Hey guys, heres my story, sorry if its a little long.
Ive been datin this girl for a while now, and all along shes been tellin me that she was a virgin. She had the whole belief that sex was meant for when someones in love, not just for the hell of it. Well one day, she decided to go ahead and try it for the first time. After, she was really happy that she got to do it with someone she cared for as her first time, instead with some random guy in a just a hookup. Up till now I had no reason to think that she wasnt a virgin, I mean she was very awkward durin the whole time, didnt know what to do, and she said that it hurt a lot for a while, tho she never bled, not one tiny bit, or at least not durin or a little after.
I was talkin to a frind about the whole virgin thing, and when i mentioned that my gf didnt bleed at all the first time, he was ratehr surprised, cuz his gf bled a lot her first time. That kinda made me think that maybe she lied about it. Tho I reallly doubt she did, I still cant help but have that thought in the back of my mind. So my question is, do all girls bleed the first time or does it differ from girl to girl. Also, shes done a lot of fingering in her past, so i thought that that could be the reason she didnt bleed, but my friend told me just fingering is not enough to break the hymen thingy that causes the bleeding.
So please, anyone if u know somethin about this, let me know.