Cinderella000 Posted August 8, 2019 Share Posted August 8, 2019 Hi, ok I’ve been talking to a guy for a while couple of months, we text and he calls me everyday. We seem to get on really well. We both were not looking for a relationship at the time of meeting but we have suddenly become close and he want something more serious. We are both in our 30s. This sounds all appealing but there is a few issues/problems or even maybe red flags. He is a widow, his wife only died a month ago, I was only there as support at first for him. His wife died of cancer which is very sad. Now he is wanting a relationship with me, he says he did all of his grieving when she was dying. Is that possible? He tells me he even loves me and wants a future with me. I am trying to keep him at a distance as I’m not sure he really does love me or is just extremely lonely? I understand that some people might judge this and think it’s crazy but he is extremely convincing that he loves me and wants to be with me. I do suffer from overthinking and anxiety so I’m not sure if I’m just overthinking this? Please be kind to me, no harsh comments. Thank you. Link to comment
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