desertnomad
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Well those things are nice and my ex would make me dinner almost all the time to for which I always said thank you and told her I loved her. But its the things people do when you arent looking thats important. My ex didnt respect me or our relationship and when she got to work she talked to whomever she wanted. Your ex also was very disrespectful of you.
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In some ways thats right..you can only really know someone by their actions. My ex kept claiming 'I never knew her' well I told her she was right. I never knew she could be so dishonest or a cheater.
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I hope she doesnt grow up to be like her mother
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shes going to be 16 in january
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my ex's daughter last year told us that she had the best xmas ever...to bad her mother didnt seem to feel the same
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no my family was my ex and her daughter..we spent the last four together so I will be alone this year, first time in six years. yeah it is pretty depressing
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No, no word from john that I know of probably just taking a break from ena
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looks like its just me and you sandy
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no comment on holding your piece 8)
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I never heard that either..sarny-sandwhich
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I would like to know that also
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Hey brit your a senior member now..a couple more days and you will be experts like the rest of us 8)
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How is everyone? Found this quote from Dako on another thread and its true. I have a tough time not looking back and missing what I had, like most people I guess... "Today I was looking for some jpg files to update my website and stumbled through pics of my ex and dog on our sailboat. I deleted them without feeling much. The future holds things that haven't hurt me. Time to live." Thanks Dako. Its true the future hasnt hurt us only the past. Maybe there is still a chance as long as there is a future.
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HI beebee we have missed you
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I had those thoughts too prober about my ex seeing all the good instead of the bad and maybe changing her mind. But then wasnt that the problem in the first place and why they left? Their inability to really see the good despite the bad? I want someone who can accept me both good and bad and appreciate me for it. Me and my ex did have some crazy drama the first couple years and I understand that cant continue however we did have good times still. After a while things did improve to just the normal stress and issues that needed to be worked out. But she couldnt let go of the past and used it as an excuse to lie and cheat and blame me for everything. Whats really hard to let go of is the good that we see we had. The good of our relationships the good of ourselves and the good of the other person. My ex was my best friend too and I told her everyday morning and night I loved her. But in reality my best friend wouldnt have ran off with another guy or blamed me for so much, never taking any responsibility for her own actions. Its tough because we want to be forgiving of them and only want the same thing back so that we can be even better people. But all we got back was constant criticism. Maybe they would have grown up or maybe things would have just gotten worse. Its a struggle because like you I lost the one person I never wanted to lose.
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excellant picture, two very pretty ladies
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good morning everyone, just been catching up on the threads
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Its hard to lose someone you really cared about and knowing you said things you wish you hadnt makes it harder. But we are only human right? At least we were committed and honest thats the most important thing. And she as you point out obviously had her own problems. I totally agree with you about the intimacy thing. Me and my ex were out looking for a house the week before she left and she was into buying one. I think it scared her away among other things. She later partly blamed leaving on a lack of us talking about marriage. What a joke. Obviously covering up for her own intimacy issues. My ex packed up a few things and left a note only after four years. Our last conversation was about what we were going to be doing on the weekend and how she would call me when she left work that day. I never got that call....very mature also.
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It sounds like this was an angry woman who had alot more issues than just something that was wrong with your relationship and certainly more than something you did or said. She seems to have two very distinct sides to her. Not in the least very healthy. She sounds a bit unstable and not someone you could really count on long term though you loved her very much. Dont be too tough on yourself and dont allow her to blame you for the end of your relationship. I know its tough because my ex did the same thing to me six months ago. So I have been there and am still struggling with the blame and the loss also. Everyone eventually has to deal with there own stuff and she is no exception. So your ex will have to one day deal with her issues along with the loss of your relationship. Most rebounds dont last and if they do they are a rockier road than the relationship they replaced in my experience. I hear you about the obsession with thoughts of her. Thats a tough thing to deal with. I struggle with the same. The only thing that remotely helps is just remembering her by her actions and not by all you thought about her. After all like that saying goes "what you do speaks so loudly I cant even hear what you say". Some questions may never be answered. Thats just one thing I guess we all have to accept. Dont let this defeat you. Take care
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yeah the story about finding nemo 8P
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the cats not a waiter 8P
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I still dont know who dori is! I know who dora is! Who is dori? am I the only one who knows whos a guy and whos not on here??
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please explain to me to
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the only meowing I hear is from the crazy cat to my left
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meow meow 8)
