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  1. I finally decided to accept that it is over with me and my ex, but I think I'm chasing my friends away by talking about it too much. How do I stop obsessing and find another way to let out what I am feeling without alienating everyone?
  2. no I went out with him for three years we have been broken up for four months
  3. Yes I have actually. Please don't assume that I haven't. I know we could work we were engaged. It's not a manipulation tactic, I just think we could work.
  4. Even if it has been four and a half months since we broke up and I have already made the mistake of begging too much and asking why he broke it off, and what can I do to make it better and such things as that. Can NC still work to get him back?
  5. I never accused him of cheating or lying all the time, he accused me of lying a lot though. I was kind of jealous of one of his friends, but not in a crazy you cant talk to her cause I think you are having sex with her kind of way. Just every once in a while I might be like nothing is going on with this girl right? Oh and also in response to the first poster. He won't let me ask why he broke up with me, or what he wants me to change, he just leans his head back and rolls his eyes at me. One morning I woke up with him and he was kind of pissy with me all day, and I kept trying to ask him what he was mad about and he'd just say somthing like don't be a f*ing idiot. And I would say do you talk to your other female friends like this, because we were trying to be friends, and he would say not but they aren't my f*ing obsessive b* of and ex-girlfriend either. Then I said I just want to be your friend, which isn't entirely true, but I was trying to calm him down, cause I'm not obsessed, I want him back, but I am not stalking him or anything like that. Then when we are going to move into my dorm he takes all of my stuff out of his car and puts it on the sidewalk, bedsheets everything. I go to check in and he calls me on my cell saying where the f* are you. I go outside and see all my stuff on the ground and Im like thats great **** and he goes what I was just taking your sh* out of the car. Then he drags it up to my room drops it on the ffloor and leaves after I had helped him move in carried his bags up one by one (he hadn't put any of his stuff on the ground), and helped him bunk his beds. Two days later it was like none of that ever happened, but if I brought up getting back together I think it could. Sorry this was so long.
  6. i was engaged to my boyfriend of three years when he broke it off in April we had broken up last August and gotten back together in January. I still want him back, but he says he will only take me back if I "deserve" it. I'm not even sure I should want him back, but he says he broke it off with me because I'm unhappy, too controlling, have no control over my emotions and somthing else, I don't remember what the something else was though. So I asked him what deserving it entails and he wouldn't tell me when we broke up he said I emotionally abused him, but I am not sure that I did, I think maybe he abused me, but I'm not sure about that either. If I could figure it out I might be able to decide which way to go. Anyway if anyone knows anything about this kind of thing please help. I am very confused.
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