mca1975
Banned Users-
Posts
3,121 -
Joined
-
Last visited
-
Days Won
1
mca1975 last won the day on January 26 2009
mca1975 had the most liked content!
mca1975's Achievements
-
Post here instead of contacting your ex!
mca1975 replied to Nynnja's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
I miss you for some parts of the day, but I still know I made the right decision in leaving you and I know I will be happier for it once I get over this initial loneliness. -
Post here instead of contacting your ex!
mca1975 replied to Nynnja's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
I would like to say that I don't know if I can forgive you for not being there for me after we lost the baby and how you were so selfish and just tended to your own needs, never cared about my long journey to work and how tired I was. How you would get so frustrated about my driving skills and make me upset about it. How you were so in love with me and could never even think of hurting me, but you did. And after everything I have been through in my life..... I never expected it from you. Will miss the person I thought you were. -
Erection and Kissing Poll (FOR GIRLS)
mca1975 replied to ShroudedSorrow24's topic in Relationship Advice
err I LOVE it when my boyfriend gets a boner when we're making out!! why wouldn't you!!? lol. -
It's coming again to wash over me to fill the cracks to remind me that you're no longer there the sweet gush of air that follows delivers a release, a calmness to remind me that I am still here the sound of children playing stirs my soul filling it with hope to remind me that other people are still here Now that's hope btw, this is my FIRST EVER POEM, (i know its crap, lol) Just thought I would give it a go!
-
yes its slightly depressing, but I love your profile pic!
-
Dating VS Being a Couple VS being b/f g/f?
mca1975 replied to thefireisoutanyway's topic in Dating Advice
This is a good thread (though its kinda old)... I too have been wondering about this question, as have been seeing a guy for over 4 months now though he will not 'say' he is in a relationship with me. We dont see each other loads, we have our own lives, but when we meet up we have such a lovely time and get on very well. We act like a couple when we are together, and he refers to us as "we" when talking to other people. I think he enjoys that feeling. We speak on the phone obviously in between those times that we see each other. I think its the word 'relationship' that scares him and to be honest it does me a little, lol. We have tried leaving it because I used to push for it and wasnt happy, but he always came back. Now im getting kinda cool with it, with the 'unlabelling' I mean. I have always been used to being all consumed by my "boyfriends" and vying to spend every minute with them, so Im really learning from this. He gets jealous about other guys and I do too about other women, so maybe we are kind of exclusive but without saying it? Who knows. All I know is, is that if it so happens that I find out or hear that he has/is seeing someone else, then I would not see him again. -
Stop Looking for it and it will come. But there's a catch.
mca1975 replied to Imperceptible's topic in Dating Advice
To knigt007, you have a negative outlook. Now I dont know what you look like, but I know plenty of guys out there that are no oil painting and some who are almost bordering on ugly, but their personality and positivity and charm attracts the most beautiful women!!! believe that because its true! what does that tell you?????? -
hi there, right decisions are always the hardest to get over. its the detachment thing, it hurts so much not having it and geting used to not having it. erikA., i too had to end my relationship six months ago and i missed him so badly, i would ache. but i couldnt be with him any longer, but i missed the company, the touch, the cuddles, the sex all of that stuff.
-
what i have learnt (especially from my last one) is dont ignore red flags/signs that dont feel right. Trust your own judgement and act upon them accordingly, do not push them to the back of your mind or think that you are just being silly, cause usually you're not being silly at all. you are ignoring your natural intuition
-
I Can't Interpret Her Behavior after Break Up!!!
mca1975 replied to GrandmasterPRA's topic in Breaking Up Advice
i get you grandmaster. i too was really into him and would get very jealous but he was way more controlling than I was. -
I Can't Interpret Her Behavior after Break Up!!!
mca1975 replied to GrandmasterPRA's topic in Breaking Up Advice
when you break up with someone, its hard, but no contact is the only way. obviously there will be some discussion at the time of the break up, but you do have to leave each other alone. hard I know. as you were controlling, i suspect that she may have been a bit fearful of you and she is young, so maybe that is why she called the cops. dont blame her for it. -
I Can't Interpret Her Behavior after Break Up!!!
mca1975 replied to GrandmasterPRA's topic in Breaking Up Advice
hi grandmasterpa Can we talk further as I have just come out of a relationship where my ex was controlling and I wondered if I could ask you some questions to get a different take on it? thanks -
I Can't Interpret Her Behavior after Break Up!!!
mca1975 replied to GrandmasterPRA's topic in Breaking Up Advice
yes, i agree. if you were controlling, then this probably made her feel suffocated and she wanted out. its not a very nice feeling to make someone feel controlled and under pressure, in fact, its horrible, and it puts someone under immense pressure and guilt, but at the same time, i can understand why people are controlling and its something that is very hard not to do when you feel so insecure, which needs therapy to get over. this girl is obviously young and she probably misses you in some ways, but doesnt miss the way the relationship was, thats why she is probably texting you and making contact. but yes, no contact is the way forward. good luck -
How would you feel if your girlfriend said this?
mca1975 replied to Aquafina's topic in Relationship Advice
you are worrying over nothing. she was defending you and so what if she thinks youre not that hot. not everyones boyfriends are hot. but she thinks you are the sweetest guy ever, which is a much better compliment that anything to do with looks. You are worrying over nothing, unless you are insecure about your looks anyway. she probably only said it as she kind of worries what other people think a little bit thats all. x- 27 replies
-
- girlfriend
- boyfriend
-
(and 1 more)
Tagged with:
-
no you dont have much to complain about really, at least you have friends. your just growing up i guess and everything seems like a big problem when it isnt really. cheer up and enjoy everything and stop moaning x