ok, first of all, im amazed ive resorted to this, but hopefully some people out there are willing to help me out
ok, well lets see im in my 2nd year of college and hmm.... where to start, ive been interested in this girl for the past year or so, and we've gone on "dates" ive guess the past summer, but never got romantically involved. like, just out to eat, bike rides, just stuff for fun.
Well... this summer was a little diffrent, we started hanging out again a bit more, and i figured i really needed to make a move, cuz the longer i waited, the more i was just getting mad at myself for not doing anything. And she seemed to like me, cuz i mean, we WERE hanging out alot and stuff.. so she invites me over to watch a movie w/ her, and we kiss and hold hands. ( i know, i feel liek im in 8th grade or something >_
We went out and did a few things as the days went by. Went to a baseball game, and like, it felt like things were going good and i got like a kiss good night on the cheek....
well.. .tonight.... i invited her over to watch a movie and stuff, and like, we were just kinda hanging out, and for w/e reason im not much for making first moves, so we werent really cuddling or anything on the couch.. but near the end of the movie, she kinda just shifted positions and had her hand real close to mine, so i was like.. hmm.. sign? maybe.. so i just grabbed it w/e... .and like she held it back, and we jsut finished watching the movies, and than i went to walk her to her car outside, and we were talking and stuff.. and than she turns and is all like thanx for the night, and i went to kiss her, and we kissed for a bit, but like.. it just felt like it wasnt right at all.... like.... i was kinda holding her, and her arms werent really anywhere... and like.. i dunno.. it just felt BAD....... so ya, i really dont know what the deal is... a week ago we were making out in her basement, and than i kiss her tonight and its weird.....??? I guess im just kinda looking for advice on what to do next.. i mean... the last thing i want to do is give up... but i also dont want to spend god knows how long chasing some girl that isnt interested in me...
also, please dont worry about being nice or anything, just want what you think could be going down.... ty
