Maria89 Posted October 19, 2019 Share Posted October 19, 2019 My now ex and I had been dating for about five months. Last Saturday I found a condom in one of his bags (we don’t use condoms) right before an event and I got really upset. My plan was to calmly ask him why he had a condom, but during the event he saw right through me and knew something was wrong. We stepped out for a minute and I told him I found the condom and then I burst into tears. I didn’t directly accuse him of cheating I just told him I had found it and I got upset. He explained to me why he had it and I thought all was good between us then I noticed this whole week that he was somewhat distant with me I tried brushing it off at first, but I knew in my gut something was wrong. I asked him a couple and he assured me there was nothing wrong. Today I was getting ready to head out to an important event and he called me, basically told me that we weren’t a good fit because he didn’t like how I’ve accused him of cheating...twice. Didn’t like that I had these insecurities. Before that he told me he had been struggling about what to do about us and I asked him if he wanted to continue in this relationship and work things out or break up. He chose the latter obviously. This tore me up especially because he is not one to just call up and tell me over the phone when something is wrong. He is the type of man that when something serious is going on he will tell you in person. I really want to fight for this relationship because he is an incredible man, but I don’t know how to approach it... Link to comment
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