Maverick32x

im not sure if i shoudl make a new post, but a real good friend of hers (9 years) was asking me about her, and if i was planning on dating her.... if ive learned anything from the 6th grade, its, when a girl starts asking you about her friend, its a usually a GOOD thing also, when i asked her friend what SHE thought about us dating (the other girl and me) she said that she thought it was a good idea, and i shoudl consider it a good thing that she is talking to me about it.... so... i guess those are all good signs... so w/ those thoughts in the back of my mind, i decided to ask her out once more before we go to school to try to set up some sort of an official date i'm taking her to this 30$ a pop restraunt (which im paying for than im thinkign ice cream afterwards, and there is like.. this outside mall type thing, and i think i'll talk to her about it there..... im still a lil nervous even w/ all these signs, but i think it should go well... she leaves for school in like.. 2 days... so im not sure if she wants a BF going into College.. cuz we are going to diff schools.. but they are only 30 mins apart.... hmm.... There is only one way to find out im basically just going to ask what she would tihnk about us dating, before i actually ask her to do it.... i think that would make the drive home a little more barable i guess this was mostly just an update post and i'll let you all know how it goes tonight

man thats so awesome!!!!!!!!!! sorry, i get excited when i hear stuff like this goes well

im sure everything will work out

no, lol, it was expensive, she picked a place that was like 20$ a pop.. and she makes more money than me anyway I'm a poor college student!!!!!

pshh.. you can ALWAYS complain about work.. no one actually likes to do it but ya, dont whine or anything, i just seemed to notice its a really easy way to start a conversation....

exactly what the person above wrote.. go for it man stick w/ small talk.. imo... its really easy to start a conversation by complaining about something... i dont mean go into long detail about how muhc you hate something cuz than you will sound like a whinner.. but just mention how bad the weather is.... or how hot it is or something... than start to make conversation after that

if you are a freshman in college... im assuming that alot of the girls there are interested in meeting guys.. ( i just finished my freshman year).... i was kinda shy in HS also, but for w/e reason i really knew i had to get over it.. and i made alot of friends... also, w/ a little alchole in you.. youd be surprised how mcuh more convidence you have.... i wouldnt really go for "asking girls out" alot in college... it SEEMS to me... that girls really want to test out all their options... so i mean... trying to lock one into a relationship early isnt always goign to work....but ya.. jsut be friendly... thats all there is to it most people in college WANT to get to know people... so your best bet is to start as early as you.. make as many friends as you can.. cuz connections is EVERYTHING... hoped that helped

well.... it was really weird but she ended up calling ME.. but ya, i just kinda played it cool, and just talked to her at work and stuff... i just acted like i have been acting for the past year or so.. just friendly/flirty and stuff.... and she ended up wanting to having dinner w/ me.. and than yada yada yada... i was at her place till midnight maybe just an off night? i dunno...... we'll both be at diff schools in like a week.. so we'll see what happens after that??

^_^ gl man, im sure something came up, im sure its nothing personal. i cant wait to see date 4 pop up on this forum

**Update** Well the other night she asked me out to dinner tonight, and it ended up w/ a nice dinner at an italian place near my house, than back to her house to just kinda "hang out"... it turned out to be a VERY awesome night so a happy ending to this thread

im a swimmer, and it seems to be working really good for me.... i would say try to figure out how many calories you burn exercising, and just make sure you consume less than that when you eat.... also, make sure you are eating GOOD things... no fast food ect.... that should help you lose alot of weight imo~ dont take drugs for weightloss, and dont starve yourself. Just Excercise.. and since you said you really cant run or bike.. i would say swimming off the top of my head, or you could try weight lifting or something

haha thats funny.. work at a pizza place... im going to have to disagree w/ that rose idea, am i the only one who thinks thats a little over the top? you are only 17 years old.... and im not sure how close you guys are as friends... i would think you would want to keep it as casual as possible. But thats kind of my approach..... the movie idea is awesome imo, its really easy to bring up, and gives you something to do... the dinner after is good to, you can basically go anywhere, it wouldnt be too hard to pick somewhere close. to ask her to the movie, you could jsut bring up how you've always wanted to see and than if she shows any intrest, be like, we should defintly go see it! or something like that, and yada yada yada.. you know what to do from there if you are shy, its goign to be alot easier to keep it casual and friendly..... since if you try to make it too romantic and like a date, you probably will freak out, and not be yourself.... so if you ask casually it shouldnt be too big of a deal

cool i figured it would work out

YES!

maybe ask her wednesday for a date on the weekend? not sure how yours or her work schedule is~

i hate that stuff like that WORKS!!! i'll have to admit ive done stuff like that, but i always feel bad its not fair really update this when he calls

i actually started wearing contacts on nights that i figured i would be making out w/ someone >_

ya, if he went through that much trouble he was interested.. but might of chickened out? or he is just trying to make you wait a bit to make you want him more.... it seems to be working >_

i think the go-karting thing is awesome!! imo, it would be alot easier to talk if you guys are doing something than if you guys are just sitting around at a restraunt.... i guess its a problem that SHE owns it.. maybe show some interest in it and hope she asks you? but ya, i would say ask her out to lunch sometime just casually, and than try to get a number out of her..... but defintly just send her an email to see whats up... remember.. she obviously has some interest in you, or she wouldnt of given out any contact info.. you already got your foot in the door the way i see it...

haha i guess thats one way to find out

ya, true, actually at work today, someone pointed out that she kept looking at me during the day, so i guess that was a bit of a self-esteem booster also, it didnt seem too ackward today, she was smiling at me and stuff.. so maybe it was all in my head? i dunno...? i mean, this girl seemed to like me alot before, leave notes for me to just say hi and stuff.... i dunno... lol

man, this a tough one, i hate when girls do this haha Its hard to say if she just made it up cuz she wasnt interested.. or if she was actually busy.... i say just talk to her at work and stuff, and maybe try to do something casually afterwards? if she doenst sound interested i think you might be out of luck >_

not especially, thats what kinda throws me off so much. She sometimes will want to hang out and do stuff, and other times its like she could care less it seems

hmm.... well if you are heading out to college, let me tell you.. you will meet TONS of people. i dont think you'll have too much trouble dealing with your GF who doesnt sound like that nice of a person to you in the first place. College will be awesome, i promise

man, i just joined these forums, but that is one sad story my man.... it sounds like the girl didnt seem right for you anyway. Ya know when you date someone for awhile, and you just get used to them being around... when in reality they arent making you happy? well, maybe you and Laura can hit it off