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But this isn't just teasing, it's using teasing with a positive spin TO flirt.

Personally jordan_2, I think that you're being a bit sceptical. If this girl was not drunk and thefoot wishes to get to know her, then he should go ahead. Just because they met at a club doesn't mean that once they get to know each other they won't fall in love.

Actually it's the third option. The option that (without flamming) you annoy us by refusing to accept that any way other then the pure of heart nice guy route isn't an acceptable way to flirt. I'm not saying that your way hasn't worked, but there /are/ other ways that are just as useable and just as acceptable.

I do believe you did not understand what I said. As I stated, the question asked was 'what do you notice first?'. Whether or not you decide to judge a person by their physical aspects has nothing to do with the simple fact that you'd notice them (in most cases) first. Another thing is Shinobe, a majority of women may be born with a good figure, but it's damn hard to keep it. A HIGH percentage of woman can't just eat what they want and never work out, but somehow manage to keep a good figure. You need to work to maintain it. I would appreciate in future that you do not challenge my response if you have misinterpreted what I have said.

I'm not laughing at your jokes, I'm just straight out laughing /at/ you.

1. That sounds a lot different to: 2. Either you don't know how to make a joke, or she was overly sensitive. Probably the first one because this: WoHoHo! Contradicted by your own attitude

Guys are so predictable. I was just waiting for that line. Come on, I've seen the Man Show, I get how most guys think. ROFL, that's hilarious! And for the record, you may have seen the Man Show or whatever it was on, but I haven't.

Jordan, I believe the question asked 'what do you notice first?', and clearly if a chick with breast the size of watermellons walked past, you'd notice them before say, her eyes (which look like pin pricks compared So you're a genuine guy, that doesn't mean you can't appreciate a womans body or the hard work she puts in to get a good figure. Hell, being complimented by a guy over something physical, rocks! Boosts our self esteem and what not. And for the whole 'I'm a nice guy' thing I keep reading about, yes women like nice guys but not ones who /call/ themselves nice. At very least in high school being called 'nice' by a girl is like the social kiss of death, let alone calling /yourself/ it. You may as well cut off your testies and hand deliver them to the girl.

Ha! I'm sure a girl with a DD rack would just fade into the background...

If I didn't know you better I'd think you were trying to pick me up...but thats not your style

Nice to know I'm the girl who always disagrees with you, Shysoul. I'm glad to have made a name for myself Teasing playfully, in the flirty way we are talking about is totally different to normal teasing. This teasing is flirting, and even the most sensitive girls (for example my friend...god knows how she became /my/ friend lol) aren't offended if the flirting is done correctly. If it crosses "the line" then it's no longer playful, flirty teasing, it's something else, and that something else isn't what we're talking about. And Shysoul, seeing as your not a girl, but my friends and I are, shouldn't my word that at very least some (if not a majority) of girls don't mind as long as the flirting is done tactfully, be taken into account? I cannot of course speak for every woman, but you seem to have dismissed it. And yes, Shysoul, you can get places by not playfully teasing (as you of course, pointed out), but that doesn't mean that playfully teasing can't get you just as far, if not further. Really, if someone is offending girls by flirtily teasing, then maybe they're doing it wrong.

Eye contact, sometimes easier said then done, with certain people the oppertunities don't arise. Anoyone else have any ideas?

As long as it's playful, and obvious, teasing, I don't see a problem

Sex is still sex...

What are some obvious signs to give to show a person you like them? Keeping in mind that yes, I /am/ talking to him when possible, even if that's not very much, and no, I don't want to straight out tell him and deal with the 'play-it-cool-since-I-know-she-likes-me' crud

If you're with a guy and you love him, /and/ know the risks involved, that's a time when you should be able to engage in sex if you want (but not necessarily have to).

We still /are/ animals in a sense, maybe slightly more cultured, but we will always have primitive instincts for possibly thousands/millions of years to come. My thoughts on why we do tend to opt for attractive mates, are far from basic (not to mention that they are correct) and that's a generalisation that you cannot back up. Not every attractive guy, who knows he's attractive, will 'burn' a girl. Sure, there may be some, but there may also be some unattractive people giving others a hard time about different things. And also by not caring about wether you find someone attractive (keeping in mind that everyone finds different things attractive), doesn't that make you desperate? They have no right to put people down, true, but you also have no right to make generalisations about ALL attractive people, over a couple of incidents that have occurred. Haha, well said, it's what I was aiming to say in my last post but you made it come out better

This isn't a dating service

Hey, if you like it, more power to you.

If you don't feel secure he's clean ask him to get tested. If he loves you he'll go through a bit of pain to ensure you're both safe.

I think melrich pretty much got it.

A light playful punch is a good indication the guy likes you. Of course knocking her flat won't score you any brownie points

Lol, don't we all.

Stop focussing on all the bad things, or you'll miss out on all the good.