bek

im currently 7 an half months pregnant with my first child an my babys daddy rang my old work place to find my new number after not bothering to contact me in over 5 months no one would give it to him thank goodness but he left his an told my old boss to give it to me when she sees me next and to tell me he loves me an misses me ... i dont no what to do?? do i call him or dont i ? the thing is when we were together he was mentally abusive as well as physically abusive it was soo hard for me to leave the relationship cause i was scared for my own safety as well as my familys ... and the fact that i did really love him an kept saying to myself he will change he will do it for me he loves me. Im scared if i dont call him hes going to come up here ( when we broke up i moved towns i live 22 hrs away from him at the moment ) an take the baby like he said he was going to do ages ago ... but if i ring him an we make peace then he mite not have any reason to do that ?? its soo hard cause i have to put the babys need firsts and i really dont no what is the right thing to do right now ... i cant talk to my family cause all they think about ever is the negative ... an they somehow think that i shouldnt care about him or even think about him they drive me crazy ... some plz help love bekki :sad:

he says hes gonna get councelling if it means he can be with me an he will never touch grog againan he says that he no what he did was wrong an that he is soo possesive because he has never felt this way about anyone an doesnt no how to act.i told him if there was a chance alot would have to change an i really dont no if he would be able to keep to his word.he's adopted an his mum needs him to change aswell cause she said to me that he is breaking her heart she said she tryd so hard to bring him up to be a good person soo he doesnt just need to change for me its his familtyas well i really dont no what to do should i trust this an give him another chance ?? i said im confused at the moment and he just need to give me time to make a decision on what i should do...... and i have thought about it all day an keep thinking of the positives an negatives an i dont no what to do ? what should i do ??

Well me an my bf have been together for 6 months an this isnt a normal relationship hes black an im white..... we use to be soo happy ....... we were until last nite when he got a little to drunk an took his anger out on me in public .... he hit me .... no one would help me they just stood there an watched my physco bf take his anger out on me secruity finally came an calmed him down an got me to ring my mum .... my mum came an took me home.... when we got hom i finally calmed down an went to bed got woken up at 4 am by my window smashing an my dad running out an abusing him he hit my dad .... my mum called the police an his mum an his brother in law came round to try an calm him down.......i stayed inside cause my parent wouldnt let me go near him ..... he was crying an screamin my name an tellin me that he loves me an that hes soo sorry .......that broke my heart!!! How can he bash me an then say that to me?? how unfair is that ??I dont no what to do hes been beggin me for his forgivness but i dont no if i can..... cause i dont no what he will be like in a few years time what should i do ?

i went home to visit my family an friends and i seen my ex fiance for the first time in a very long time .... and things went surprisingly well the first day i seen him i was soo scared....... but yea we just did the hole g'day how are ya thing ........ alot has happen since we broke up 10 months ago .........i have moved miles away , been with another guy an fallen pregnant to him ... then misscarried .... an alot has happened with him to he has a new gf and is living with her!!! which hurts me soo bad .... cause i still love him with all my heart ...... the next time i seen him he had plans with my best mate ( also his best mate) an his gf.... to go driving round town cause his dad would be out with his new car .... but because i got home early which was unexpected my mate rang him an told him an said theyd just do it some other time....... but my ex made up some plan an lied to his gf soo we could go into town....... an the next nite he did the same thing soo we could all have a party.......me an him stayed up all nite talking an watching movies when everyone had past out ... it was just me an him left soo yea we just kept drinking an stuff........ then he fell asleep on me ... an in his sleep he kept sayin my name..........i cant stand the way he looks at me ... the same way he did when we were together its sooo hard .... !!! he lied to his gf the next nite aswell ... an the night after that whats the go with that ?? i love him soo much , our best mate says he still cares about me heaps ... but is that enough im soo confused ... me seeing bought back sooo many old feelings

ok well my mate really likes this guy... they have slept 2getha three times an remain good mates but at the moment they are just doing the hole casual sex thing but her feelings are way more than what he has ... he said from the start that its never gonna lead anywhere but she really wants it to ....... cause he likes this other chick..... she wants to ask him out but soo scared of being rejected an she gets signs that he likes her more aswell .... like he calls her darling an babe an all these cute pet names its as if they are together but there not if u get me ?? soo what should she do ??

his new gf keeps msgn me an wont * * * * off ... she says he is now her prince of darkness what the * * * * is with that * * * *!!! he said he wants nothing to do with me or our baby .... i dont no what i am gonna do i am soo heartbroken i love him soo much ..... an was fully excited bout our lil family ..... i hope he comes back soon .... but some things really have to change .... yea the drugs an his anger

Ok well i have been with this guy for 5 months now an i am 3 months pregnant we were soo in love .... yea we had a fight every day not big ones we just get o each others nerves but at the end of each day we stilll loved each other .... but yesterday was differrent !! he stood me up ... said he was sick .... when i rang him he was with this chick v doing xtc...... so i hung up an sent him an abusive txt msg cause i was soo angry ..... then an hour later i get these msgs ...... exactly how they were written by the way laeve me alonde wer finnished no nor rhit gts over dnt tyt me anximrp dual of fa rhit over yer finisheed v dnt evn tuch me * * * * of laeve me alonem i never wat 2 c u aggain litch umm soo i dont no what the go with that is .... should i take if for real ?? ud think after 5 months 2gether hed have the decency to break up with me a. when hes not high as a kite b. in person im soo stressed out an its really not good for the baby!! what do u think i should do ?? should i leave him for a few days wait for him to contact me ??? or what should i do ... somebody plz help!!!

my bf broke up with me tonite while he was high on xtc ??? do u think it was him that broke up with me or the xtc ??? plz help

i live in austrailia , queensland ..... thanks everyone for there advice

deff keepin it ....my bf works fulltime .. ears 500 an week plus i work at the moment an have a fair bit of money saved soo that will also help an yea all that stuff will be all good an im not worried ... just the whole breakin the news to the parentals .. an yea my bf is more excited then me about it he cant wait .. plus he knows what its like to grow up with outta dad soo he said he aint going anywhere

ok well long story im a going out with a guy who is 15 turning 16 next month an i am 17 turning 18 next march .. anyway well i have fallen pregnant an mum an dad have been givin me this big lecture for the past month or so sayin my bf is to young for me an that he is a bogan an that im gonna end up pregnant an now i am ... an i just really dont wanna tell them cause i no i am going to get a lecture ur ruining ur life ur way to young hes way to young an all that an i really dont need it or wanna hear it ... is there really an easy way of telling them ?? an i really wont be able to handle the i told so s**t.. my mum wanted me to break up with him .... but i didnt cause i really do love him .... an yea .. someone plz give me sum advice lv bek

no matter what i do no matter what i try i cant get him outta me ..... every where i go i see sumone who looks like him ... his name mentioned... sumone says something he would say .. a family member .. its driviing me crazy its been 6 months since we broke up an i thought id be over him by now .. but each day im more detirmined to get him back in my life ... i wish i wasnt like this... ive turned into this fussy B*** every guy i see or meet has to be like him .. i dont wanna be like this ..... but i cant help it... tuesday is our aniversery i cant cope as it is what am i gonna do plz ... help an dont just tell me to move on cause ive heard it all before an i have tryed an tryed ... an i cant

say if u got a missed call on your fone from your ex.... even if u didnt wanna here from them would u call them back to see what they had called you for or would u totally ignore the fact that they mite want to talk to you about sumin important ???

everyone says as time goes by the pain starts to fade in my case it keeps getting worse ... im at the stage where i dont even no why i am gettin up of the morning cause i know i have to go through the day with no support from the person that i love.... its been 5 months since my bf left me an each day is sooo hard cause i know as time goes by im gonna be forgotten about an its just another day when i know he wont be coming back to me .......i still dont no why we arent together..... i think this has a big part in why i cant get over him.... an to be honest as much as i know i have to i really really dont want to...........even if i dont get him back i just wanna talk to him.... just once but i am sooo scared im going to get more hurt ..... what should i fdo

okay where to start... about a week ago i moved 22 hours away from most of my relatives an all my friends ... i moved with my parents they made me move here.....they threatend me an they new that i didnt want this at all an i still dont wanna be here but they said if i didnt move they would never speak to me again an that i had no choice in the matter soo here i am miles an miles away from all these people i care about... all because i was to scared that my parents would hate me !! an here i am never been soo depressed in my hole entire life .... i left a job i loved ... i have no money now ... i left my friends ..... i have no friends in this town... my parents leave me at home whenever they go anywhere an i dont have a lience or a car soo i cant really go out anywhere to meet people because of transport an the money situation.... ive put in for a fair few jobs an i havent heard anything back from any of them an my parents expect me to have all these friends an all this money within a week ... as it is i have trouble makin friends an they no this ...... i think they just wana see me unhappy an depressed they dont care about me i think they just get a thrill outta me being unhappy...... i want to move back but im scared that if i do my parents will hate me !!!!!!!!