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He says that he gets little corns on his finger, and he also makes the excuse that he has to take it off when he goes to the gym because his finger swells up. Mind you he only goes to the gym once or twice a week. He also says that he finds that married women try to con onto him when they see he's married - no strings attached scenario.

Hi guys, Hubby and I have been married for almost 9 years. For the past couple of years he hasn't worn his wedding ring. It didn't bother me at first, but for some reason it does now. Does anyone else have this issue?

Have a look at this forum. Although it's based in Australia, there are tonnes of American and English members. You should find it very helpful. link removed

need I say more???

Sorry girls but I have to also agree with the guys here. I am WOMAN in my early thirties. I thought I was pretty good at sex in my twenties too, that is until I turned thirty and realised how it should really be. My husband has never been happier. I also agree that alot of women in their twenties are after tangible things and that's why they like older men.

I think that she just wants to rub your nose in it. Indirectly, not directly.

My husband is gluten intolerant. He found that preservatives 1400 - 1450 would give him digestive problems. He eats alot of fruit and vegetables, fish, gluten free sausages, salmon and tuna (tins) sakata rick crackers. He eats tonnes but you may have to experiment with the preservatives. I also found that we needed to buy him a brand new frying pan because he was getting sick after I cooked for him. I also have to be really careful when I prepare his food.

I would get it done professionally this first time so that I can see the technique. I use a sugar wax for my eyebrows and Brazillian wax for my bikini. It's much thicker and YES it does hurt for the first few times, but you get used to it after a while. I remember sweating ridiculously because of the pain.

Thanks for your comments and suggestions everyone. I really appreciate it. I have already had my children and I don't see us having anymore, although I'm only 31 and I could win the lotto tonight and be able to give up work, and have more....... Anyway thanks again. I'm not sure what I'm going to do yet. I may put too much pressure on my husband if I bring this up with him, so I think I'll let it lye for a while.

Maybe she just didn't want to be turned on to the point that she wanted sex. I have been like that (when I was younger....i can't get enough of it now) and if I knew I had to get a good nights sleep I would try to avoid my husband touching me. I also had alot of trouble getting to the point of orgasm, so I would just feel frustrated and not be able to go to sleep. Don't stess.

I don't think she's interested in you in particular. She sounds as though she has a low self esteem and is using you to make herself feel attractive and wanted. She's probably just checking out to see if she could get a man if she wanted to leave her marriage. She would be happy with any bloke showing her some interest. mate, this is what marriage is all about. We are all tempted. I think alot of us feel that our marriages are a bit of a sham every now again. If you can fight this temptation, then your marriage will be stronger than it was before. I have just gone through this myself.

Just a quickie, When you meet somebody for the first time and you are instantly attracted to them is it the norm that they are attracted to you also?

Thanks guys, He only takes antivirals occasionally when he gets an outbreak. This only happens every 3-4 years though. I can't remember the last time he had an outbreak. I have trouble knowing that we can't experience the 'true' feeling of each other whenever we want.

Hi guys, I'm new here. My husband and I have been married for 9 years. I am 31 and he is 38 and we have two children. He told me before we had sex that he had herpes which he says he got from his ex who he was dating for 7 years. I was OK with it, but I'm now struggling with the fact that everytime we have sex, we need to use a condom. I really miss the spontaneity of sex just happening. I know that he's only trying to protect me so that I don't get it, but does anyone have any experience with this and how I can get around it. Thanks in advance