Amaranth

yeah thats what i plan to do, be a romantic type of friend thing, i was thinking of sending her some flowers on valentines day just like "hey happy valentines" and a cd of romantic music "hope ya have a good valentines" would that be over doing it?

yes i really want to wait for her, but i dont want to be attached to her forever if she is not coming back, she is putting me on the back burner which hurts alot, when alot of girls would be putting me on the front, but the chance to be with her again is much better then being with any other girl, what i am afraid is i will move on and get a gf, then in a few months she will come back, and i would dump any girl to be with her, and that wouldnt be fair to anyone envolved. she really hurt me. but i am a better person for it i guess

yeah i need some advice here, the story is, me and this girl were best friends for like 2 years, she broke up a relationship over me just out of the blue, we dated for 6 months, the last three she lived with me, slept in her arms every night, anyway, one day i get in a fight with mom, she gets scared and leaves, says i didnt treat her right, she is kind of a depressed person who didnt take her pills regularly. anyway, said she stilled loved me, she needed time to herself just time to be single, time to be alone, she said she may or may not be back. love her very deeply, i was pretty broken up over it. never ate for a long time still aint, anyway, i need advice on how to move on or if i should wait for her to cme back