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you need to stop thinking like that, IMAGIne if he breaks up with you. wat would you do? Kill yourself? hell no, not all women friends wil betray you, you should get close with your family, thats the reason you feel that way is coz you have no one. HE is not your backbone, How old are you? lets say you're 21 years old, assuming since you can drive already, all the more better if you're older, YOU managed to live 21 years without him or 17,18,19 doesnt matter..all those years, you managed without him. YOU are never going to be here again, you only think that way becoz you allow yourself to, GET OVER YOURSELF and live life, improve on yourself and you'll feel much better, get things done. in relationships, this may be VERY hard to swallow especially for someone like you who's hella sprung over a guy..but "the one who cares less, WINS" i dont care about all your excuses how you feel sad coz he's far away and all that.. FINISH YOUR BUSINESSPLAN ANG PUT IT INTO ACTION! live your life. Iam sorry to tell you this but if you keep that up, he'll grow very tired of you really fast and go for another girl, iam osrry but that is the truth, No matter how much he thinks he love you and even if you guys get married, with that kind of attitude of yours he'll grow tired of you. You have to have your own life, Be idependent, IF you're happy on your own, thats the only time you can eb happy with them, please reflect on this i dont want you ruining your life when you can be having the time of your life

Hi, look. i am glad you dont consider breaking up as an option, If you do you'll just feel much worse than you do especially when you reach that ONe year mark, Youll think "If only i coulve waited for him" you'll realize that a year and a half just breezed through, And this might sound silly but a i read an article that the cure or secret for long distance relationship is *drum roll* Phone sex! think about it, dont comment about it, just think about it, try it and do it, you'll feel much more satisfied. Maybe you miss him so much is coz you got nothing going on with your life right now. FInd a hobby, do stuff that makes you happy, chill with friends anything that could get your mind of him for awhile,Live your life..You're only gonna live for maybe 60 years..LIVE YOUR LIFE. and dont build your life around him, its a turn off atleast dont show it to him. and before you know it..you'll be sleeping next to each other Oh, You just dont live an exciting life, your life is boring..your life SUCKS! so..what are you gonna do about it?! cry, whine? HELL NO! you get out there and find things that make you hapy, doi you have a passion for something? work on that i hope this could help you

Dude, I dont care what they say, IT IS NEVER YOUR FAULT if your girl commits suicide coz you left her, She did it by herself, you didnt persuade, talk her into, nagged her to commit suicide. I wont think she would do it coz years ago my girlfriends ex told her that e would commit suicide if she left her, and up to this day he is very alive and kicking. (though i would prefer it if he did go through with it..just kidding Your girl got issues man, its not your fault, No ones gotta gun to her head. No ones forcing her to do anything. goodluck with that mang

why?! BEcoz YOU a P.I.M.P! thats why. man you should be proud of that, that would be a confident booster the best answer i found in this topic is by "Dako." like he said man, stop questioning your good fortune. instead of asking why? wy dont you concentrate on how to attract HOTTER and older women, you do realize thats youre making a lot of guys dreams come true right? you know how big of an achievement it is to be with an older woman? why? or how? you may ask? Theredqueen's reply will answer that my friend good luck cassanova!

some guy i really admire once said, "Life's a shi.t, and iam happily swimming in it!" i sure wnna be like that.

Hey there, i know its kinda bothersome that ur boyfriend did that, but you gotta understand that when that happened...he didnt have YOU! meaning he was lonely, alone, and like u said, desperate and horny. Now he's got YOU! he can focus his love on you! you said he's quite faithful right? so whats ur problem then? ur grossed out thathe had sex with a prostitute? guess what? so Did i..maybe 5 years ago as well, but now i have my girlfriend, i never think about doing it with some cheap woman i dont even like coz i have my girlfriend..besides, he's 5 years smarter now and is probably an improved man. In my opinion, youre just making a big deal out of it. But i DO get your point that ur grossed out that it happened where you sleep, if tats your only issue, buy a new matress. problem solved

okay, thanks. but i got more questions if u guys dont mind.. Is it true that Having medication messes you up even more? like you become a zombie? this is the only reason i think medication is bad news.I have some qualities i wouldnt mind changing but i also have qualities that i love. If i take medication, would i lose all that? Also, I read in some articles regarding ADD that Add'ers have self esteem problems and relationship problems,failure to learn from mistakes, Tendency to get lost in own thoughts,Major problems in handling money and making sensible financial plans,Poor tolerance of frustration,Difficulty in turning their great ideas into significant actions, History of being labeled "lazy" or "a spaceshot" or "an attitude problem" by teachers or employers who do not understand what is really going on,Poor ability to appreciate own strengths or perceive own shortcomings When i read all that i thought to myself, "hey! thats not a disorder..Sounds more like a CURSE!" thats messed up, i just want to know how Inattention or just not being able to focus properly. can cause all that mentioned above? thanks again

Oh, Hey everyone, when i was a kid also up till high school, They(teachers and school authorities) always told me that i had trouble paying attention or being focused, I had trouble focusing or paying attention to teachers, Could this also be add? to everyone, i appreciate your answers

Hey man, Based on personal experience. I have been EXACTLY like you to this girl of mine. well maybe a little less than you.but iam guessing that you may have had a lot of different girls before her that you kinda liked but after awhile you didnt really pursue with your relationship with them coz they didnt make you feel the way you wanted to until this woman came along and made you feel like you had the woman of your dreams already and you just dont wanna lose her? correct? well For me, i was just being too paranoid coz it was the FIRST time i ever fell inlove in my life and i didnt know much of how to deal with relationships. I just kept proving to her how much i loved her and how she meant the world to me, at first we broke up after (me being like you) but we got back together coz she loved me and i told her i was gonna change. Maybe YOU should change first and win over yourself first before you can win the girl back. Just a suggestion, i hope it might help you somehow P.S. - Man, dont listen to people telling you "Oh, sorry, it might be too late for your relationship, blah blah," coz someone in this forum told be years ago that i didnt have a chance with the girl anymore (Different situation) while i appreciated her advice. I just didnt believe it, she kept saying like, hey i bet you didnt even drive a car yet, just move on. so i did and months later? she was all over me again. I dont mean to brag but i hope you get my drift

Warning: This may be a bit long, so if you have the same disorder i think i have, best be leaving the topic. lolz But for those who give a damn and want to help someone get on with life. then i ask you to please gimme a hand, Hi There, Iam 17 and kinda misguided right now. Recently i have been in a setback, Not a major one coz iam sure i can get through it but anyway. i have been reading up on self improvement books and articles online since i have always been wanting to be the man i wanna be BUT the problem is, i think i have add based on the symptoms i saw. My cousin has it iam not sure if the rest of my family does. But anyway, sometimes my mind isnt really where its supposed to be, kinda wanders of but not always. I feel like i dont have the "Presense of mind" sometimes. And when i read. its like, i try to focus but i rarely absorb information, i dont know if iam just lazy or i do have the disorder coz once i see how long the article is, i tend to close the page right away. also, as a kid i was labeled as a trouble maker and was often times in trouble at school. my grades were pretty good, Except in math and i was told that i was intelligent but lazy to study or i was an underachiever. Though i was kind of a trouble maker kid before, now iam just a silent type kinda guy but sometimes i do crazy stuff as well. but i DO love to read, very much. i just dont know whats wrong if iam just too lazy or i am unable to focus thats why i cant absorb information. Iam not really hyperactive but i crave danger. sometimes i tend to lose all my money in gambling. my relationship with friends are OK, until recently i wasnt very social. But the point is the reading part, Do you guys think i have it or am i just being lazy? I would go to the doctor and have myself diagnosed but since i dont live with my parents, no one would finance my check ups or anything, i live with my uncle and he rarely gives me anything. I went to this site because knowing that atleast one can help me. Any advice would be highly appreciated. Thank you very much for your time