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Thread: Controlling bf

  1. #11
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    I cannot understand why you are with this guy!? And, you return to this controlling manipulative nut. He is abusive! Why do you allow him access to your phone?

    Get away from him! Block hum! Then, consider some therapy!

    Change your passwords.

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    How come he has had unfettered access to your phone all this time? He broke your trust the first time he went through it and although you chose to stay with him, putting a lock code/fingerprint ID on the phone would have prevented him from doing so again.

    I'd say enough is enough and it's time to split up, block and delete.

  3. #13
    Originally Posted by reinventmyself
    You live with your mom currently? Does she know any of this? How old are you?
    Honestly, I'd be concerned for your safety. Your boyfriend is abusive.
    Currently still live with him, no she does not and 26

  4. #14
    Originally Posted by boltnrun
    What does your mom think of this insecure d-bag?
    She doesn't know

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    Move out. It will only get worse and you will feel even more like a prisoner. Tell people you can trust what is really going on. Enlist the help of trusted friends and family to help you extricate yourself from this so you don't waste your life being his personal whipping post.
    Originally Posted by needadvisepl
    Currently still live with him, no she does not and 26

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    Originally Posted by needadvisepl
    She doesn't know
    So you have been hiding the truth from her? Why? Is it because you know what he's doing is wrong?

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    Why are you still living with this creep?

    Do your friends know?

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    Contact one of the Domestic Violence hotlines on the Internet for a referral to a counseling or women's shelter near you.They will help you make a plan to leave the guy safely.

    Otherwise, you're just relinquishing your control over to him, and there's nothing anyone else can do about that.

    It's your decision.

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    Need, he is an abuser!

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