melodystar22

Some days are harder than others....you just have to be patient. It seems to me you are a great guy with a big heart. You deserve so much better. In the end you'll find that its not about getting over someone, its about feeling good about yourself. Simply knowing that you are the most important, most awesome person, so live to please yourself. Just try not going back in time and remembering stuff. Don't be nostalgic. just go on, look for someone else and just know that the person who doesnt feel the same way for you, isnt' worth your love. You dont wanna be with someone who doesnt know what she wants. My advice to you is don't stress yourself over someone who doesn't stress themself over you. It's not worth it. And keep in mind that it wasn't wasted time because im sure you learned something about yourself through it all and if not that you've learned to be stronger. So keep hoping and keep smiling!

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I knoooow! That's what I'm wondering

My mother is going through the same loss. She fell in love with him when she was in gradeschool. Now she is 44 years old and she still feels the same love. My grandfather did not allow him to see her or speak to her. He hid all of his letters and told him my mother had gotten married and didnt want anything to do with him. Years later he got married and so did my mom. Now they both lead separate lives. My mom cries for him once in a while and it breaks my heart because I've always believed that where there is love, there is hope. And I think, Is there really no hope? My mother married my dad, divorced him 10 years later, and remarried a pastor. I've asked her...how do you do it Mom? How can you live with my step-dad and be in love with another man. She tells me she loves my step dad but no one will replace her first love. It's sad to think that you can't live with the one person your heart belongs to. I asked her what she does to be able to live a normal happy life....she said it's God.

Talk to her. Talk to her. Talk to her. If you don't, then you're just going to have to live with it. What you need to do is ask her to meet you somewhere...a nice quiet place where you can talk. Don't just bring it up anytime....set a time and place. Then tell her how you feel. If she truly loves you, she should make sacrifices....she should SHOW you. Listen to HER side too...try to see things from her point of view and compromise. Don't tell her you don't love her unless you're trying to end things with her. Good luck.

Very depressing. Fortunately we all know that isnt the answer to life's problems. right? RIGHT?

Wow! This is great advice. I did almost the same thing with my ex. I would call him ALL the time and try to bring "us" up. I found out later that he was extremely annoyed by it. Then I stopped. I figured...i'm not going to get him back this way so I decided to change my attitude about the whole thing. I went out and made new friends. A few days ago, he called and told me he missed me and he wanted to go out this saturday. When you show them you're strong and happy without them, the come back. It's attractive.