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amipushy

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  1. What kind of essays? Are you an expert in a specific field? Do you reference them? Or are they fiction/ short stories?
  2. Living like that is no life and thinking like that isn't normal. It may not be a 'mental' issue, but its definitely a psychological issue you need to address. It sounds like you have paralyzed yourself and your 'life' by using the negative experiences and thoughts that have occurred throughout your life to confirm and reaffirm that life just stinks and wasn't meant for you. Most 'normal' people when they reach an empasse in life think to themselves that they have two choices - staying where they are in a miserable life OR to pick themselves up and make positive changes so the don't remain in that rut or spiral down further into misery and despair. You have not done that. You have decided that you have a third option-suicide and think "yes well I can always kill myself, I'll always have THAT option if things get too difficult, cr*ap etc" And guess what, it's BECAUSE you have that third option that life really has become that difficult and cr*p. Remove that option for yourself- tell yourself that its not an option for you anymore, its not your decision, it's out of your hands and that its not because your mother is guilt-tripping you (deep down you know its not because of her) because its only when that option is removed that you seriously you start looking for other options and start asking yourself "What am I going to do now that I am going to be around from a very long time?" I think that CBT could help you greatly to enable you change your thoughts, and in time change your life as every day as you grow and learn life will change and get better for you, not in the short term but the long term.
  3. Size DOES matter, it matters to men. Women would rather have a good man with good bed skills and a wicked tongue that knows its way around.
  4. I went through something similar years ago when I became friendly with a lesbian. We both got caught up in the same kind of thing, it was a deep friendship with no sexual attraction on both our parts. She made me question my inner self then I realised that we were both getting scared of what was happening. I got out of it by doing this... when she said something 'flirty' to me and took a deep breath an said, " Look you're making me want to end this friendship by you treating me this way, I am not bisexual, I am not gay and I would prefer it if you didn't treat me like I am, I am a friend and that's all I want to be". Then I left her alone to think about it, she came back to me a few hours later with a big beaming smile because she realised that it was all in our own heads. We took a few days away from each other and things slowly calmed down and we caried on our friendship until she moved away back home several hundred miles away to be near her mum. We still keep in touch and she knows I will always be there for her as a friend. It took some guts on my part but it had to be done.
  5. .... Abit more contraversial than the other one as it's closer to the truth than alot of women, including me, care to admit. and one for the guys
  6. LOL It's just a bit of fun, I'm sure.
  7. Had to share this as I couldnt believe my eyes. Dammit girls they are onto us, lol What ya'll think of them?
  8. I don't think he would have been posting in Suicide because he just wanted a job, I feel that he from reading all the posts, he was searching for a way out of his depression and 'hopeless' state of mind. And I totally agree with darkblue. I also feel that people who have understanding what it is like to be suicidal are the best people to help, not just people with opinions on getting a job.
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