princessdi75

my boyfriend is 6 years older then me and I think his only problem he had was that his "little" brother is a YEAR older than me. Do you understand what I mean? He never said this to me, but I got that impression. Other than that things are fine. he makes fun of my because I'm still a teenager and stuff. I'll be 20 in july and he'll be 26 in oct. I just think it's weird for him to think that when he was 20 i was only 14, you know? but as you get even older, age makes no differene.

Good, I hope you make it through this. I wish you the best of luck!!

You have to be strong and not contact him. That's my biggest fault. When me and my boyfriend fight I have to "talk" I can't just drop things like he can. My boyfriend was in a bad mood last night and was pretty much inconsiderate to me...but i tried not to take it too personal because he's stressed from work...so lately i have been trying to give him space and it's really hard for me to not call him just to say hello. I know i shouldn't be nice to him when he was a jerk to me, but I don't know how else to support him. You need to just get your mind off him and wait for him to come to you. When he finally does come around you'll have to listen to what he has to say and be prepared for anything.

I just want to say 'calm down'. things have a way of working themselves out, and even though I don't know your story, I can assure you that only time will be able to help you resolve your issues. Just calm down, relax, and focus on something else. freaking out will only cause you to do something you'll later regret.

Momene, you were giving me advice in one of my threads regarding my boyfriend with his VERY low self-esteem. You seem to really understand his feelings. I was just wondering if you could explain low-self esteem to me and how it affected your life...I just can't seem to understand why my boyfriend treats himself like crap and pushes me away when he does. Then after he's done pushing me away he acts like I'm the greatest person in the world and I feel like we couldn't be closer...it's all so confusing, and I think you might understand his behavior....

I'm really happy for you. When I first started reading, I was afraid the whole thing was going to lead to some really bad experience...regrets, and emotional confusion...but it's so good to hear that someone has found content with knowing that someone who they have strong feelings for, doesn't feel the same way back - and it is just amazing that you can turn the other cheek and let her live her life, so in turn you can live yours. I find that very inspiring. Thank you for sharing your story!

i talked to a lot of old friends on myspace. I found that was all myspace was good for. Looking up and chatting with old friends...

Good question, I too would like to know the answer to this...I am a pretty confident person and don't mind being nude around my boyfriend, but I get self-conscious if I know he's looking/staring at me...I just get so uncomfortable!

I love surveys: Age: 19 Gender: Female 1. How many relationships have you had? 4, 1 serious 2. How many times have you been in love? Once 3. How long was your longest relationship? What went wrong in the relationship? I'm currently in my longest relationship it's 9 months tomorrow 4. How short was your shortest relationship? What went wrong in the relationship? Like a month i guess, I was young and stupid. I had a low self esteem and desperately wanted to be liked up until about a year and a half ago. 5. Are you currently in a relationship now? How is it going? My current relationship has had some major problems (that i posted about on here a LOT) but we're working on it and things are going very good 6. Have you ever been engaged? How many times? Never 7. Have you ever been married? Are you still married? How many times? What went wrong in the marriages? Do you ever want to be married? I'm not sure if i'll ever get married. I'm not sure if I want to, it all depends on the circumstances 8. Do you have any kids? How many? Do you even want kids? I'm not a kid-person. I don't know if i want kids or if i will have any 9. How many of your ex's have dumped you? Why do you think they dumped you? I've had three bf's before my current and all three cheated on me at some point. I guess that was their way of dumping me, but I just stopped coming around after i found out 10. How many have you dumped? Why? Same thing as above, they were jerks so i stopped seeing them, but ultimately it was their decision not to be with me. 11. If you can change one thing about yourself, what would it be? I never think before i speak...that causes me lots of problems 12. If you can choose one quality in a man/woman,what would it be? I just want someone who will make me feel good about myself - and make me laugh 13. What is the worse thing a man/woman can do in a relationship? Cheat! lol. 14. Whats more important, looks or personality? Both are important to me. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to take care of their body and be healthy. 15. Describe your ideal life partner. My current bf! After he finishes college, and gets a different job, lol. 16. What is one thing you regret and can take back? Having sex when i was 15 for the first time, and the whole 5 other times i did it before i met my current bf. I wish i would have waited for him... 17. Are you a virgin? If yes do you think you lost it too young or too old? If no when do you want to lose your virginity? too young, i shoulda waited for my current bf 18. Have you ever had a one night stand? How many? Would you ever do it again? no 19. Finish this sentence: Love is the feeling i get everytime i see my boyfriend 20. Where do you see yourself in 10 years? only time will tell....

DN, You are SOOO right. That is absolutely the truth, and I'm living proof of it!! It never even crossed my mind though...

I need love. lol. My job is my job, and I only want to make enough money to support myself. I wouldn't work somewhere I hate, but I don't need to work somewhere that I love. What gets me through a stressful workday is knowing that I get to go home to people that love me, and I love in return.

let me just say...my boyfriend started calling me "Dee" (wayy back before we started dating - my name is Diana) we started dating and I soon became doodle-dee...and then just doodle...and now I'm POODLE!!! Nothing drives me more crazy than when he says in a baby voice "Who's my little poodle?!??!!" ...as for the greek nickname - i wouldn't take offense to it, it probably has nothing to do with the ex. Can I just ask though, how do you pronounce psipsina? My boyfriend's mom is greek, just curious.

That's a really tough situation, and I'm not sure there is a "right" way to go about doing things. I think it would be best to tell him right away, as you do not want to string him along and have him come to your place when you have no intention of wanting to be with him. If I was in your shoes I would tell him ASAP. I too am the type of person that would NOT want to break up over the phone but you have no control over the circumstances. One thing you should think about though is what would he want? Considering you actually care about his feelings, you have been dating long enough that you should know how he would appreciate you to dump - maybe he would be extremely offended if you did it over the phone and it would be better to wait til he came to visit...

I didn't go to college, and don't plan on ever going...in five years i will be making close to $35,000 if i DON'T move up to a higher position. But i plan on moving up, of course!

I live in PA, I'm 19, I haven't gone to college and I have a good job...i'm a state employee!! Take a civil service test (they're easy) and get on the non-civil service list. There a tons of different kinds of work to do. I do clerical work. I make decent money, but the best part is I'll never need college to move up and I'm guaranteed a raise every year! I have good benefits and a retirement plan. Right now i'm looking to move up though...i just got a call today about a position that is a step higher than i am now (and $1.50 more an hour!)