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    Thankyou & Good Luck to you.. It does feel a little odd. I was just actually thinking to myself it feels odd like kinda werid at the same time (me not messaging or anything to him) because I'm or I "was" so used doing all the contact & all the work to our friendship! (I wonder if he has notice I haven't contacted him) then again , I'm trying hard not to wondering...
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    I'm so proud of you for not sending that email, it's really not a good idea. It would of only set you back & you would of had to start NC all over again.
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    You can say that again. NC is like withdrawaling from heroin How many days in NC did you get before going back to day one? I wanna put your quote in my sign? May I? Stay strong! Good Luck to you..
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    I'm Going on day # 10 with NC! How's everyone else doing?!
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    Thanks Kellbell & blender! I need some advice on something.. I've been reading threads & posts and was wondering if since I'm doing NC does that mean that I shouldn't check myspace or facebook anymore or for right now because he's on my friendslist? The reason why I am asking is because I find myself always checking those sites to see if I'm still on his friendslist. I haven't message him or anything. I just go on there to see if I'm still on his list. I mean, it's not like we are fighting or anything so why would he take me off? He hasn't yet. I don't know if he will or not. Why am I so worry about something that may or probably won't happen? But, then again.. it probably doesn't really matter since I am doing NC. So, I guess everyone's reply will be to not log on any sites that I have a connection with him, right? Thanks ~ didyoumissme
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    Help , I can't stop thinking about him..I'm starting to miss him again
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    I'm still hanging in there and soon it will be 10 days(tomorrow) of no contact!
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    Hey Everybody, I need some advice on something.. I've been reading threads & posts and was wondering if since I'm doing NC does that mean that I shouldn't check myspace or facebook anymore or for right now because he's on my friendslist? The reason why I am asking is because I find myself always checking those sites to see if I'm still on his friendslist. I haven't message him or anything. I just go on there to see if I'm still on his list. I mean, it's not like we are fighting or anything so why would he take me off? He hasn't yet. I don't know if he will or not. Why am I so worry about something that may or probably won't happen. But, then again.. it probably doesn't really matter since I am doing NC. So, I guess everyone's reply will be to not log on any sites that I have a connection with him, right? Thanks ~ didyoumissme
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    Yeah, I agree. Don't send an email or anything, Just stick to NC like what we have been talking about! Your not alone, I know it is not easy, it's really hard. But, remember I'm doing NC too. Today we are now on day 9, tomorrow will be 10! If you send an email, call or anything now then you have to start NC all over again and you don't want to do that when you have been doing so good!!*hugs*
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    Good question.. That's what I want to know. I hope someone has some advice on this!
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    Hey Jeff! How are you doing? I hope your having a good day as well today! I just sent you a pm on here! Yes, I love reading SuperDave's threads they really help me too!!
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    Thankyou jeffreyt. Good Luck with NC. Stay strong, if you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to message me on here!
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    Hello blender & Thankyou for your reply! His birthday already passed tho. I didn't send him a txt message because (he told me before not to txt on the phone) I guess he it cost or maybe he doesn't have the txt set up. I don't know.. But...what I did was, I sented him a birthday card from my home to his thro snail mail & Send him an online Happy Birthday message. That's it. I didn't call him back. So nah, I was strong in not calling him on his birthday & I still haven't called, I won't call because I know it will give me a set back emotionally. I started NC again not too much for him but for MYSELF. It's hard, it's going to be really hard (exspecially if he contacts me during this NC time) I will miss him, I think in time he will miss me too being his friend. Heck, I know I will miss being his friend. If only he appreciated me, I wouldn't have to do this whole NC thing. I promise to try everyone! I will try to hang in there & be strong in not breaking down again.
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    I just don't get this at all. I'm really confused not only in my heart.. But, my mind as well too. I already know & really reliezeing that I put more effort in our friendship then he ever did or will ever. I also know that it's time for me to let go But, I just don't understand is , It's not like he's single & all alone. He does have a gf & alot of other friends who care for him to. Why would he even bother to still contact me from time to time?Is he just pretending to care a little in contacting me, for himself?
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    *bumps thread*for more advice
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    Thanks for your reply too! Actually, it's not only that I want to know that he cares.. I do know he cares a little since he just "recently" lefted me a message on my voicemail last week. It's just that we are still friends and his birthday is tomorrow. I feel bad "since we are suppose to be friends" for not calling him back exspecially right now cos of his birthday. Am I a bad friend for not calling him back on the phone? I know he has to think of me as a friend, only a friend tho that's it. I don't think he actually knows that I still have more feelings then that for him. He will never know & I will never tell him that either. I just can't call him right now, I feel uncomfortable & your right I wished him Happy Birthday twice now so I should stop & I will stop. The reason I sented him a card in the mail( after getting his voicemail) is for myself more so that I felt a little better for not calling him back on the phone.I have to work on myself again now. The sooner the better. I have started now.. It's hard & I feel like crying my eyes out now. But, I know I have to try to be strong & can do it now after sending him birthday wishes & everything. Just one thing tho, what if he calls me again & leaves me a message(thanking me for the b-day card)? Should I still continue not to call right now , going on with my life & kinda ingore him til I'm feeling better about my self etc?
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    Hey SilverCloud, Thankyou!! It's nice to hear from you again, it's been a while.. Wow.. your doing great with NC & working on yourself! I am going to try with NC again after I send him a Birthday email greeting today. I know, I will try to do it and succeed this time. Since I already sented him a birthday card in the mail & going to send him an online birthday message today, I don't think I should be calling him too.. Do you agree too?(since like you said he probably already knows I care) So, really it would make no sense in calling as I probably already made my point in wishing him a Happy Birthday. I should stop now... Feel free to always pm me too *hugs*
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    after tomorrow, I'm starting No Contact. I gotta stop doing this to myself, it's tearing me up inside. The whole "birthday greeting" thing is getting to me. It's never ending. It's like I want to wish him a Happy Birthday to show I care & knowledge his special day.. But, I didn't want to just send an online message so I sented him a birthday card thro the mail too. Now, I've been debateing back & forth in my mind if I really should call for him to actually hear me say " Happy Birthday" But, I don't know or think it matters if I call or not. I guess it's just me, I think he cares, I want him to care. But, I think it's all in my head because of my caring heart. Please help
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    so, I'm guessing it would be enough if I sented him an online message wishing him " Happy Birthday" aside from the birthday card I sented him in the mail? do you think? I'm to nervous to call him right now, not really ready And like you said that he probably wouldn't care to much if I remembered his birthday or not. So, I probably shouldn't really go all out of my way. I already sented him a birthday card & I'll send him an online birthday message "wishing him a happy birthday" to. I think also calling to would be a bit too much,right?
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    Well, if he seems to be all about himself & just recently lefted me a message to let me know he's okay & everything.... Then why wouldn't he care?
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    Same here. I'll call to wish him a happy birthday or whatever. But, right after his birthday, I'm On the road of trying to heal my heart again.
  25. didyoumissme
    exactly!! That's what I am thinking of doing too right after his birthday...
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