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  1. desertnomad
    Well after five years I cant see that just one stupid argument caused her to meet someone and 'move on' just like that. Perhaps she is just trying to get back at you for not accepting her peace offer. But I think this is a small part of a much bigger communication issue the two of you might have had. She may have been thinking about going in a different direction for quite a long time. I do agree that despite your part in this she is being disrespectful and taking it to the extreme. If you really love and care about someone you wouldnt let stupid things like this destroy your relationship. So you had one bad holiday. That shouldnt be enough to destroy a five year relationship. I know you have to live with her but chasing her to get her back isnt going to work. She needs to see and realize what she will be giving up all on her own. She doesnt even really know this new guy. Maybe an offer to go to couples counseling would work since she said anything is possible but I wouldnt go beyond that. I wouldnt wear my heart on my sleeve either.
  2. desertnomad
    Making new and good memories with good people can help you forget all the bad memories and things said by crazy people. I could see maybe one or two times she was trying to be funny and just lacks a sense of humor. In her case I think she may be seriously missing a few sensitivity chips. There are plenty of people to have as friends who wont act like the universe revolves around them and you are nothing but a puny subject of theirs. Dont let anyone else 'define' who you are. Thankfully youre not married to this woman.
  3. desertnomad
    ENFJ here also
  4. desertnomad
    Sounds like you are doing what you need to do. Hang in there SG 8)
  5. desertnomad
    I agree with Dako that the swings are alot less after six months. Even though the storm still howls at times. Theres no easy way to get to recovery it just takes time and a whole lot of effort.
  6. desertnomad
    I totally agree with the others. He just broke up with her last week and hes already calling you?? Is it really all about him? I would definetly listen to your son on this one...Just my two cents.
  7. desertnomad
    so what are you really saying sandy 8)
  8. desertnomad
    I dont really know who oliver is ..or dori either
  9. desertnomad
    yeah you might not want to go there brit 8P
  10. desertnomad
    shocked sandy?
  11. desertnomad
    no its the cats tongue and I would never stick it in my mouth
  12. desertnomad
    hey what are you saying Brit?? 8P
  13. desertnomad
    haha no where have I heard that before
  14. desertnomad
    but then it would be none so deaf as those that cannot hear wouldnt it?
  15. desertnomad
    well you are very perceptive brit
  16. desertnomad
    I thought it was see ..none soo blind as those that will not see
  17. desertnomad
    nothing just joking around, brings back memories of signing over my house to my ex wife bout 4 years ago heck no I would never call anyone blind
  18. desertnomad
    but good for you brit 8) hope you get it tomorrow
  19. desertnomad
    uggh quick claim deed ...those words those words they hurtss us
  20. desertnomad
    haha I think everyone was crazy and blind yesterday, was a strange day
  21. desertnomad
    thanks sandy 8) I am off work will be on a lil later take care
  22. desertnomad
    nothing else to say, shes gone and I cant change the past and the future looks pretty damn scary right now from where I am standing
  23. desertnomad
    No its ok sandy. Rant away 8)
  24. desertnomad
    Yeah, definetly alot of drama there.
  25. desertnomad
    yep again its what you do not what you say that means everything. Yeah we all make mistakes and do things we regret but those are simple things maybe done in anger or frustration. They arent the 'life' decisions that crush people.
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