CBC2000 Posted September 23, 2019 Share Posted September 23, 2019 I haven’t been here in a while, but I’m just feeling extremely down and I just need some advice to break through this cycle of low self esteem. So ever since my last real relationship which was like 2 years ago, I haven’t been really able to get in another solid one. Since then the guys that I meet seem to be only interested in having sexual relations with me and that’s about it. I am an attractive young lady, but I bring more to the table than looks. For some reason, I feel like no matter what I do, or no matter where I meet a guy, whether it’s at grocery store, or the bar, they seem to be more interested in just sexually. This starting to make me feel low and a bit depressed. It’s making me lose confidence in the woman I am, and I feel like I’m becoming closed off to men over this. I recently met a guy in August while he was purchasing some of the products that I sell. He seemed to be interested in me, he asked me out that same day. I decided to go out drinking with him and his friends. Afterwards, we went back to his place b/c I had forgotten my car keys there. We were both a little under the influence, but I told him I was going to leave(I just wanted to avoid any type of attempts to have sex with me). He convinced me to stay, so I agreed to sleep on the couch. He tried to of course have sex with me, but I declined. We slept on the couch, but the next day he took me out for breakfast and I left right after that. We hung out twice after that and then we had sex, which I feel like it was too fast also, but for me it was in the heat of the moment things. Things where okay until I realized that I was starting to develop feelings for him. He threw a party with his friends, he told me about it, but never invited me to it, he’s told me that I give him the vibe that i’m too busy, so that’s why he didn’t invite me. I didn’t believe his excuse, but this is the moment that I started to realize that he just may not be that into me, or maybe he feels like we haven’t established a relationship so maybe being around his friends in a intimate setting would be too much. Fast forward to last Tuesday, he texted me and asked me to dinner, so I decided to go. We had a good time, we actually have conversations and we laugh non stop. After Tuesday I didn’t hear anything from him the next day, so I texted him Thursday to just check up on him. Ever since I checked up on him Thursday, I haven’t heard from him. He is super active on my social media, but not once has he checked on me in 4 days. I know he will call or text sometime this week to schedule something, but at this point I just feel like i need to just end whatever we have going on. I need advice on whether I should even tell him how I feel when he contacts me or if I should just cut him off with no explanation. I like him, but I don’t feel like he likes me because i feel like a man who wants to be with you will make it clear from the beginning. Please advice me Link to comment
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