Josh G.

believe it or not, preperation H will get rid of those, I was reading in a magazine somewhere that is what movie stars use, if your comfortable with putting it on your face it should work. Hope that helps.

In the bible, all it says is, believe in Jesus christ, that he died for you, to forgive your sins, I think that is all we need to get to heaven, to believe. Also, we dont know much about religion, everybody has a different perspective on it, and everybody has there own opinions, we were only given a jig saw puzzle of the truth, with many missing pieces, so what many people preach to be the only way, is probally just a personal opinion of there own or somebody elses that they have adopted. I think God is very understanding and will look at each person individually in a different way, to judge them, I dont think he has a checklist, and if you dont make it, your goin to hell.

I just wanna comment on the man on the island thing, how could he commit sin, if no one else is around? can you commit sin, if nobody else would be affected by it, or nobody else is involved? like really, what kind of evil could he do? He wouldnt even be able to speak, all he would worry about is staying alive, and that would be instinct, lol, I know this wasnt serious, sorry.

These are all very good, thanks for the replies, now, Is there a specific action I could do? eg: by her a rose? I always am as nice as I can be in public, (but the first or second time I held a door open for her, she gave me a weird look, like what the heck are you doing?, after that I think she got used to it, (that was before we were going out))

OK, ladies (or guys if u got some good ideas), what are some things, that would impress you alot that your bf could do, I mean anything, like helping somebody, doing something for you. Just stuff that would make you feel like he is a wonderful guy. Like, helps his mom do stuff at home, or does something romantic, or buys you soemthing small? Anything specific? Thanks, Josh.

Well thanks for the replies, Im not really sure about the kissing thing still though, Ive heard alot, that girls find it respectful about the asking for a kiss thing, and I havnt heard to much that they dont like it when you ask them. Or do they just find it respectful when your not a couple, and If you are a couple, then you dont ask? Ok, If we are going out, what is the worst she would do If i kissed her, shes not going to freak out or anything, right? Should I just do it when were are sayin goodbye, in the morning, or afternoon? And I should just give her like a 3 second peck on the lips? ( I know, Im lame, but I have no experience at this stuff at all, because I used to be very shy, to a point where I was almost antisocial, so Im just learning right now) Thanks in advance.

Ok, me and my gf, have been going out for a couple weeks, I havnt kissed her yet (which is going to change soon, Im just going to ask her and do it) but last night, we were having an online conversation, a normal one, and everytime she could I guess, she made comments that had a sexual idea to them, like her bedroom window is unlocked, if I come in through that way, and if we were quiet, her parents wouldnt know anything, or she said that she was cold, but I could come over and warm her up "wink wink". I would normally just think of this as just joking, but she said Alot of stuff like this, I am pretty sure she is a virgin, I have not asked her that, we havnt got that personal yet, but I think she is trying to hint things off to me, but Im not sure, maybe im just misinterpreting things. I have no problem with this, but how do I let her know, that I respect her, and would never want her to feel pressured into doing anything for me and I can wait until she is fully ready. Now, if I am right, I think she would feel fully ready, if she is really that anxious to do it, by all the comments, but I would like her to really think about it, and make sure she is ready. So I guess my questions are: Am I right to make assumptions like this if she makes Alot of jokes about it, and if she is, how do I let her know how I feel ( I will do it, but I want her to be ready), Thanks in advance.

It really doesnt matter to me, I dont care what she wears, Im just not into the gothic at all.

Well, thanks for the reply, I have givin it some thought, I dont think I am going to do that, your right. I havnt even experienced anything yet, and I am trying to predict what is going to happen. And I would never leave a girl because she had some issues, I would try and help her with them. But, if i did that, it wouldnt be very fair, Im afraid of getting dumped so I dump her? Bad and cruel idea. The only problem that makes me feel this way though, is ever since Ive been dating her, I Feel liek a boring guy around her, and i just have a feeling she will lose interest soon, but I have to give this a shot and I got to have some faith.

Ok, Ive been reading alot of posts on this site lately about people, who's bf/gf just dont love them anymore, and like another person, so they break up with them, and this just happened to one of my best friends. Its terrible, right now, he devestated, they've been together for liek 2 or 3 years, and he really liekd her. Now that Im thinking abotu it alot, I dont want it to happen to me, I just dont feel like getting into a serious relationship anymore, I really dont feel like I ever want to get into something serious, So, now I need some advice, comments and feedback. I think before anything gets serious, I want to break up with my gf, because of this. I think that it would be good enough that we could still be friends with out to much akwardness between us. I really like her, but it just seems so possible that she could lose interest. So if yuo guys can maybe talk me out of it, if not, what can I do or say to let her now, that it is nothing with her. ( I think she has low self esteem, because we got into an argument over msn, she thought she was ugly, and I was getting mad becasue it is not true at all) thanks in advance, Josh.

I agree with DaxMan, we do need dances like that lol, there is always to much pressure on the guys.

Well if she asked you, Theres a pretty good hint she likes you, Think of it like this, I dont think girls pick guys inny minny miney moe, and she had the rest of the guys at your school to pick from, so there is a good reason she asked you, just see how things go, if things go good, then you can start initiating things. Good luck!

Im sort of going through the same thing, same type of girl, Ive only noticed it since Ive had a gf though, but Im not going to do anything about it, I think im happy right now.

ya. (enough said)

If I were you, I'd go back, heres why, becase I am a guy, and if that happened I would go back, but If I met her again, I would make it seem coincidental, So if he felt something too, he will probally go back. If you see him, go up and start talking to him. Hope that helps, It is something I would do, (And I hope im not just some weird kind of stalker guy but dont know it yet )

ok, lillady 898, made a comment about having tomboy friends, and them having simular problems, this just gave me the impression, that girls like these are just hard to work with, Im hoping this is true, is it? So far everyone has had some great ideas and given good advice, but if it is true, girls like these, being a little more difficult, does anybody know from experience how to handle this?I guess she doesnt do to many tomboy things, but she is interested in things I am, Like, I race dirtbikes, she thinks that is really cool, she likes to ride when she can, Im in to cars and stuff and she is too, I want to be a cop in a few years, She thinks thats really cool and basically, I dunno, like I said, shes not a girly girl, shes someone I can really get along with, we have alot in common, and I think we could really have something going if we could only get it... going? Anyways, thanks again, Josh.

Ok, I am having the same problem I was having before, You guys are probally sick of hearing it but... Me and my gf still just act like really good friends, Nothing has happened to make it more like a relationship. We do talk alot more, but now I think I need to step up to the plate again, and start initiating everyting, Like maybe giving her a kiss, holdong hands, hugging and stuff, becasue she does nothing to make it more, she just talks, and most of the time is just joking around, I want to fix it, but if nothing seems to work soon, Im just telling her that we are as good as friends and thats all we should be. So, now, how do I sneak in for the kiss if she just acts normal, and always like a friend, Also, Should I see if she wants to come to my place next weekend and meet my family? Anything else I should do? Just to let you guys know, I dont think I would have this problem wiht any other girl, She is different from most girls, And I dont know what to do with her? I guess she is kind of tom boyish, and definatly not a girly girl. Any ways thanks for the help in advance, Josh.

Ok, I guess I can say, the relationship between me and my mom is pretty much just ok, Things used to be awesome, but a few years ago, she hurt herslef at work and can never go back, she is on pain medication daily, And everyone has tried to be very supportive about it, she never really talks to her old friends at work, and doesnt leave the house much, she has been gaining wieght, and is very depressed, We all understand and try to be there for her, but she always thinks everyone is ganging up against her, she always tries to tell the rest of my family (bros and dad) that nobody loves her and we dont respect her anymore, which isnt true, we do everything for her, And i can understand how she is feeling, I dont blame her, she is always alone when Im a school and everyone is at work and she has no one to talk too, She Always wants us to spend time with her, but she wont do anything but watch tv, and that is the only way she will spend time with anyone else. Nobody else is relaly a tv watcher in our family especially her kind of shows (gardening, quilting, home shopping network, trading spaces etc...) and she gets upset if we dont like to watch them all the time with her. Basically I only get around 4 hours a day to do stuff I want to do, becasue of work and school and I am restoring a car btu she expects me to spend all of my time watching tv, I just try and even everything out. Here is the big problem now, that you have some background info, Now that I have a gf, she seems to be really jealous of me becasue I want to do things with her, Me and my gf had planned to go out for dinner and a movie on saturday, and my mom seemed liek she was ok with it, but then suddenly started yelling at me and grounded me for no reason, just saying I dont spend enough time with her, SO now I cant do anything with my gf, she seems o be doing everything so I am miserable and cant do anything with my gf. What I need to know is how I should handle this, I understand how my mom feels, i know that she is lonely, and is going through a very hard time in her life, and im trying to help her with it, but I would liek to have a life too, and right now, I would like to have a relationship with my gf, How should I handle this?

Hey, well today, I didnt find a good time to talk about it today, he is in my first period class and he always comes up and talks to me, Like I said, Im pretty friendly to everyone so me and him just talked, I was going to say something if anything was brought up about her, anyways in 4th period, the class we all have together, I acted A little more aggressive, I wasnt mean, but I just didnt make conversation with him, I stuck around my gf, real good, kind of like a shield, but made it seem casual, and if he talked to me, I just answered simply, like ya, sure, whatever, stuff like that, kinda acted a bit annoyed, so he just went and sat down, and left her alone, He turned around and talked to me a couple times, so I went back to normal, I think things went good today, I didnt have to confront anyone about it, and everyone was happy, so If anybody else has the same problem, this seemed to work good.

By the way, I cant believe how the heck I put this in this forum? It should have been under jealousy, oops!

Ok, If youve read some of my previous posts, You know what was going on, well things are going alot better now with my gf, we always talk, we hang around together alot, but we havnt done anything important really (like kissed or hugged or stuff), but here is my new question, there is some guy, who she kinda hates, hes is really annoying, they are friends kind of, but she tells me how much he bugs her, and he bugs me and everyone else, IM nice to him, I always talk to him, but he is kind of loser, but that doesnt really matter, here is the problem, he always sits next to her, always touches (constantly) liek grabs her hands and stuff, or tries tickling her, or grabs he pens and books and stuff, she just sits there and kind of laughs, and just takes it, (i think she just is being nice, shes a friendly person, if she has a problem with someone she wont tell them) but it bugs the hell out of me, Im not a jealous person, if she talks to guys i dont care, im not controlive, but for some reason this just furates me, I try to let some steam out but grabbing something and squeazing it really tight, but i dont know if I'll be able to control myself if I jump up and started beating the hell out of him, I think I should talk to him about, like I said, I have no problem withn him any other time, just around her, but I dont want him saying anything to my gf abotu it and making me look like a jerk. At first he used to sit infront of her, but he got moved cuz he kept being a distractment by talkint to her, so now he pulls a chairup to her desk and sits there, when the teacher is done talking, I sit right next to her anyways. What really gets me, IS before me and her were going out, I asked him if he liked her, and he said no, and he gave me a whole bunch of reason that would have made sense for him not to liek her, and he told me that they are jsut friends, and he wasnt so bad before we were going out, He obviously must liek her. Does anybody have some suggestions what I can do about it, Pretty soon Im just going to explode and do something stupid, thanks in advance for help.

By the way, I hope that you do feel really good inside for what you did do though, no matter what, its not wrong or right, its just peoples opinion, you care for your sister, and you only did it looking out for her, so, she might get mad at you, but will eventually forgive you, and one day will probally realize why you did it, you just need to have more faith in her, after all were humans, and were not perfect, we learn from our mistakes from our experiences.

Hey, I think this may have been over reacted just a bit, I may be wrong, But you are talking about her breaking her trust with you, You just broke her trust by telling your parents, first off, I would never tell my parents if my brothers did anything, If what they did bothered me I would confront them about it, and if they denied it, I would tell them I had proof. And also, You said that next she will be sleeping around and doing drugs, That is unlikely, I have been drinking for years, my dad is a raging alcoholic, so when I was really young, it was easy for me to have alcohol, and of course I tried it, Im talking, when I was in grade 3, Me and my brothers would grab bottles and see who could do what. I've never really stopped drinking since then, but I only drink socialbly, or when I drink by myslef, I do not get extremely wasted to the point I pass out, but my point is, Ive have drinkin alot of alcohol and have never done any drugs or even thought about doing them. My friends offer me probally everyday if I want to try smoking pot or doing shrooms or anything And I never had, so I really wouldnt worry about that. She may not ave really liekd the experience and may not do it again, Maybe she didnt drive home drunk, and has enough sense not too, but I am just saying, I wouldnt be concerned, alcohol is nto a big deal.

Well, Is there a good specific reason why I shouldnt buy her the dvd, If her parents bought it for her, they are gunna have to return it (lol ) but I just want to get it for her, maybe show her I was listening and paying attention, and maybe to show that I care, I dont think I need to get to know her any better, Ive known her for a year, and have always talked to her, and We have been on a couple dates, I just dont think she knows what to do now having a boyfriend and is kind of nervous, so I want to get things started, We cant do anything this weekend anyways becasue she is gone, and we cant do anything during the week either. Im not crazy about the rose idea, only because I would just feel stupid about giving her one, because I dont think she is into that kind of stuff. Thanks anyways tho,

Like, do you mean I should wait to do stuff with her until we had some more dates, or should I wait to get her a gift? Anybody else have opinions?