melancholy123

I'm really sorry tihis happened to you. Good on you for calling police and reporting him and doing a rape kit and STD tests/ I'm glad you are set up for therapy as you sound like you really need it. Do you have a trusted friend or someone you can talk to before you start therapy?

If your FB is set to PRIVATE he cant reach you. I dont know what you are doing, but private is just that. You dont show up if he searches for your name. I run several FB pages and sometimes have to block people and they cannot come back and rejoin. Changing to private removes you from the Search feature.

NO jewelry! Get her a book or even a gift card to a book store or one for a coffee shop etc. Jewelry is waaaaaay too personal.

This is not going to work. You anent selfish, he is, making you do what you know is wrong. Find a guy your parents approve of.

Make your facebook account private then he cant find you. Dont ever reply to him in any way. Make sure he's blocked and deleted from everything possible.

I'd tell him to hit the road. He's already got one foot out the door.

Oh brother have you ever been used by this piece of work. She is surely involved with another guy in some way. Why have you put up with this for so long? Dont tell me you love her, you know that's not love. Then she turns it around on you and blames you for the issues? I hope you told her to F off and then blocked and deleted her from your phone and social medial. You can do so much better.

Why are you letting an unmedicated bi polar person make such big demands on you for no valid reason? An investment can make you money, if it's a good one. Keep it and ditch her. She's trying to control your life. You know you dont really want to sell your investment and you should not be bullied into doing so.

Yes I think you need therapy. You are far too anxious about everything to do with this girl and you need to lean how to calm yourself. Also you are far too co-dependent with her. Take that 1 week beak for now but over all I think you need to sort yourself out and then find someone who lives near you. LDR is the hardest way possible to have a relationship.

Yes I did that a few times! I had general crew I hung with and there ws usually something going on somewhere and we'd go to whatever it was! So glad to be past that stuff!

Change your phone number and be careful who you give it to.

Oh buddy, you need to lighten up! You will indeed chase her away if you dont learn to chill out. It's only a week that she will be away! You need to hang out with friends, go to work if you have a job, go to the gym etc do things that you like. Dont be apologizing for anything, as you didnt do anything wrong - yet. But you will if you dont get a handle on your emotions.

When I was a teen it was vital for me to be in the middle of everything and everyone like many teens are. I was so afraid of missing out on something! Now, I dont give a rat's patootie! I have enough acquaintances and not many actual friends and that is ok. I dont need to see or know or deal with all that goes on around me. I am content with me. I love my big property in the woods and am very happy here. I dont feel a need to get out there all that much. I am very sociable but I am fine with my own company.

She's been asked this at least once, haven't seen a response yet.

Hard to say, but maybe he's got some mental issues if he thinks it's ok to knock on a neighbour's door and complain about his bills. Why do you think he's asking for a date? I didnt get that out of your post at all. I'd have said I gotta go too, after about a minute. Your train of thought on this escapes me.