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well actuallly, I have to start NC all over. I messed up & called him earlier today (after thinking & posting about it so much) but I knew he wasn't going to answer since he's working so I just lefted a message. Ooops I goof But starting tomorrow I will start NC for sure, again. if he calls back or not. Your right we just have to take one step at a time.

I think since we can relate to each other & going thro kinda the same thing we should do NC together. Tho, I know it will be really hard to do so "easier said then done' of course but it might be the best thing.

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Thankyou! How have you been? Heres a little update Well, he called me the other night on my phone but I missed the phone call because it was almost 12 midnight and I was sleeping. Even tho there was no message from him, it was still good to see he tried to call. Do you think it's a good idea for me to wait to see if he tries calling me again, still continue what I'm doing?

I don't think he's thinking about the last message he left me at all.. He hasn't contact me any since then. I just keep on trying to have patience. Thanks Tigris

This is a very good question.. I must subscribe to this thread!

Yeah, Maybe... I was thinking I would wait for him to call me back?

I called my friend earlier & left a message on his voicemail today to just hi since it has been a while since I last heard from him and we actually talked... We have been playing some phone tag lately.. Well, he did just return my call but I got a weird 18 second voice mail on my machine saying "Hey" Don't bother calling me back today, don't call me back today it's Wedensday" Then after he said that he said that he got my postcard & he got myspace to check it and that he will talk to me later. Is it just me or was that a weird voice mail? Am I thinking to much about this message? Maybe he will be to busy later to pick up? I just don't understand what he meant by that? He said 2 times on my machine to not to call him back today(without a reason why) Hmmm, Opinions, anyone? Do you think something is wrong or am I worrying to much about the message? Thanks in advance. ~ didyoumissme?

Hello Everyone! Today is my first day in decideing to seriously do No Contact. My question is: is there a way to actually do NC without having to tell the other that your going to not talk to him/her for a while to get better? I think it's easier if doing no contact without saying.. However, if they call & leave a message,email, or txt do we just simply ingore the call,email,txt etc? I don't know if hes going to call me and actually leave me a message. I know he's been calling and hanging up on my machine as I been seeing miss calls on my phone but to me if they don't leave a message how am I suppose to know I got a call,right? What if I get a voice mail message? Do I ever call back if so, when? Please help me, I need alot of support in order to stay strong over this! I need help in stopping the cycle going in my head. Advice appreciate, Thanks!

Today is my first day of no contact! I started today thinking it's a new month & the first. I'm going to try to do NC all this month! Good Luck

Thankyou *hugs*

Yeah, I can do that. I just tell myself I do it for one day then tomorrow, I will do it too then the next day, so on. Thanks!

Why is it everytime I think about doing NC with this special someone I get so sad? Tears come pouring down my face rapidly. The thought of it actually kills me inside. And it's hurts so bad that I don't want to even try doing NC (even tho it may help me get over him more) Any advice ,Please?

Hello Everybody. This may sound silly but I'm going away to the poconos/mountains soon located in PA. My friends want me to write them while I am away. But, I don't know what to say or write to them in the postcard. Can anyone help me ? Any suggestions? Thanks in advance

that's exactly what I do to keep in touch with close online/long distance friends!

Thanks everyone! We chatted on the phone and it was really nice talking to him again because it's been a while since we last spoken on the phone! I got his phone number now & he got mine so hopefully we stay in touch more. His b-day is coming up soon, So I'm thinking about calling him at 12am to say Happy Birthday!

My buddy called me and left a message on my voice mail the other day! I was so surprised and happy because it's been a while since I last heard from him, I was starting to get sad in thinking I wasn't going to hear from him ever again or something. This is just a online friendship(never met in person) But, we been friends for over 3 years now! Well, he left his phone number on the voicemail so that I can call him back but I am kinda nervous in calling him back because it's been about 6 months since we last spoken on the phone. It took him over a month to email me! I'm glad he did contact me tho! It's just so weird on how like it took a long while for him to contact me again. Is that a good thing or bad thing tho? He must still care for our friendship to contact me again still,right? What does everyone think? Feed back appreciated!

Nope, if the phone is off it won't record any missed calls.

Hello Everyone! How much do you or suppose to value a online friend ,who you know for a couple years or so? What are the signs that they value your friendship back? Phonecalls,emails,mailing you letters & things! Thoughts?

Hey Everybody, I need some help. I emailed a couple online guy friends with this email yesterday. I know they have read them , just didn't reply My question is that , Is it just me? Did I say anything wrong in the email i sent them? Or are they just being igornant by not replying? This is the message I sent them below... Hey , How are you? Was wondering if you had any mail from me recently? I sent out a Holiday card to you a while ago... Well, if you haven't already, you should get it soon. I hope you are well.

I've been on and off the phone with my sister all day today. She's been upset because all day cops and everybody been knocking on the door. Well, for a while she just ingored them and hoped that they would just go away. But, they didn't. Finally, She just gave in and opened the door. She just called to tell me that They took her baby from her and she doesn't know why. She saying they took her baby for nothing.. For nothing? She had to do something and just not tell me. I don't know. But, this is my precious niece we are talking about here whos now 7 months old. They said that the baby is with the state for 15 days. Whatever that means? 15 days?! What happens during the 15 days or even after the 15 days? She doesn't know. I don't know ether. Someone help me to understand I'm afraid that my niece is going to be gone now, for good.

What if your cyber friend is miles & miles away and you just can't meet in person yet but you talk to he/she many times on the phone? You would definitly know by talking on the phone that he/she is that true person & still could consider them to be your friend,right?

Hello. I'm confused right now. This may sound silly but I'm not sure if what type of love I feel for my net friend who I known about 2 years now. I don't know if I just love him like how a friend should love a friend or if I love him more then that like really love him -inlove. I'm always thinking about him. I get sad & miss him lots when i don't hear from him for a while but then jump for joy when he does contact me whether its thro email,phone etc.(thinking yay he must still care about me & our friendship) I go out of my way to help him whenever asks me to help him. I don't know,what does everybody think? Any advice on this? Am I just being a good friend to him or could I possibly feel more?