Birdman
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I didn't feel right so i went online and took several questioner things and found out that i am severely depressed and i have some type of Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD). What i don't get is should i go to a doctor? I think it would be kinda stupid for me to go because i don't think i am worth the while of the doctor...plus it would cost money. Why should i unnecessarily spend money on myself if i can live the way i am now?
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Take a blank sheet of paper and make three boxes. In each one write what you like about one of the guys. (or why you should be with them) Write all the pros for all the guys on 1 (or multiple) sheets of paper. Then write the cons. This might help you to see who you want to be with. Good luck!
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It sounds like you still have feelings for your ex...the first one. Maby you should reconceter why you broke up with her. Maby she IS the one. You are right, you will eventualy find the perfect someone. Good luck!
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I would try to get him to go to rehab. Marajuanna is a illegle drug and he could get in trouble if he is found with it not to menchen it's terrible for him. So try to get him some help. Good luck!
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Dude...you are 13! You don't have to kiss her. If you really like her write down how you feel and give it to her... or keep it. Plus, what if you broke up?...you would be hurt more if you kissed her than if you gave her a note.
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Is the money that you need for a down payment type thing? Also, did you sign a contract or a lease yet? if not you could just refuse payment alright. But if you did...some places alow you to cancel the contract without having to pay the down payment...just a penalte fee. So, i would look into it and study the contract to try to find loop holes. Good luck and i'm praying for you.
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I Gotta Big complex problem on my own on this one
Birdman replied to spun874554's topic in Relationship Advice
I would write her a letter telling her how you feel. You could even say that the shrink thought that "she would use you" and that "it would be bad for your health". Ooo... maby the shrink just told you that she would use you because he knew that she is not in the position to be in a relationship right now. Well anyway...Good luck! -
She probably thinks that you arn't calling because you are mad at her for going to the park with her ex. She probably went to the park with her ex because she has feelings for you...let me explain. Let's say that her ex and herself didn't have a very good break up. Now, you two are going steady, she starts having feelings for you. That makes her feel guilty because she doesn't know if she properly ended the last relationship. So, i think you need to let her figure out what she needs to do. But, call her and tell her that you understand that she needs some time to sort things out...and once she does you will be waiting to welcome her back.
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Just be there friends and get to know them. You will know what to do when the time comes. Plus, you are in seventh grade...you have your whole life in front of you...just chill. Things will work out in the end. until then just hang in there. Good luck!
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Are you currently known as "boyfriend-girlfriend"? If not, thats probably what he is going to ask you...to be his girlfriend. If that's not it then he probably said that to exsprece how he feels for you so that you don't "dump" him while he is away. I'd say he likes you alot. But 16 is difinety to young to get married. Good luck!
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It sounds to me like you have a real winner here. But, she might mistake your nervousness as not wanting to be in the relationship. However, i think you have made it clear through your fisical actions that you want t o be with her. Is her trip a trip back home until next school year? If so, i think you should write her a letter telling her how you feel. That way she can open up your letter and read it anytime and think about you. Then, ,when she comes back to school in the fall she'll be thrilled to see you.
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Maby you should bring the union or the better business berau into it to try to improve the conditions. There has to be some organization that can help you. Maby the department of labor would know of one. Just remember it's not what it is that counts, it's what you make of it. So play a game with yourself, try to find a way to make it fun. Try to have a positive attitude.(oh great, now i'm starting to sound like Richard Simmons) Good luck!
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With everything that you are unhappy with it seems that you are searching for somthing to fill a void you have. Also, have you tried marrage conselling or just concelling for yourself? Relationships need to based on trust, so, this may not be a good time to tell her, maby in the presense of the marrage conseller(if he aggrees) you need to tell your wife whatever you did that you said you regret. Also, during a pregnance, women are usually more cranky. So, try to be understanding. Also, you two need to try to work out this problem BEFORE the baby is born. Because if you do separate(i am NOT sugjesting that you do) it should be done before the baby is a child who can be hurt by you seperating. In closing, just try to remember why you married your wife. Remember when you looked into her eyes on your wedding day. Remember the spark that you had when you were newly weds. I bet that spark is still there, it is just covered with problems that have accumulated over the years. Good luck!
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Hmm, i haven't been in that situation but i would tell her how i felt. Since you both will be leaving i think you should go out for coffee or somthin, and talk with her a bit and then give her a letter that tells her how you feel. That way she can open it up when ever she wants, read it, and think about you. I know what i am about to say probably seams like crazy monkey crap but if you two are meant to be together...you will be. It may take weeks, , months, or even years, but it will happen. If she won't go out for coffee or whatever then you could always give her the letter at work. I think why she declined you for the movie is because he dosn't want to get attached to you if she won't see you in a long time. Tha doesn't mean she doesn't care for you though. Also, are you going into the Army or another branch? when i turn 19 (17 now) i am going to go to BT and then try to get into West Point and from there to Ranger training. So good luck with your relationship, your BT, and HAPPY BIRTHDAY
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I think you should just talk with her and bring it up like "have you ever thought about us becoming more than friends" or somthing like that. I don't know what exactly you should say...it vares person to person. Some ppl might take it better if it's brought up in a analagy like "there are these two friends that have been friends for quite a while blablabla" or somthing ... I doubt if this helps at all but good luck!