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I'm getting frustrated, confused, upset...I dunno what to do
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Do Breaks work??? Any experience??? -
I'm getting frustrated, confused, upset...I dunno what to do
bb13 replied to bb13's topic in Relationship Advice
I have asked her many times all of those things. I've tried asking her why she doesnt like it as much any more and the answer ALWAYS is "I dont know". I dont know what is getting to me more, her body language and reactions or just the things she says to me on daily occurrences. Whenever I used to say some sexual innuendo(sp?) or suggest something sexual she'd used to love it. Now she'll say "nice try". I am starting to hate those words. It's like she thinks I'm trying to get with her...like a stranger or something. The only words i hate more are "i dont know" we used to be able to talk about anything without any conversation barriers. However she says she loves me more than she ever has. This is the most confusing and frustrating thing ever. GRRRR I think I'm going to try to lay off attempting to kiss her (I've tried this but she's soo beautiful) until FLA. and we'll see what happens. If there isnt any improvement I'm going to have to suggest a break. Maybe it'll scare her into seeing that I wont always be there and that I have needs too. I hope so because I cant afford to lose her. I love her so much. -
Me and my GF have been together for almost 10 months. Before that, we were best friends. When we finally got together, we were so enamored with each other. A very large part of the time that we spent together was making out and much farther. Nearly every day we would fool around. Even in school we would french. All of that has changed. She doesnt really want to be sexual with me that much any more. It's been almost a week since we really made out. I've made many attempts at it but she's never into it. Our basic kiss now is barely more than a peck. She wont really kiss me in school anymore. And she gets put off when I tell her I want to kiss. I love her with all of my heart and soul and want to be with her but I dont know if I can put up with this. It doesnt make me feel to good. We've talked about many times and never get anywhere. I'm going with her to FLA in a week and a half. If nothing has improved by the end of then, I might suggest taking a break. I definitely dont want to lose her. But I also cannot allow myself to keep feeing this way. Though I am a sensitive, "nice guy", one of the ones that the mother likes , I am also very physical and passionate and need that back. She used to be that but now she doesnt seem as into anything or at all into it. *Do breaks work? *Is this a serious problem? *What could I do to fix it?
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How much is too much when it comes to touching, kissing, sex, etc...??? Is there a point where it becomes less enjoying???
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My GF and I have been together about 6 months and are intimate. The issue is that when she gives me oral, I'm never able to come. It feels amazing but I never finish. I think it may be a mental issue but i dont know. I dont want her to think she's not doing it right. Any suggestions???
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Thank you everybody for the help. We have talked more and I think we've worked this out and its more-or-less back to normal. Thank you all again for your help.
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My and my GF were extremely intamate when we started to date. We would have sex almost everyday or at least make out. We've been going out almost 6 months now and she rarely seems in the mood to even kiss. Is there a problem here??? I have asked her about it but nothing really came out of it. How could I solve this? I miss the intamacy, and am sort of worried that it means something more.
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As a teenager, I would definitely say teasing and joking around with you is a sign. I know that that is what I do Or you could always ASK HIM. And, if you genuinely think he does like you, dont give up if he says he doesnt. He may just be shy.
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What is the accuracy of a pregnancy test when its taken 5 days after missed period around midday? The test says it is 99% but I dont really believe that is the case ALWAYS. P.S. It was negative.
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Many of you have read my previous post about me and my GF's recent scare. 2 days ago she took a pregnancy test and it was negative. She still hasnt had her period though. She was supposed to get it on the 12th. Today is now 7 days late. Why could her period be late??
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To update another topic I had, today will be the 5th day late of my GF's period. We're going to get a test today. I still think that it will be negative but the "what if?" is glaring in my mind more than ever. We have talked about it and have decided that we cannot have a kid or go through a pregnancy so that left us with abortion. Problem is, I dont know how that works. Here are my questions: *What are the methods? Surgical? Medical (drug)? Other? *What consent is needed? One parent? 1 parent each? 2 parents each? Adult? None? Other? *When can it be done? I know not after the 2nd trimester. Right away? *Where can it be done?
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OK....well no good news yet. She had some cramps yesterday and we got our hopes up but nothing came of it. I think I'm gonna get a test. **What do we do if it's positive???? We cant have a child now. I'd love to have a kid and I feel I could handle it but I cant go thru a pregnancy and will not allow her to. **Is there a confidential solution that can be done now??? I also would not like to get anyone else involved (parents, friends, anyone). I dont get how abortion's or other solutions work so can I get some help.
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Well she is officially late. When thinking about it, she is under a lot of stress recently. She has problems with her mom, someone close to her is going 3/4 way accross the country, and then this. She didnt know that stress could delay her period and when I told her she said she felt much better. I only told her this last night. When she relaxes, I think her period will come and we'll be all set. I have a couple questions. When can the period come. Sitting?, Being active?, Lying down?, Sleeping? Can it come at any time? If she normally has cramps before, does that ALWAYS happen?
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For one, Flirting isnt cheating....its a way to make a friend. As for your issue, I would suggest just spending time together as friends. Watch a movie, shoot pool, go to the pool/beach, whatever is your desire. One thing I'd do is rent a movie and watch it at home alone. See where things go. My guess is that if you guys have fun together and start being intimate, it will lead into a BF-GF relationship, even if it starts out otherwise.
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No. There is nothing wrong with looking at other girls. If you go as far as to fantasize about them then that is wrong. Not cheating, but wrong. I am in a terrific relationship and we both love each other. But I do still see beauty in other girls. I have some pretty female friends and I've told them that they are pretty. Not in a flirtacious, hitting-on way but as a complement. There's nothing wrong with noticing attactivenes of others when in a relationship
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I agree with St*r. There are so many more important things than that. There's no way I wouldnt be with someone that is everything I want but has had sex. People make mistakes sometimes. And just so you know this isnt based on nothing. My GF, who I love more than life itself, wasnt a virgin. That fact never crossed my mind when I decided to be with her.
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She is almost always early with her period. tomorrow is the day when she's supposed to start her period. We've had unprotected sex a few times but I've always pulled out before I came. I'm not too worried about this but she is and I cant help thinking some questions: *Can other factors affect her being late? *Any signs of pregnancy that could be seen now? *What if? We cannot have a child now and if she's pregnant is there something we can do now before the egg matures? A pill or something? I dont need to hear the protectin speach or responsibility thing. We have promised to always use protection from now on. We also love each other truly and do want a child someday but just not yet.
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My and my GF love each other truly. Like once-in-a-lifetime kind of love. Our relationship is amazing. We were best friends before we went out and that has led to an excelent relationship. The problem I'm feeling is though, that the sex or almost any sexual activity, even touching has slowed down dramatically. We were overly active at first and we both wanted to slow down a little. It took for me to go away for 9 days for that to happen though. Since then she has been almost rejecting to almost any move a make. I rub her breasts, she pulls my hand away. Same with her butt and clit. And this is all outside the clothes. I am worried that this decrease in sex or etc. may be hididng another problem. Or has she just lost interest in sex? Any help would be extremely helpful.
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How would I go about telling my GF that i want oral? She's gone down on me before but never "long enough". She teases me all the time on my finger and tongue but rarely goes down and hasnt "finished a job" yet. Sorry for the slang but I didnt know how else to put it. She's done this with another guy before so she is willing I think. P.S. I do truly love her so I dont want to offend her or have her do something she doesnt want to do
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Well not to crush your hopes and making him feel better but the odds are you may never do that. In my mind, cheating is possibly the WORST thing one can do in a relationship. It really destroys almost everything that was built. Trust is gone and there will always be something in his head saying "what if...". What I guess I'm sayiong is there is nothing you can do.
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Well if she is happy with her BF then you shoudnt pry too far into developing a relationship yet. If she is always coming to you with problems with him then maybe you could tell her that she should leave him. Not for you but just leave him. I was in a similar situation with my friend. She was in a bad relationship and me and her kept getting closer. She knew that I had feelings for her and 1 time i even kissed her while she was still with him I was always there for her and was sweet and caring towards her. I got her little somethings for her B-Day and other occasions. We ended up together and are happy now. Just be her friend for now and be there for her. She may see that you would be the one for her. Good luck to you.
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Well the plot thickens. This kid told her that he loves her. This kid is turning out to be a real a-hole. He seemed cool at first but then he tries to take my GF, says he cares about her/loves her and then fools around with her best friend who has a BF. My desire for her not hanging out with him has gone beyond my well-being... I dont want her hurt. Her best friend is falling to pieces b/c of what happened and she doesnt even remember all that took place. The guy hasnt told her. I seriously hate this kid. He has caused fights in a relationship that was completely happy and has probably torn apart another.
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I think your missing the problem....She isnt about to leave me for him...I'm certain of it...We both love each other very much. I know i didnt really have a target question but how bout this: Do I have a right to be angry at the fact that she seemed to want to have fun without me but when she needed help she wanted me there? Do I have the right to not want her drinking or even being with this kid without me there?
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One thing that is also worrying me is that this seems terribly similar to how me and her got together. We were "just friends" and she had a BF (he was a jerk though and I am not). But I really dont even want her having the type of "just friends" thing she and I had b/c we were sooooo close...kiss on the cheek, lay down together close...This is one thing that wories me.