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  1. didyoumissme
    I sented him a birthday card in the mail, it's going out today. Then, I'll send him an online greeting wishing him a happy birthday, then that's it. I tried so now I think I can rest now knowing that I did greet him for his special day.
  2. didyoumissme
    Well, I already sented him the birthday card in the mail. It's going out today. I'm hopeing he gets no later then his birthday. I'm not going to call back as in right now since I'm not ready. But, I was thinking of just sending an online birthday message on his birthday then that's it. I'm thinking I don't really have to call since I sented a birthday card in the mail & going to send an online message. So, I'm guessing I already did enough & made my point in wishing him a happy birthday??
  3. didyoumissme
    would an online greeting message be good enough in my case? PS. I sign his birthday card & had his birthday card already to send out. But, I miss the mail man so it's not going to get sent out today. His birthday is Saturday, I'll try sending it tomorrow in hopeing he gets it in time if not then maybe he will receive it on Monday(after his birthday) better late then never right? I'll send him an online Happy Birthday message too on his birthday.
  4. didyoumissme
    Well,I would do that if I could but he can't get text messages on his phone as he told me before. So, what about a friendly email online message? would that be okay too?
  5. didyoumissme
    Yes, I would like to be JUST FRIENDS with him that's it. I know for the most part he is over me and has someone new. I've was trying to be good in not contacting him leaving him alone & trying to go on with my life to get fully over him. Then i relieze his birthday is coming and I wanted to wish him a happy one. Maybe he wouldn't care if he didn't get a birthday wish from me. Maybe or maybe not.. Who knows.. I will feel really bad if I don't say anything to him. I will care even tho he may not. He has to care somewhat ( i would think) to contact me again (even tho he has a new gf) so maybe he does want to stay in touch with me from time to time.
  6. didyoumissme
    your right and I probably do care more then he does for our friendship. I've been trying to do NC and leaving him alone. I was doing good in not messaging him for over a month , then I wanted to know how he was doing and I got a reply! Maybe instead of calling him I just send him a birthday card thro snail mail and also an online message saying Happy Birthday and I hope he got the birthday card? I think I can deal with that far more then actually talking to him over the phone. Then I do NC again.
  7. didyoumissme
    Yes, this the same guy. I thought it maybe time to pull the plug then he called me & lefted a voicemail. Wouldn't that be a sign that he still might still kinda care for our friendship? I know and your right this friendship has been complicated but with his birthday coming up it's hard to stay NC. The thought of me pretending and not saying anything to him for his birthday makes me sad and feel like a horriable person inside. I feel like I won't forgive myself if I Don't at least "say" or "send" a happy birthday. I have to at least knowledge him on his special day.Then maybe I can go to NC again after this weekend.
  8. didyoumissme
    Thankyou.. I'm going to send him a Happy Birthday card too. I'll send it out today. I'm thinking there is still time and he may even get it on his special day
  9. didyoumissme
    Thankyou for your quick reply. Usually for holidays and/or his birthday I would just send him a Happy Birthday card then call him too. I guess I should call him soon to wish him a Happy Birthday. His birthday is this Saturday so I was thinking in calling him on Friday the day before his birthday. Would that be okay to call the day before? I'm thinking Saturday he might be busy since it has his birthday and the weekend.
  10. didyoumissme
    Hello Everybody , I was trying to stick to NC but I ended up breaking down a few days ago on the 7th. I was missing him alot since I haven't heard anything from him for almost 3 months. I felt as if I needed to try contacting him again. I broke down and sent him a message thro facebook. So, I guess he thought to call me since I sented him that message. Instead of replying to the message online he just called me. He called me Saturday night on the 10th left me a voicemail . I was so excited & still so excited happy hearing from him since it's been a while. I guess maybe he does still somewhat care for our friendship? He tried calling me again too the other night on the 11th. But, I ended up falling asleep and miss his call again. Even tho I want to call him back right now, I'm going to wait because his birthday is this coming weekend. I was thinking in calling him back to wish him a "Happy Birthday" and/or maybe even just send him another message just typing " Happy Birthday" in words. I'm nervous talking to him over the phone again because it's been almost 4 months now since we last spoken over the phone together and plus he has a new girlfriend now so that even makes me even more uneasy talking to him over the phone. I don't know if I'm really over him and ready to talk to him over the phone just yet. "Hearing" about his life with his girlfriend etc. might make me upset since I think I still have more then friend feelings for him. It's so much easlier for me to just talk to him online then to actually talk to him directly over the phone. I only read that he's in a relationship with his girlfriend on his profile. He didn't actually tell me, I just read it and it hurt me. Please help, Whatcha think I should do? Do you think that I should actually call him for his birthday since he called me leaving a message or just send him a Happy Birthday message online thro facebook? I feel like I should call or send a message in saying " Happy Birthday" to let him know that I'm thinking of him and knowledge it's his special day. How is everyone else on here do with no contact? If you were me what would you do? Thanks in advance ~ Didyoumissme?
  11. didyoumissme
    Update on me: I was trying to stick to NC but I ended up breaking down a few days ago on the 7th. I broke down and sent him a message thro facebook. This is what I said in the message. "What's up Buddy? How have you been doing? I thought to send a hello to you since it's been a while... I hope all is well and I hear from you again soon" I guess he thought to call me since I sented him that message. Instead of replying to the message online he just called me Saturday night instread on the 10th left me a voicemail and said " Hey, I'm just giving you a call. I'm okay and everything. Give me a call sometime. Talk to you later. Bye " I was so excited & still so excited happy hearing from him! He tried calling me again too the other night on the 11th. But, I ended up falling asleep and miss his call again. Even tho I want to call him back right now, I'm going to wait because his birthday is this coming weekend. I was thinking in calling him back to wish him a "Happy Birthday" and/or maybe even just send him another message just typing " Happy Birthday" in words. I'm nervous talking to him over the phone again because it's been almost 4 months now since we last spoken over the phone together and plus he has a new girlfriend now so that even makes me even more uneasy talking to him over the phone because I don't know if I'm ready to talk to him over the phone and over him just yet "hearing about his life about his girlfriend etc. I only read that he's in a relationship with his girlfriend on his profile. He didn't actually tell me, I just read it. Please help, Whatcha think I should do? Do you think that I should actually call him for his birthday or just send him a Happy Birthday message online thro facebook? I feel like I should call or send a message in saying " Happy Birthday" to let him know that I'm thinking of him and knowledge it's his special day. How is everyone else on here do with no contact? If you were me what would you do? Thankyou ~ Didyoumissme?
  12. didyoumissme
    Should I sing by typing words like happy birthday to him thro email, private message? I feel uncomfortable calling him because I don't know if his new girlfriend would appreciate that very much & I don't want to get him in trouble or anything. But, I want to him to know that I at least knowledge his birthday, if that makes any sense? Please help, Thankyou!
  13. didyoumissme
    Right! I would take him out, if I could.. The problem is that we leave some states away from each other. Kinda impossiable to do that. Plus, He has a GF again now. I don't think she would appreciate it. I was just going to send a little message online. I'm to scared & shy to call on the phone or anything like that with him having a new Girl, etc
  14. didyoumissme
    Thankyou! So, I should subject title it with " Happy Birthday" and inside the message box I should just write Hey! "I just wanted to wish you a happy birthday" ???
  15. didyoumissme
    Thankyou, I was thinking of sending an e-card but I didn't want to spam his email account, like I'm not sure if link removed website would send him spam emails
  16. didyoumissme
    I don't think it's weird at all to contact an old friend. I too, would be so glad if an old friend contacted me. There's a couple who I miss dearly right now and hope to get in contact with them some day soon again.
  17. didyoumissme
    Hey Everybody, My buddy's birthday is coming up soon and I was wondering if could you please help me with words on how to wish him a happy birthday in a friendly matter that won't sound to sappy. Just a short but sweet message! Should I just title the message with Hey," Happy Birthday"? from me. Would just writing those words with just typing a line be good enough? or should I write more then that? What would you write to your guy friend? Thanks in Advance, didyoumissme?
  18. didyoumissme
    Hey SilverCloud, I'm alright, hanging in there... how are you?
  19. didyoumissme
    Hmm... I don't even go on any messengers anymore. I decided to just delete the messengers instead of just deleting/blocking his name.
  20. didyoumissme
    Yeah, I slept like a baby last night... I was so tired , I'd passed right out! Thankyou & your doing great too! We can never give up!
  21. didyoumissme
    We are all here for you for support! Good Luck with everything! Are you going to find out the sex to find out if it's a boy or girl? Or do you want to be surpised?
  22. didyoumissme
    I wish the urge would go away, it's killing me! I'm sad, & sleepy today. But, I'm okay.
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  24. didyoumissme
    I'm starting to feel really sad,again....
  25. didyoumissme
    Any new updates lately on anything? Have you told your parents , yet? Good Luck!
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