Josh G.

ya were boh the same age nd in the same grade

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OK, so i finally asked the girl i liked out, she said yes, and then i gto on the bus and went home, went to work, got home got on msn, and she was on, Started talkin to her, and she didnt seem to talk as much as usual but she ddint say anything abotu earlier, and just kinda talked abotu normal things, so I wasnt sure How she felt then abotu me asking her out, so I said, Im sorry if I freaked you out earlier, and she said, it was ok, she wasnt expecting it, and she didnt know I liked her that way , then I said, well i do, but im not sure how u feel, so she said, well i liek u, but i just didnt know u liekd me like that, i thought u just liked me as a friend. So now i feel liek she just liked me as a friend and didnt know what to say and just said yes. Im not really sure how i feel, I guess i an just describe it as sad and i dont kno wut to do Any body kno wut is oing on in her head and wut she means????? thanks, josh.

Well thanks very much pinapple girl for the advice and comment, and thank to everybody for helping me out, well I guess ill tell you, I asked her, and she said YES!!!. I feel great right now, There is no way I would have had the courage to do it without everyones help, Thanks again!

LOL, that was awesome, thanks for the advice!

Ok, I think im extremely stupid, I want to ask this girl to be my girl friend but I just cant do it! I know how stupid it is to wait, and I do think she will say yes, but I'm to nervous, and right when I feel it is a good time to ask her out, I suddenly feel like she is completely unattracted to me, even though she doesnt act any different so I think it just me messing myself up. Even though I believe I have a good chance, Im completely scared of being rejected (even though I think she may be waiting for me to ask her out). Im usually not nervous around her at all, and I can ask her on dates with little problem in confidence but I cant seem to do this, I think I need something to just push me in so I cant back out, Or someone to tell me something to make me go for it. I know for a fact that I could ask her out on msn No problem, Its way too easy that way though and very tacky, I would never do that, becasue she means to much to me to do something liek that, please help! I need some advice before this all gets to late, Which it is prolly going to be soon! Thanks in advance, Josh G.

Ok, I dont think this is related to anything you want answered, I just wanted to say that, I always have been courtly to girls, Ive always held doors open and let a girl know she was 1st, Even strangers, Ive always done that, and it really confuses me, because if im out on a date, I do it, and the girl looks at me funny like im a weirdo or something , I dont get it, I try to be really polite, and it never seems to work on girls?

Ok, I have decided to just ask the girl I like out in a simple way. Ive been thinking of what I should say, And this is what I got, "hey, Ashley, I like you alot, would you like to go out with me?". I just got frustrated trying to do it not being so simple, but this right now is looking like the best approach, anything I should change, add or take away? also, should I ask her when I see her at school alone, Or should I take her on a date, and ask her at the end? thanks in advance, Josh Galea

Well I Am in need of some great date ideas, Where can I go and take a girl too, I want to take her somewhere exiting and fun and romantic (doesnt have to be all those in one) but has anyone gone on some really good dates they wouldnt mind sharing (so I can steal them, lol) Thanks in advance, Josh.

Well, I have a sorta rare sports car, which I am restoring, I wont be driving it to school until march, and it seems that I already have a line up of people wanting rides (its only a 2 seater too, which is kinda bad for this situation) but if u dont want to give them a ride, say, why dont u get your own car, and put useless miles on it, or waste gas. Me and my friends have a little deal goin on tho, Whoever drives gets free lunch, Which works for me, we usually get a pizza and eat it on the way back to school, but, You dont have to make exuses, becasue if they are "using" you, they are going to continue walking all over you, Ull never get respect that way.

Just find out what he is interested in, Me, Im restoring my first car right now, and I race dirtbikes, so if a girl says anything bout that stuff, Im hooked, instant turn on. I think its pretty much safe to say, if u talk to a guy about cars, its gonna go good, cuz even if u dont liek cars, u have definatly got his attention and he will think about u in a cetain way (It works on me! ) I dont know if all guys are intersted in dirtbikes, but just find out what they like, (here is some very important advice, if u talk about cars, and u know nothing about them, dont pretend u do, nothing is worse than a girl talking to me abotu them, and not knowing what the heck she is talking about, likw when im talking abotu performanc eand stuff like that, just talk abotu different types of cars, ) If u know about cars and can talk about anything abotu them all i have to say is...drool. that would be awesome well I hoped that helped.

lol, well thanks for the advice and complimnets 8) , I think im gunna go for it

Ok heres the scoop, I used to be a very nervous and shy guy, so I never talked to any girls or anything, so I never had any girl friends....So I have never kissed a girl, Like i said I was very shy and had very low self esteem and it made me very depressed, I couldnt get a gf, But after I recently found out, that I have like 30 female stalkers, and lots of other girls that like me, I have shot up in self esteem alot, and am not shy or nervous around girls anymore (even tho all the girls stalking me at school and talking about me kind of freaks me out, Ive been noticing, when I walk around the halls, lots of girls just look at me, and complete strangers come up and talk to me like were best frinds) But I have found a girl, that has a crush on me, That i really feel is right for me and I really like her, We have been on some dates, and i want to be her bf, but neve rmade it official yet, but i really want to kiss her, I dont know how to start off and initiate it, or what to do (no experiece what so ever) so Any advice here would be great, I can justify asking how to initiate the first kiss but I really feel stupid for asking how to kiss a girl, cuz i dont kno how to, but hey, stuff happens. thanks in advance, Josh.

Ok, the girl I liek, I have been taking on a couple dates, I want to ask her out (to be my girlfriend) but I dont have the guts, Im hoping it just becomes official, n e ways, my parents want to meet her really bad and want me to bring her to my house for dinner and a family movie, I would not feel comfortable about this at all, about asking her, about he rbeing at my house r about meeting my entire family. Now my paretns are getting very mad at me, that I wont do this, and trying to give me the silent treatment and little threats and stuff, I dont know how to explain it to them, how i feel, And i don want to n e wyas becasue they wont listen, but if i just give in, I want to know if this girl would bein uncomfertable coming over, Ill give you some backround, I havnt met her parents, I think she said her mother would liek to meet me, (her dad would kill me if he met me becasue hes protective of his daughter(arnt all dads?) ) Ive been to he rhouse only to pick her up for a date and drop her off, her parents never come to the door to meet me, and basically, ive only been on a couple dates with her, talk to her on msn, and a little bit at school, soooo........Would it be ok to ask her to come to myu house and hang out wth my weird family, or should I stick my ground and not do it until we are going out and I feel comfertable woth her anf my family.

well thankyou, I might try the poem thing for later, I might just see how things go and i might just be blunt and ask her. But maybe soem girls can give me some advice here too, what would u like to hear or experience or what? give me some examples, if guys still want to reply too thats more than cool, thanks again, Josh

ashley

If he's shy, do him a favour and YES

well i dont have a problem about asking her out on a date or another one, I want to ask her to be my girlfriend now. I am 99.9 percent sure she will say yes, actually im 100 percent, but i just want a special way to do it, (but not a wuss way if its possible). Thanks for the advice tho.

Ok, Im going to ask this girl out, we went on a few dates, we decided to go somewhere tomorrow, we havnt decided where too, but she is really exited, n e ways and tells me she is, so this is very good, she obviously wants to go out with me, but tomorrow on our date (ill prolly take her to the movies) I want to ask her out, But I want to know how to do it in exact words. I want it to be spontaneous and special i dunno just good and stuff. I dont want to be like "hey, will you be my gf?" cuz, i dunno its not good enough. What is the best way to ask her to be your gf that she will be impressed about it, Please lol, Can i have some exact words to say thanks in advance, Josh.

Thanks alot for the advice, but Im really curious on what she meant about, If we have a song that was it, is that a really good thing or just normal?

Hi, well, heres the scoop. There is a girl I am sure has feelings for me (she is always flirting with me and hinting off that she likes me) and I do like her, but I think Im acting on it too late (because I liked another girl). But I like this one alot, And last night I took her on a date, A song played that I never heard in my life but she new it really well (it was some country song or something that is always played around her area or something) but when we heard it she got all exited and started singing along with it. During it, she said to me, " If we ever have a song together, this is it" Which made me feel really good and hopeful. I am wondering does this mean she hopes to get into a relationship with me? I don't really know what this means but hopefully you guys can help me out here. Second question, I would like to ask her out again, and I havnt talked to her today, but I was wondering I should ask her out for next weekend or if that is too long away or too short of a period? also when should I ask her, right away or should I hold off for a bit? Third question, I really do like her, and i do think that it is not too late and she does want to have a relationship with me, Should I wait for another date or two to ask her out? and what exactly should I say to her? I really dont want to screw this up becasue i have next to no dating experience what so ever! fourth question? Ok heres a biggie, If I am going to be going out with her, there are a few obstacles that are not going to help like this one. I am willing to work through it, but I need some help! here it is, her dad hates boys!!!!!! her dad especially hates me and has never even met me!!!!! Heres y, somebody broke into my msn said some pretty vulgar things and put an explicit display picture on my account and he saw everything, so she says he thinks I am a bad kid (and ive heard from friends that this is not a guy to mess with!) but im not a bad guy and I want him to be able to realize it as soon as he meets me so he will give me a chance to show what im really like. Any advice? this girl tells me hes not that bad and if he knew me he would like me and he is interseted in the same things as me! Any advice on anything ive talked about would be awesome, thanks in advance, Josh

If you want him to simply just tell you if he likes you or not then its quite simple,....ask!, I am a guy and even if hes shy this should work because im shy and if a girl asks right, Ill tell them. Do it after he makes you laugh look in his eyes, that way he knows you are serious but have a smile on your face and still kinda laughing so he kinda gets the hint you like him and just come out and say, "do u like me" or something maybe dress it up. if he says no and blushes or looks away he does, if hes says yes, then hes been waiting for you to ask him or for a good chance to express it.

Ok, I made my decision, I asked the other girl out to go bowling this weekend, so were gonna go on a double date kind of thing. Thanks for the advice.

ok heres the dilema, I really like this girl, if uve read my previous posts i know how bad and the one im talking about, but i can never talk to her and and i think i have given up all hope on her and i dont think it is possible for me to go out with her anymore. Now there is another girl that i have some feelings for, and i know she likes me alot, i could ask her out anywhere anyway anytime and shed do it, but I feel so sick over the other girl i want her so bad and I dont know if i should just go out with this girl who likes me. The problem is, I feel really bad about it though, is that i would be so mad at myself if when i was going out with this other girl, i had a chance with the girl i really love, I have a feeling I would dump her for this other girl but i would feel so bad. Any opinions on what i should do I dont know anymore. Sorry if this is confusing.

I got a question, when your talking to a girl, do they like a co.cky attitude or a friendly, sweet one? Girls always say "Oh my God, a nice guy with a good heart turns me on" so I try that and nothing really happens, then my frined tells me, "be co.cky, joke around about them at their expence, works like charm", He demonstrates and suceeds. Im guessin the co.cky thing is good, but how far should I go, if a girl asks if i think she is pretty, should I just say something like, "hey, people are just staring at the pimple on your forehead (in a joking manor) or should I give in to be an wussy and sayin, "Ya, your so beautiful (not in a joking manor)......? By the way i spelt co.cky the way it is becasue without the period, it wont let me post becasue its "profanity"