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  1. didyoumissme
    I'm good , Thanks. I'm still going strong with NC too... I don't think he's called since Friday night. But then again, I turned my phone off so that I wouldn't be looking for his call or exspecting a miss call.. I'm still hanging in there..
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    Good Morning! How is everyone doing today?
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    ahhh.. what to do now.. I still haven't contacted him in any way. I'm guessing I should just still stay low.. That wasn't much of a message he lefted a couple nights ago anyway. So it's not like I should feel obligated to call back,right?
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    Thankyou.... even tho I was strong enough not to answer the phone or return his call. I still can't help from wondering what the message on my machine meant with him just saying " beep, beep, beep" ? I figured too if he really wanted to talk to me or for me to return his call.. he could've and/or can leave me a better message then that. Good Job with not unblocking your ex! I wouldn't unblock him till you feel 100% ready. Just like I am not calling til I am ready! I know what you mean about unable to stop caring for him, I feel the extact same way. Keep Strong. I gotta go to work now, so I will be back later. I hope you have a good day!
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    So, he called me the other night & lefted a message on my machine only saying these words " beep, beep, beep" I wonder why he only lefted a message saying just that? Maybe it's because on my outgoing voicemail I say " Hi, sorry I can't come to the phone right now, leave a message after the beep?" I didn't call him back tho, I don't know when I will end up calling him back...
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    another day, still staying strong.. Off to work I go now, I'm just keeping busy with working and everything. I hope all is well with everyone!
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    That's a very good idea! I was just actually thinking earlier if he contacts me then that's when I will contact him. If he does contact me, I'm thinking it will be a phone call, if that. And.. I'm to scared to talk to him over the phone I get to stressed out and have alot of aniexty to talk to him, exspecially right now.. He has no idea that I'm thinking of going NC with him. I'm just kinda vanishing out of thin air.. hehe And it's very true if they can live without contacting us so can we! I doubt very much they are losing any sleep or tears over this.
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    My feelings right now are back & forth in being sad, worried and then.. really angry at him. Right now, I'm okay.. But, I know it's very likely to break down at any time.. I can not contact him at all no phone calls, snailmail or emails. I wonder what to do if he contacts me? How do I stay strong to not answer back? I'm thinking and guessing I will worry about that if or when that happens. I just replied to your thread now
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    I think your doing Great with keeping strong and hanging in there with the NC! I hope I stay as strong as you been. I really like your Signature in updating on your current mood each day.. Just keep hanging in there as your doing so great in realizing now it's not your fault, it's your Ex's. his loss. Also, I would like to Thankyou for talking to me in my previous thread and keeping me strong. Remember your not alone and we can keep updating and stay strong together! *hugs*
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    I think it depends on how long you known them online and close you become. Just recently, I got on a flight and met my good friend online last month. I known her for a good 5 years tho. We are penpals and write back and forth to one another often. We chatted online alot Ex: on messages boards, email , exchange photos, ims etc. We spoken on the phone numberous of times as well. So, when I arrived to her airport and seen her for the very first time. I was really excited to meet her. I wasn't that nervous at all really .I gave her a big hug and we just kept talking about anything and everything like we normal would before we actually met in person. But, If you are going to met a boy or girl for the first time in hopeing for a relationship that maybe a different story. I for one, would be very nervous in that case.
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    Hey Spawn, Thankyou! Well, I know it's going to take me a really long time to want to call him on the phone, as I'm really scared to talk to him on the phone.. But, as for other contacting that I find easier to do ,such as emailing and sending snailmail like postcards, I have to try hard to working on not doing anything... I think if I don't do anything at all this month he will be really surpised. I've never EVER stop everything completely. I always do one or the other to keep in touch. you keep it goin too. you are doing great with NC. Good Luck to you too!
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    aaww Thankyou and I'm here for you too. We can talk thro this thread to keep each other strong or you can feel free to pm me anytime....
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    Yeah, I know.. Well.. that's the thing I've been trying to be friends with him and your right.. It's really hard.. exspecially because he doesn't treat me well as a friend, he's taken me for granted now , I think.. So, I'm still sticking to NC.. He may or may not miss me ( as much as I will miss him of course). I'm just taking it one day at a time right now.. I'm hanging in there.
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    Yeah, I am in the same boat. I'm trying to get myself back like before I met him. Trying to be friends is really killing me because no matter how hard I try, it's pointless because of his auctions, I just don't feel like he's being a good friend to me as I was always to him. He's taken me for granted so I must fall of the face of the earth or something.
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    Thankyou! I'm just feeling sad & blah today...
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    Help, I'm starting to feel weak all over again from doing NC.
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    Well, I just deleted the emails & "his phone number" from my phone even tho I do have the number memorize.. and I also boxed up some pictures,etc.It wasn't easy but I did it. Thankyou all for your help! I'm sure I will be updating each day exspecially when I have my sad,bad,weak days.
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    How is everyone doing with NC?! What to do when you get strong urges to contact he or she?
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    Congrats to you for doing so well and sticking with NC. I hope I can be as strong as you. Has he contacted you yet?Yeah, your right. I just have to take it one day at a time...
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    This is actually would I say or think to myself " I will NEVER contact him again or for a little while" I keep setting myself up for failure it happens every time. Thankyou!
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    Thanks for the suggestions... I already deleted the phone number and about to delete the email address too. What about photos? Should I throw them away or keep them boxed up somewhere?
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    Tomorrow is March 1st. I'm really going to try to not contact him at all in March( even if he does contact me) I won't call, email or write any postcards etc. I hope I can stay strong. This is easlier said then done tho
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    Everytime, I think and decide to do No Contact with a certain someone I get really sad inside and go against of what I said by ending up breaking it after a little while. I can go a week or sometimes a little more without getting all upset and breaking NC. I would like to go even longer like a month at least. I've never made it that long as of yet. I know it would be the best thing for me to do NC to heal and to get myself 100% back. How long do you think it would take before I would get all better and won't get weak and emotional about it anymore? A month or more of NC? I just want to know why I can't stay strong? How can I stay strong without breaking? I want to get better. Any suggestions, advice would be appreciated Thanks!
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