and back then it wasn't even like, real anyway....so hell yes this is my first time haha. Ill post back on what happens in a few weeks

Well u guys might remember me from a while back when i was having all of those relationship problems...well i finally found a nice girl that i like, and things are going well...we aren't "going out" but we are dating...whats a good way for me to show her some affection?...any form really

u wanna know what happened, we broke up. sorry case closed, thanks for your help. but she dumped me for my best friend, who i took her from. hmm kinda messed up right. well anyway just forget it ok. im fine mi moving on, here is the story that i have in my journal today, i talked with mr waters, finally got my classes switched. i feel a lot better about the classes now. at the game was kinda aquard, i still liked jay. but i later found out that rusty asked her out, and she said yes. i was crushed, but now i see that, well i see that its bad. and i feel bad. but somehting in me keeps saying just drop it, dont kill rusty, its ok, just find another person to love. why is it like that? i ask myself. is it pure lust i am feeling, or reconsilliation for what was lost. why am i doing this, or is it that this other person i do like seriously. I have a class with her, and ive known her for maybe a yaer now. everything is messed up. i told jay, i said. "jay, just go with rusty, and be happy" i mean thats all that really matters. i can find a new person to satify my lust, but the jay that i like will never be replaced. its so evil how it is. how i feel, why these urges exsist. after the game we talked online, that is how i found out. im glad that she at least told me, shows that she at least respects me, and i cant treat her or rusty bad, its the wrong thing to do, but one thing is for sure, conscious or not. me n rusty wont be the same, we wont ever be real friends again, because we both feel like we stabbed each others backs. in a way we both did and didn't. its besides the point, we dont like each other anymore, me n rusty. me n jay are not made for each other, i will still be a friend to her, becuase i mean why not u know. hell i cant just exile her from my head. i started crying when i first herd of this, event though we have just been friends for about a week, i guise thats why i didn't take it that hard. its not like she dumped me. she just, left me. But as friends will probably remain, for what reason i dont know. i just know that something in me is saying dont befriend her. and i respect what ever the hell that little thing is, and i respect her. so i guese i will go on, find a new girlfriend. and prosper, i want the pain to end for everyone. and poor alex, i tell of how i am lonely, when i dont know the meaning. he told me that he hasn't had a girlfirend in his hole life. i feel like it will eventually happen, alex is a nice guy, i will hope for the best, for everyone. i figure that love, is a very powerfull thing, after a little bit ur hooked, and when u loose it. ur life in a sense ends temporarily. that is just kinda how i feel. left behind but ya know what, to everyone who is reading this, lets give a prayer to god asking him to relieve the pain of the people on this earth who have to go through these thigns, maybe he will listen and grant us happyness... so hope that clears up anything, if ya wanna read my journal then pm me and ill link ya up, it has what me n her have been doing for the past few weeks since the day i met her.

Ok well herse the deal, im sure all of u have read all over the forums of me and this girl i like and have been seeing, but ill give ya a short round up. We have been going out for 2 weeks, and we no longer go out, casue she feel slike we cant communicate, cause we are both shy, but mayb ei can break the ice. what are some ways to communicate with people? i believe that the reason we cant is becuase were hung up over all this stuff that happened, please help me, i dont wanna loose her

well, things aren't gonig that great . as i said before this girl is really shy. so anyway long story short she think that i move to fast, i mean shes only 13, i feel so bad that i did it to her, its just that she freezes up when i touch her, and she couldn't tell me to stop. she thinks i love her fro the wrong reasons. when i first started talking to her online i loved her for who she was, just being that we are both shy all we can do is make out when we are together without conversation. i hate it so i will save this question for another section. i need help making my girl happy but i dotn wanna do it sexually

dude, i go out with a 13 year old man. age dont matter man. u might get some disrecpect from her dad, "what the FFFF are u doing with my daughter" but DONT take advantage of a girl just becuase she is younger and more gullable, i am somewhat guilty of this

my dad will get drunk on occation and just talk about it, haha and describe i lauph, but i then know. but yea even when sober they both talk to me, mom not so much though, but my dad yea.

lol, i said the D word, anyway umm. haha thanks for ur advice, and ur right about the hole lust thing. but i dont know. its hard to say no i think. ill just see and tell yall later. hell ive masturbated so many times thinking of girls. I think my virgenity is allready gone. but to say the truth we probably wont have sex, just maybe some 2 hand touch will be going down.

Ok here the deal thanks to yalls help on another section i stayed with the girl who is my best friends ex. anyway things are going good and we like each other. we have been seeing each other for 2 weeks. we have been kissing a lot and yesterday i felt up her tits a little and she was messaging my dick(still with clothes on), haha its kinda funny cause we were in her living room and her mom walked in. anyway though, things are starting to heat up. she has told me that she wants to wait and make sure before having sex, but when she is with me she will somewhat go ahead with what im doing. she is a little shy. here is my question. should i have sex with her if the moment comes. or should we just maybe give each other hand sex. or something. what is the best thing to do. usually we just sit down and watch a movie while making out. the thing is the more she messages me the further i want to go. i guess ill just see what happens. i got condoms, but i guess ill just see. what is ur advice to me?

ok well i believe things finally started working, my friend found out. he was really mad at first but eventually started to wont to talk to me again. i still see this girl. i found another girl that i liked, but now i know that i like this girl that ive been trying to get with. i still have a few questions but they will go in another section. but thanks for all of ur help we are now seeing each other

ok thanks i think ill try the letter and the coffee shop thing, its just that the day i saw her was her last day, its just like a weeklong couse, but yea i can give her a letter, ill just ride by and put it in her mailbox, lol. thanks for the help

heres the deal my mom signed me up for this gay drivers training thing to lower our insurance, anyway i met this very attractive girl, like we take turns while this other girl was driving for 3 hours me and this sexy latina chated in the back. the way she laughed and talked to me, and made eye contact, i believe that she was interested in me, we chated for those 3 hours, i just didn't exactly let her know that i liked her, i was gonna try to touch her a few times, but i was afrid that she was just being nice to me, while she was driving she would look at me through the rear mirror. mmm her eyes are pretty n brown, i fell for that girl. and before it was my turn to drive we drove her home, so i know where she lives, she said "bye john, in a sexy way" and then i said "bye stephonie, nice meeting u" i should of said "can i get ur number", but i didnt' i really want to see her again, and i her that she goes to this coffee shop downtown, thing is that she lives 30 minutes a day, and i really want to see her again, but she goes to a different school(private chirstian school) i could try going to that coffee shop and hope to by chance see her, or i could ride by her house and knock on her door(i dont wanna look like a stalker or anything) but how can i contact this girl. i felt like i fell madly in love with her the moment i saw her. and id like to see if she feels the same for me. please give me a suggestion on how to find her

hmm, i kinda know how ya feel man, i had to go through this drivers training corse and sat in the back seat with this very attractive latino girl. she was cuban and very sexy. she goes to one of those chirtian schools like all girls, that probably why i think she liked me(lack of boys at her school). haha. anyway though, we had lots of eye contact, we would make gesterus towards each other, but i think that it was me who chicken'd out, cause she had her hand placed down, i believe in a mannor of whitch she wanted me to touch her hand and hold it, she would curl her hair. but, i didn't get her number aaaahhh i hate my self for that. but she lives about 30 minutes away, but it was my fought for not getting her number or holding her hand, that makes her think that im not interested when i really am, u gotta show her that u care and do like the guy said and give her a hug, maybe kiss her hand. lol. then if ya get into maybe kiss her lips. but i think girls like attention like that, u just gotta let em know that u like em.

dude, i tell ya what, your bad grades is contributed to thinking about her all the time, as if your thnking about asking her if she likes you or something, dont be shy, just go up let it fly and try to chill with her, start hanging with her and talking, thats the first thing that shows somebody of the opposite sex that you are interested, but no it is not wrong to love to much, u just need to go get her and separate play from work. There is time for love even though its hard to get it out of your mind, school is important. but i think that your just letting these feelings build up in you. let them flow, lol

just hang with her more man, show her u love her, see if she loves back. thats another approach. I mean a lot of times when i first meet a girl, getting her number shows her that your interested. but yea, do stuff for her, go a litte bit further than what just a friend would do. if shes interested in you then shell start showing some signs. i think thats better then asking, cause once you ask, its yes or no, essentually thats what it is anyway, but the other approach more accuratly shows everyones feelings. once she knows that you like her, if she liked u just a little, then she start to like you more, then once you got her, ask her on a date or something. hope this helped

i tell ya what, saying something only goes so far, when you truly love somebody, you will give up something no matter what it is, for her to be happy, you throw out all your old (devil music) just for her to be happy. u love her everything, she makes you so happy, u love her for it. Just to know that she likes you back makes you like her. But when you both are in a state where you would give anything just to be with the other one, that is true love. like a lot of times youl see a hot girl walking by, and you want to say hi, when you do u find that a lot of times its not love, u dont click, it dosn't work. then sometimes you find a girl that works perfect. i think that is what true love is. thats my 2 cents

hey, that undercover thing your talking about really works great, that it what innitially led me to the girlfriend i have now, it was as if she was leaving under the table hints that she would like to be with me. like yea my advice to the thread starter, is that this is a good way to lure somebody in, i fell head over heels for the girl im with now. i love her so much. anyway though, i think that this is good both ways, but this is a really good way to get the guy also, if he thinks your cute at all, i mean if he likes you, when you advance on him he will let you, at least thats the way i am, i mean a lot of guys even if they dont know the girl, if they like them and then the girl comes on to them then thell give in. but yea i aggree that if he calls everyday then he does care,(hemight just be shy though) and again, those undercover hints will let him know that you wanna get down with him. also after youv gotton started what ever your trying to do with him, then its good to say it bluntly(i love you, ect ect). but youl know the right time to say this. after my girl told me she liked me(undercover like) i said it right there that i liked her, that i liked her from the very moment i saw her, we talked about our past and all kinds of stuff, and when you know that your both digging each other then try to make some moves, and most likely the dude will be like "i love you baby, your so awsome) but this is just my opinion and the girl that i quoted opinion

me and my new girlfriend have been experimenting with pain. We dont cut our veins open or anything, but one thing we did do though is put salt on out bodies where the veins are and then hold ice on top. This small burn really makes the "making out experience" a lot better. This is another thing i love so much about this girl is that she is so much like me. I mean when something hurts like crap it sucks ass, but sometimes when you are in love, gentle pain can make the love better, its as if your showing your love with your pain. ive also read books about how pain can actually lead to pleasure, such as when you have a loose tooth and you wiggle it, even though it hurts you still do it, it makes you feel better to inflict pain on yourself. sometimes stretching your body can lead to the same thing. also biting, gentle bites on the earlobes, lips, neck, whatever help to stimiulate your sex drive and the other persons who is getting the pain. right now i have a big burn on my arm with blisters but everytime i think of my girlfriend i feel glad that i did it, (we did it to each other), is this considered a fetish? and does anyone else do this?

are there any side effects?

i got the same thing, and i masturbate so i dont know. i dont think the chicks mind though. 8)

something i have noticed that many people fall back on when they are confused is religion. I am a christain, and we read the bible, this is the book to how to live our lives and we follow it. I feel what you feel, maybe not quite to the same extent, but i do go from one thing to the other, mostly the only thing that stays constant is girls, computers, and games. U just need to get out and party, looses up.(even though you might be trying to do this) if you are trying to do these things then i would suggest christianity. if you heart and soul is pure and believing then god will lead you in the right direction. another thing to remember, you will probably be unsure, until u find god. and remember he is always with you.

ok well, weve been talking and stuff, and we are planning on meeting this weekend. i dont know whats gonna happen with me and my friend, but i gotta be with girl. I am in love with this girl, and she is with me. but im gonna meet her this weekend and talk to her parents and all that stuff, i thin ill take her and buy her a coffee or something. anyway though, ill post on what happens. and thanks crvidales lol, well hopefull things will fall into place.

well thanks for your help guys. anyway, last night i talked to her for like 7 hours strait and did all this stuff, like we both put salt on hour arms then ice it. haha, im not really sure why, but we did. anyway though, she sais that im one of the only guys that she can talk to like that, and i couldn't help but notice the same about her. I like her.

well it turns out that i finally found a girl that i like. The only problem is that, she is my best friends X(she dumped him). I mean i dont want to hurt hes feelings, and he dosn't even know of any of this. ive just been chatting over the phone and the internet with her. she is a real doll, and its so wrong for me to do this. She told me that we should just wait until the hole thing blows of with her X(my best friend) until we start getting intiment. but sooner or later hes gonna find out, i mean we all go to the same school, how will he not know, and how should i go about keeping him my friend, and hes X my girl, i know it sounds wrong but even though ive known my friend a lot longer than this girl, just to be with her i would risk me and my friends relationship. i already know that he feels really bad right now becuase of them breaking up, so i figured i would get him hooked up with somebody, or maybe bust open a computer monitor with him to blow of some steam. but all in all i cant help feeling bad because of what he is feeling. but i still intend to be with this girl. i think. what should i do?

ok thanks for your help guys, well it turned out that the girl i wanted to meet couldn't come, so i like put out messages and told as many peolple as i could to come. Me and this one girl started liking each other.