skyteph
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If this guy has a girlfriend and is making advances on you, would you really want him anyway? After all, if he's willing to take it further with you whilst with this girl, what's stopping him from doing the same if/when you's get serious. And if by saying 'reply nicely' that you just want us to say, oh golly ghee yes he likes you, then tough luck
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Really, would having one kiss (infront of her MUM!) and blowing any chance of dating her again be worth it? Especially with more kisses in the future, whats the big deal with holding off /one/?
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When you're 20 do you really have that much of a need to drink? no, but you do anyway Or do /you/ do that just to 'fit in with the crowd'?
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It's simple: I like a challenge. It doesn't matter /how/ it's challenging to get with you (as long as you aren't a jerk), but it's hard to resist.
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Or maybe she knows how much you are both in love with each other, and feels that you say this just so you don't hurt her feelings. I know that when my friends compliment me, occasionally I think that they /have/ to say that because they are my friends.
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Kinda a Guy kind of Question: What makes a guy tick?
skyteph replied to suzysuzy's topic in Dating Advice
You have it all worked out ahew! I'd like to see the day that a girl comes along, turns your head and looks nothing like that -
See what alcohol does to people
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What is the legal age for sex in America? In Australia it's 16!
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Not at all, you should continue posting but stop putting yourself down when you do it.
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Oh yes, what was I thinking, believing what I was taught in government organised Sex Ed and Health classes for the last three years. How silly of me.
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How do you know when you've hurt a girls feelings?
skyteph replied to Spectral's topic in Dating Advice
I think Santa sorta summed it up. For me I avoid contact with that person, and if they ask me something I pretty much give a one word answer and an "I don't care" glare. -
Grow some balls. Try actually GETTING OUT THERE and maybe you might ACTUALLY get someone.
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To be honest, I'd disagree. I guess all those Health and Human Development classes have been teaching me crap then..?
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For the same reason you'd get excited if a "hot" girl looked at you! It'd make you feel attractive, and it makes us feel attractive when it happens. Really they aren't that shallow, if you saw a good-looking girl checking you out, I'm sure you'd be a bit excited just as they are! You were being a bit hypocritical when you think about it. And they way someone looks can change when they get a boost of self-esteem. An average looking guy can make himself look way better if he struts into a room with confidence, doesn't care how many, or how few girls want him, and feels that if one girl doesn't like him, who cares, plenty more will! It doesn't really seem that you're trying to get self-esteem, you're just too worried about girls liking you. Trust me, no girl will go near you unless you start loving yourself. Every time you make a post doubting yourself you are actually MAKING THE CHNACE OF GETTING A GIRL WORSE! You're telling your self that you are UGLY and that YOU HAVE NO CHANCE. If you think you're ugly and worthless, so will everyone else. If you want people to think you're good looking, YOU need to start thinking it first. YOU need to start caring about yourself. YOU need to gain self-esteem. Only YOU can change what people think of you. A wise person once said something along the lines of, Always rate highly of yourself, the world looks at you from your own estimate.
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I'm afraid I'll never find love and scared to death I will!
skyteph replied to skyteph's topic in Dating Advice
Kitz that's exactally what I'm worried about! I mean "Bad Boys" are called bad for a reason aren't they? Has anyone ever actually dated a "Bad Boy" and had it come out good in the end? -
No problem!
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Exactally! I'm sure if your friendship is as good as you say it is, it will be able to overcome a little bump in the road
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I'm afraid I'll never find love and scared to death I will!
skyteph replied to skyteph's topic in Dating Advice
I think I'm more scared about the type of influence it'd have on me. I'm happy with who I am now, and I know that everyone changes, even if it's just a little, when they are in a relationship, so I'm scared that I'll change for the worse. But at the same time I feel really naïve for thinking that everyone must have a bit of good in them and that maybe I'd be a good influence on /him/ and /he'd/ change for the better. -
If she wants a game, give her one! Just remember to be an obtainable challenge
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Picture him doing something really gross but slightly funny, that'll make him seem less high and mighty and more approachable
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Even if she doesn't have feelings for you, isn't having to keep all your feelings inside already jeopardising your friendship? Maybe you could explain to her that you'd never want to do anything to ruin your friendship with her, and that you really value it, then ease it in from there. Either that or you'll simply have to move on, but hey, you never know, maybe she's willing to give it a try too
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Shinobe you say that you have a lot of confidence, but I really doubt it. You need to love yourself before other people will love you! When you wouldn't change anything about yourself, then you know that you have self-esteem, and looks won't seem like the all mighty aspect any more. But I'm not entirely disagreeing, you won't get many looks if you don't care about your appearance and seem like you just dragged yourself out of a sewer! Derge what you are saying may have happened, but you have to remember that males and females are "wired" differently, so to speak. They both react to situations differently, and your storey does not contradict the fact that yes, girls mature around 18 moths to 2 years ahead of guys.
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This is another "Bad Boys" topic, yep, another one. However this one is slightly different as I think I'm actually going through "the stage". There is a guy, a guy who would probably fall within the "Bad Boy" category, who smokes and hangs out with a crowd I never bother to associate with because I'm not into being a smoking rebel. However he /is/ attractive and paid minor attention to me and since then I've been partially hooked. I feel naive for saying it, but sometimes I feel like maybe he is a nice guy, after all, I don't really know him. On the other hand I know that I cannot change him and he'd probably be a bad influence on me, hurting me in the end, so I'm scared to think that maybe I like him. Has anyone felt like this, or had personal experience before? What's a girl to do?
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If she didn't like you then kissing her more suggestively probably would freak her out, even though by what you've said it sounds like she's all for it!