NEBO

But my GF she just switched in one week and it is as if I never existed. I cannot seem to tap into her missing me, as if 6 months had passed or someting like that. Very strange. it is because she is female, and thereforeeeeeee totally devoid of any feelings or compassion. she was "addicted' to the male aspects of your character that fulfilled her need. when you stopped doing that for her, she simply swapped "the male" for one that did. (they're like heroin junkies when it comes to fulfilling their own needs) She still craves "the male", like she always did. it's just that "the male" isn't you anymore.

"there's only one (censored), with many faces" there're plenty of other (censored) out there fellas, don't let them get to you!!!! BE STRONG! my ex cheated on me with her super-dooper, i was crushed etc, acted like fairy-floss. she LOVED it. i can only imagine the reinforcement her self-esteem must have gained seeing me hurt. (for the female, a male's pain is the barometer for her own self-worth) i give up, despite the pain, and get on with my life, have fun with friends, start all my hobbies again, start working out again, buy new clothes. i'm getting there... she hears of this (or must've seen me or something) coz one day outta nowhere i get a call on my mobile. it's her. i just watched it ringing for ages, and then i made the fatal mistake. i answered the phone. she's blubbering and wailing, "oh i miss you" "i need to be with you" blah blah blah...and like a WEAK CHUMP she eventually broke me. i took her back. she was back with the other (censored) the VERY NEXT DAY, it took me two months to get her out of my hair after that. i am disgusted at the memory of my weakness over a mere woman. i got some closure when i cornered her with him, when she swore she only wanted me etc, was getting money off me etc but was getting hot beef injections from him i put them in fear of their lives, they didn't feel so (censored) sure about playing games with me then. my friend's backed me up, their little gang were terrified. i got my balls back, i had some male pride back. i was on top of the world, healthy, happy, in touch with friends and family again, having a ball meeting new girls. NEVER want the woman back. women want those who want themselves. If YOU wanted yourself and valued yourself, you wouldn't put up with ONE MOLECULE of their s hit. so DON'T DO IT!!! If you don't want them back and want to be over them ASAP: "Be happy with yourself, focus on yourself and your own happiness" If you do want them back: Be happy with yourself, and focus on yourself and your own happiness as for myself...i am just coming to HATE them more and more with every passing day. i got no respect for anything as soulless, callous, heartless, merciless, mindless, and EVIL as a female. If you're female and reading this i hope that Alpha Male you're swooning over takes you for a ride, does disgusting things to you, cheats on you, then kicks you to the kerb. even then you'll still want him back, in preference over that quiet guy that would devote himself to you for life. earnestly awaiting the development of an artifical womb.... NEBO

As for you being played on. Please be advised that not all women are like that. yes they are. forget the (censored) as quickly as u can mate. never open up to women, never get soft to women, or you'll lose them, they won't want u anymore. with your next woman (because you are NEVER going to talk to your old (censored) again!!!!), always prioritize yourself first. always be prepared to walk away, NEVER back down if she gives u (censored) or makes unrealistic demands of u. stand your ground, speak your mind, and be prepared to walk away from her. i'll guarantee you she'll love you forever for it. live and learn mate, you'll be alright. unless you can learn to get another woman QUICKLY, so that you never worry too much about the one your currently with, no woman will want to stay with you. they'll leave you for a Alpha Male. "Oh, but it just happened!" my (censored) ....... Look on the bright side, lucky the censored) didn't get pregnant AGAIN to her Super-Dooper, then tell you that it is YOUR child to keep you roped in as a provider. Estimates are that as many as 10% of children have no genetic relationship with their alleged fathers. (censored) ....ALL of them

that's right lucy, listen to your soulless female brethren. you're only obligation is to make yourself happy! if you want to play mind games with 2 or 3 or 5 or 67 or even 100 different men, dumping them, then wanting them back, then you go ahead and do it! since when was commitment and honesty a priority to females eh? since when did a male's feelings mean anything to a girl anyway. thanks for this insight into the insane slice of hedonism that is female reality. I can't wait for you to get played, and to have your heart crushed by a Pick Up Artist - slash - Alpha Male. If only I could bottle such pain to drink...what a sweet vintage it would be.

At the time, I had a boyfriend back home, but I met "Mr. Perfect" here. He worked with my roomate and he was just beautiful and funny and smart and we clicked and before I knew it, he had me breaking up with my old boyfriend and I was with him. you wish you could "just turn off"??!! well you (censored) DID when you dumped your last bf for your new Alpha Male!! Just like every other whore female...soulless. It fills my heart with happiness to know you are suffering. you DESERVE the pain you are feeling right now. you were PLAYED! he turned off to you so fast because he HAD NO FEELINGS FOR YOU AT ALL! he was in all liklihood seeing other women, or had others at the ready. SUFFER!!!! 100% of women want the same 1% of men, and act surprised when this 1% cheats on and dumps them. it's as though the 99% of males who would devote themselves to their woman are sub-humans or something, they don't enter into any female calculations.

you obviously hit a rough patch with her, and now like all girls she is sugar coating her memories of her Ex. exaggerating all the good times, forgetting all the bad times. "Oh, He was so good, he was so funny, he cared about me so much more" conveniently forgetting the bashings and abuse as they do so... she cheated on you with him. full stop. sounds like her heart is still with him now as well. if you can lie-down with her knowing that her heart wants him, yearns for him, she wants his touch, wants to be with him, then you're a sadder man than I. I couldn't even touch her again knowing that! What normal Partner remains in contact with their Ex and says nothing? What a disgusting, repugnant and deceitful thing to do. men and women cannot be friends without feelings being involved which lead to infidelity. not right away, but the road there is straight and clear. (censored) her off, and get a new woman. you deserve more than her. why should you be made to feel bad?! he can deal with her bullshit. hopefully she'll die alone and lonely. with syphillus too.

I, take you ______, for my husband, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part guess those vows meant an awful lot to you... like all women, you won't be satisified til you've crushed his self-esteem completely. despite your flatulent vows, that's one thing that can be counted on.

do NOT give her anything on valentine's day. do NOT do or say ANYTHING that would even give her an inkling that you have feelings for her. Don't even initiate contact with her! Act like you are over it, happy, you've been on a few dates already, perhaps you're seeing another girl that very night. You'd love to chat longer with her, but you have things to do (indoor climbing with your friends, appointment with your financial planner, helping a new female friend move furniture, going to visit your folks, etc) so you'll have to get back to her. if she ever calls you, you're busy right then and there, you have to hang up, you'll call her back in 20 minutes when you are done. your time is important, you aren't at her beck and call. you can also compose yourself, so that you don't make the fatal mistakes of appearing that you need her, that you feel for her. if i were you, i'd forget about her. you've lost her love, and you've been relegated to "Let's Just Be Friends" land, and from there, my friend, there is no coming back. She'll keep you in her orbit if she can as someone to emotionally abuse when she needs a self-esteem injection (ie; she's feeling down after being knocked back by one of the alpha males she's really chasing, and has to know she can still, as a woman, get a guy jumping with just a call. that'd be you). Forget her. Go (censored) ten other women, and she won't seem so "special" anymore. every relationship i've been in, when i've acted the way a girl allegedly wants a guy to (devotion, affection, attention, commitment, etc) the girl has gone cold so fast there was a sonic boom. if you always prioritize the girl second, keep in touch with your friends, hobbies, always have fun on your own inside, the girl will stick by you. have a relationship if u need a long term girl in your life. just prioritize the relationship, focus on keeping it healthy and fresh, so it doesn't matter if the girl in it changes. the female can be interchangeable. in a nutshell, forget her mate. all you need to be happy, you have in yourself. there are plenty of girls out there you'll meet another. my 2 cents.

Pick up and (censored) ten other women, then come back and tell me how "special" this one girl seems to you. you don't need her mate! why should you be unhappy? you are complete just as you are! also, remember: there is a girl within 50km of you who is willing to love you for the rest of your life...you just have to find her. link removed

AMEN AxeMan! My last (censored) cheating GF dragged me thru the mud, because i was crushed and couldn't let her go, it was like a game of power, she enjoyed it all. i finally snapped, realised i had to be a F-ing Man about it, got a few friends and confronted her with her new SuperDooper and his friends. They had to know they couldn't do that to a person, and swan about free of all retribution and repercussion. We made them feel terror. They didn't feel so cocky about their "victory" of cheating on me thinking I didn't know then! Mr "Alpha Male" didn't feel so Alpha after that...he shat himself, she was made to swallow the truth that she was a cheating * * * * *, caught red-handed as she was, and I walked away feeling free, with some pride again, after months of lies, lies, lies, lies, lies, lies, lies..... evolutionary psychology in action 'eh... ALL women cheat eventually. If you have a bad spell, have a rough trot, whatever, and stop making your girl feel excitement, passion, or emotion, then you're done. she'll cheat. they don't stand by men through bad times. she'll make herself available for seduction, and justify it with some Chick Logic excuse like "it just happened" women file for 85% of divorces in Australia (according to The Herald Sun) citing "Their need for happiness" as the major reason. Just up and leave cause it's not exciting anymore. (shrugs) so don't feel bad mate...your wife is female was thereforeeeeeee ALWAYS going to cheat on you eventually.