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Thanks! I guess I could sing to her because she always wanted me to and I never did. Her favorite thing to do in the world is sing so maybe that will work pretty well. Anyone else have any advice...please?...lol

I talked to her tonight and she said that she doesnt see me as a boyfriend anymore. She still loves me and cares for me but as a friend now. We broke up like a week ago, so she either didnt really love me or something else. So I decided (Im best friends with her brother) that when Im over at her house and when I see her just change the things that she didnt like about me. So hopfully she will notice and change her mind about me. Will it work?

Im a guy but.... Gift Certificate to Bath and Body Works!!!

Hmmm...sounds like you just like the kissing and stuff. I would not kiss for like a week or something and see if you still like him. If you do, it doesnt sound like you have to do anything to get him...sounds like you already got him to me.

So far...sounds like she likes ya. But how old are you guys?

Well there is one catch...Im not supposed to know that her mom made her promise she would never get back together with me. So what am I supposed to do now? HEr and her mom have a really great relationship...they are like sisters and I dont want to mess that up. So how am I supposed to let her mom know that I want that.

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...would NOT get back together with me. What am I supposed to do about this problem? My gf broke up with me Tuesday and we havent talked about it until tonight. She finally told me that her mom didnt like some things that I was doing. Like talking to other girls on MSN, playing with my gf by saying dang when some ugly girl would walk by. Stuff like that is what her mom didnt like so she made her break up with me. But Steph (my gf) kept saying that we are just friends now. She told me tonight that she still has feelings for me and she still loves me but she doesnt see me as a bf now. All because of her mom. Then she says well I dont know if I see you as a bf or not. So her mom has got her all screwed up. Her mom LOVES me but she doesnt like some things that I did. But I will change them, but Steph promised her mom she wouldnt get back together with me. PLEASE HELP!

WOW! Im an expert on this. My ex GF was the shyest person I have EVER met. Tell him that you dont expect anything of him. Tell him that he can be open with you about anything. And tell him that you are no better than him.

How long did he shiver? Was it like minutes or just a couple of chills?

But if you knew he had a jealously problem, and you knew it would make him mad, why did you sleep there in the first place?

Also, shes my best friends sister. I do stuff with him almost everyday of the week. What should I do about this problem? I dont want to be reminded of her nonstop. Hes my only true friend so I dont want to avoid him.

Tell me some things about yourself...and Ill decide if your boring or not. I know you wont be. You already have one VERY good characteristic...YOUR SMART! Come on...thats very attractive.

But if that doesnt keep you guys together, dont worry about it. By that time you will have lost some interest in her and maybe have started liking someone else. You are young, so you might not even like the things you like about her now. People changed alot during the bloom of youth and you will not know what you like in a girl until you get passed it. Believe me, Im going through it. But I know things will change for the better.

Thank you so much! Altleast I got some advice. So what happens if I start crying when we talk...I cant help it. Will it ruin everything?

I have never been in that situation...but I would stay with your boyfriend for now. I wouldnt go for a guy you met online and is in a totally different country, that would cause so many problems.

Intuition shaver...my ex gf had one...it did great thing for the both of us! Sorry, trying to cheer myself up

I have been going out with this 15 year old girl for 3 months, Im 17. She tells me 2 weeks ago that she doesnt feel comfortable telling me she loves me anymore, nor does she feel comfortable hugging me. She said that if her parents found these things out she would be in trouble. Which is true. Her parents are very strict. So 4 days later I told her that we should just be friends because I dont think I can be with her if we cant do these things. IT would be too hard on both of us. So the next morning I called her back and told her that I made a mistake and explained everything to her and we got back together a day later. She told me that we need to move slower, so I said ok. I asked her if I needed to change anything else. She said no. So 2 days later I go to her church and we go to McDonalds. My cousins went with us and they wouldnt shut up...one of them kept saying that Stephanie(MY GF) didnt like me anymore, which I knew wasnt true, but it was getting on my nerves so I told her to shut up that she was a brat. Then I didnt say anything for the rest of the night, so Steph thought that I was mad at her. I told her bye but she said she didnt hear me and I put my hand out for her but she said she didnt see it. So the next day she told me we were done. THat she couldnt have somebody that was going to fight with her all the time that we couldnt have a relationship like that. And that she should have listen to all the advise given on the subject of us and she didnt and now she regrets it. She told me she cared about me she really did. She told me that when girls walked by I would say dang, she knew I was kidding but it still hurt, she said she told me somthing very private, about the hugging and I love yous, but she also told me she wanted to keep her options open that night. She later told me she didnt mean that, that she worded it wrong. But that the only thing I told, the keeping the options open part, because she said she didnt mean it. So I joked about it. SO I talked to her tonight and she told me that she still liked me but not as much because of those things. And she kinda regrets not taking the advice because shes so young. I have been hurting like someone very close to me has died. How do I get Stephanie back??? I love her so much!