gabbyfox
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I once thought that rapists were strangers for the most part. I know that now they can be anyone!
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I do want counseling because I did feel some trauma from the strange behavior. We tend to think that most people are civil if thats what we're use to being around,but when someone you thought cared for you does it,it's very bad,shocking,and very confusing to say the least.
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Thanx everyone! He hasn't totally dropped out of sight,his family has mentioned him on occasion if they see my family & so on,but I take the fact he has not tried to contact me himself as a good sign.
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Don't let her put you on the back-burner,or use you as a back up when things go bad for her! Not saying she'll do that,but please be very careful,ok?
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also,He had admitted he has tried a drug called ICE,and that he saw people in his family treat one another with disrespect and they did drugs around him while he was growing up! My friends think he might come back out of the blue because of his controlling ways,but me,I think he could be gone for good now since this is the first time he's been gone so long!
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My ex & I have been broken up for going on 4 months now. I haven't heard a word from him so far. He was very jealous, very controlling,& pushed for a commitment before I was ready for it. He's hurt me so much already & we have broken up & got back together many times,but I hope this cycle is over with now. He left when he got offended by something I said,because he had bit me in the middle of the night,& acted like nothing had ever happened the next day,so I was distant from him and suggested that we part for awhile. I think he bit me because I was playing with him when he was kissing me. I just said,"Oh' so your a biter huh? just playing & being my playful self,& he said: " Trust me,if I wanted to bite you,you would definitely know the difference!!! Well,we went to sleep & he bites me during the night. I got worried that he would keep getting mean with me,so I wanted to think about whether I should be with him or not! He has pushed me down once & called me a bad name,but hadn't done it again. We were together 7 months,but his temper was getting worse and he felt like he was being insulted when he wasn't and I was getting worried about it. He hasn't called me,emailed,or anything so is it likely that he's moved on? This is the longest he's ever left me,so I think it could be that he's found another girl now? He's been gone almost 4 months now. He was so jealous it was creepy too! Any advise anyone? Is he really gone for good now?
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healing remedies?
gabbyfox replied to AmIAlone1607307516's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
Blueangel,Thanx so much! You have been a wonderful help & blessing to me!!! My Ex boyfriend was abusive & controlling on top of it all,and I had a strange attachment to him,simular to Stockholm syndrome. He saved me from a frightening experience & I dated him,then he pushed for a commitment,I finally gave in & became his girlfriend,& things got even worse!!! Thanx Blueangel! I got some of the songs you suggested and I like the facial cleansing products you mentioned,& I also like the calming - moisturizer too. Thank you,many,many,many times over for helping me to smile again!!! -
You are how old? You are worried about a teenage boy? OMG! When will you kids ever learn? teenage boy are not ready for a serious relationship with ANYBODY!!! I have 7 brothers & I know!
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My boyfriend raped me and it took me a month to realize it
gabbyfox replied to meesha87's topic in Abuse and Violence
When I guy says,"Your Gonna Give it to me aren't ya" & you are all alone with him,and he's aggressive,thats when you know your in some trouble!!! -
That won't be easy but please keep trying,one day at a time,one second,one minute at a time!!!
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you were abusive & a drinker! You are blessed he'll even be your friend again. Can't you even appreciate that? He could have cut you off forever in every way,but he's being nice to you!!! Take his friendship or leave him alone. He shouldn't feel like he has to take you back! If you loved him,you'd be happy with the way things are now.
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I agree with Agathon! Get a self esteem & leave the loser!
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Assaulted by BF...feeling confused and hurt
gabbyfox replied to melly2006's topic in Abuse and Violence
Please look up : The Tracy Thurman Story,called: " A Cry For Help" this is what I am doing so I won't take my Ex back! It's a true story!!! -
she also stated she liked it when he entered her before the condom was brought into the discussion!
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It seems the real victims of rape won't be believed but those that consent and then change their minds seem to be the ones evryone should believe and trust? How wrong is this pic? It's very wrong to me!!!